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'Threesome with my boyfriend was fun but I’m now falling for the other guy'
A reader writes to the Mirror's agony aunt Coleen Nolan after sleeping with her boyfriend's friend, breaking the rules of their arrangement
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My boyfriend and I have always been very open and experimental when it comes to sex, and over the past few months, we’ve been having threesomes with one of his good friends.
However, recently, I saw his friend on my own and we ended up in bed together, which is breaking all the rules we set out at the beginning.
We’ve slept together a few times since and haven’t told my boyfriend, and I’m finding myself becoming more and more attached to him and less so to my boyfriend.
I think I could actually be falling in love.
I’m also feeling very guilty about hiding this from my boyfriend.
Neither of us knows what to do, but we both agree we feel something deeper for each other and that it’s not only about the sex anymore.
Even though my boyfriend was the one who suggested the threesome and brought his friend into it, I know he’ll be devastated if we tell him or he finds out. I’m feeling confused and don’t know how to get myself out of this mess – have you any ideas?