I know a lot of the women who lurk this forum are thinking that you can prevent your sub-Chad sons from being blackpilled by being proactive. You think you can still get grandchildren out of the betabucks model.
I'm here to tell you - from personal experience - that you are wrong.
Your sub-Chad sons will be incels, and there's nothing you can do about it.
I'm 41. I was an incel long before the term ever existed.
There was no Muh Andrew Tate (whom none of us give a shit about...he's redpill, not blackpill) or "manosphere influencerz." I didn't get "recruited" into a "crab bucket" "cult."
But I didn't start out blackpilled, either.
When I was in kindergarten, I actually had two girls over for my 6th birthday party. I was also friendly with a girl on the street. Girls didn't yet realize that I was a subhuman in looks and this meant they weren't supposed to talk to me unless it's to say, "ewwww, you're ugly."
Later on at age 6, I was sent to therapy because I had anger management problems. I was breaking toys and ripping things up when I got angry.
As you can imagine, I didn't even have an idea of "misogyny" at that time.
Throughout the rest of my childhood and adolescence, I was never really without a TheRapist raping my parents' checking account. What started out as anger management that never got fixed turned into every other flaw of mine being something that I was supposed to talk to TheRapist about, such as anxiety (not social anxiety at that time), etc.
Yet despite all that TheRapy, I matured into an incel.
Therapy does not prevent inceldom.
A turning point for me was in 2nd grade. I was extremely talkative in 2nd grade. My assigned seating was next to two girls and I was constantly talking out of turn to talk to them. I didn't have a "girls have cooties" instinct. I was so talkative my desk was moved to the back of the classroom.
This was also when I saw why the boys I was friends with were telling me girls were bitches.
After thousands of "BEEEEEE QUIEEEEEETTTTT!" and "SHUH-UUUUUUUP!" from the girls I was trying to be friendly with, I figured the boys were probably right.
When we got to middle school, however, "is that your girlfriend?" went from being a teasing comment to a comment of respect. Boys were constantly talking about which girls were "hot."
Boys were now talking to girls all the time, but I was confused. How am I supposed to talk to girls when they hate me?
I was raised with sufficient bluepilled cope and assured that women care more about personsality than looks. All the women in my family assured me I was handsome/cute and the girls would totally like me, and I just needed to "think of them as people." The same stupid shit Redditors write is exactly what I had beaten into me when I was an adolescent.
But reality became apparent when girls would openly mock me. Boys would tease by saying that girls should date me, prompting responses of, "EWWWW." For me, nothing had changed since 2nd grade. Girls wanted to talk to boys who weren't ugly dorks.
Girls would also smirk when I was around and constantly talk condescendingly to me, making fun of how small I was, etc. They'd mock the idea of any girl ever finding me attractive in various ways. I was an ugly little puppy to them. "Cute" in an asexual way. I was supposed to just accept it.
When I got to college, it went from outright mockery to just ignoring me. I had no interset in any of them for anything other than their looks, anyway. All of them drank. What was I supposed to talk to them about? They were not the same species. They were only interested in partying and hooking up with Chads.
At this point, I started to realize that the girls who had been bitches to me weren't the exception. They were the rule. It was clear that NAWALT was bullshit.
Here's the point: Misogyny is not casued by Muh Andrew Tate, nor Muh Manosphere Bros, nor incels on the internet.
MISOGYNY IS CAUSED BY WOMEN.
You want to insult incels, fine.
Keep that same energy when your sub-Chad sons decide to LDAR rather than pursue a passionless beta sperm donor relationship with a woman who is willing to settle for them.
Don't complain about not being able to have grandchildren. Your sons didn't decide that - the women you choose to defend so much did.
I'm here to tell you - from personal experience - that you are wrong.
Your sub-Chad sons will be incels, and there's nothing you can do about it.
I'm 41. I was an incel long before the term ever existed.
There was no Muh Andrew Tate (whom none of us give a shit about...he's redpill, not blackpill) or "manosphere influencerz." I didn't get "recruited" into a "crab bucket" "cult."
But I didn't start out blackpilled, either.
When I was in kindergarten, I actually had two girls over for my 6th birthday party. I was also friendly with a girl on the street. Girls didn't yet realize that I was a subhuman in looks and this meant they weren't supposed to talk to me unless it's to say, "ewwww, you're ugly."
Later on at age 6, I was sent to therapy because I had anger management problems. I was breaking toys and ripping things up when I got angry.
As you can imagine, I didn't even have an idea of "misogyny" at that time.
Throughout the rest of my childhood and adolescence, I was never really without a TheRapist raping my parents' checking account. What started out as anger management that never got fixed turned into every other flaw of mine being something that I was supposed to talk to TheRapist about, such as anxiety (not social anxiety at that time), etc.
Yet despite all that TheRapy, I matured into an incel.
Therapy does not prevent inceldom.
A turning point for me was in 2nd grade. I was extremely talkative in 2nd grade. My assigned seating was next to two girls and I was constantly talking out of turn to talk to them. I didn't have a "girls have cooties" instinct. I was so talkative my desk was moved to the back of the classroom.
This was also when I saw why the boys I was friends with were telling me girls were bitches.
After thousands of "BEEEEEE QUIEEEEEETTTTT!" and "SHUH-UUUUUUUP!" from the girls I was trying to be friendly with, I figured the boys were probably right.
When we got to middle school, however, "is that your girlfriend?" went from being a teasing comment to a comment of respect. Boys were constantly talking about which girls were "hot."
Boys were now talking to girls all the time, but I was confused. How am I supposed to talk to girls when they hate me?
I was raised with sufficient bluepilled cope and assured that women care more about personsality than looks. All the women in my family assured me I was handsome/cute and the girls would totally like me, and I just needed to "think of them as people." The same stupid shit Redditors write is exactly what I had beaten into me when I was an adolescent.
But reality became apparent when girls would openly mock me. Boys would tease by saying that girls should date me, prompting responses of, "EWWWW." For me, nothing had changed since 2nd grade. Girls wanted to talk to boys who weren't ugly dorks.
Girls would also smirk when I was around and constantly talk condescendingly to me, making fun of how small I was, etc. They'd mock the idea of any girl ever finding me attractive in various ways. I was an ugly little puppy to them. "Cute" in an asexual way. I was supposed to just accept it.
When I got to college, it went from outright mockery to just ignoring me. I had no interset in any of them for anything other than their looks, anyway. All of them drank. What was I supposed to talk to them about? They were not the same species. They were only interested in partying and hooking up with Chads.
At this point, I started to realize that the girls who had been bitches to me weren't the exception. They were the rule. It was clear that NAWALT was bullshit.
Here's the point: Misogyny is not casued by Muh Andrew Tate, nor Muh Manosphere Bros, nor incels on the internet.
MISOGYNY IS CAUSED BY WOMEN.
You want to insult incels, fine.
Keep that same energy when your sub-Chad sons decide to LDAR rather than pursue a passionless beta sperm donor relationship with a woman who is willing to settle for them.
Don't complain about not being able to have grandchildren. Your sons didn't decide that - the women you choose to defend so much did.
