first off, if you are attractive, then you will get hunted down by ugly short women even if you have shit for brains, this is why you see some of those weird couples with a somewhat attractive man and a super ugly woman, it's because the man is autistic or doesn't approach for some reason, and waits for women to approach
second all this NT stuff is not that simple, it's often spoken of like it's just another thing you can maxx, but you can't just force NT and friends to happen whenever you feel like it, a whole bunch of shit needs to be working in concert, including what other people are doing, environment, and good luck
some will see guys having a little success because they have a large sociable family, never left their happy hometown, and are just plain lucky, and think that's some secret NT technique or "the oofy doofy pill", there's actually nothing there for an autist to replicate in order to obtain success, you either have those things or you don't