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At what point/age should you give up on trying to find love?

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Title, I think I’ve scraped the barrel clean. Idk if i can cope any longer.
 
Depends on alot of things
 
It's not a choice tbh
 
Maybe around 30-35, but I'm in my early 20's and already gave up :feelscomfy:
 
first trimester
 
When your teens end. If you’re still sexless after your teens end then that’s a big indicator that you’re an ugly motherfucker. Think about it, you’re surrounded by prime foids in school and not one wanted you….
 
Depends on alot of things
Like what?
It's not a choice tbh
I never said it was a choice man im just saying when should i stop having a slither of hope it could happen
Maybe around 30-35, but I'm in my early 20's and already gave up :feelscomfy:
do u think a foid could truly love u in ur 30’s if u couldnt find love before then? Most of the time i feel like those are just betabuxxers
When your teens end. If you’re still sexless after your teens end then that’s a big indicator that you’re an ugly motherfucker. Think about it, you’re surrounded by prime foids in school and not one wanted you….
what about love? Some get sex but some never find someone who truly likes them for them
 
do u think a foid could truly love u in ur 30’s if u couldnt find love before then? Most of the time i feel like those are just betabuxxers
Yeah they're mostly betabux with very few exceptions
 
Roastie love? 25
Virgin girls? 18
 
what about love? Some get sex but some never find someone who truly likes them for them
Love is a male concept, the only men who are loved are Chads, non Chads have two paths to follow, you can improoooove and flush your self dignity down the toilet by being her doormat or embrace porn, buy a doll and LDAR.
 
Roastie love? 25
Virgin girls? 18
Virgin foids are only for chad typically, correct?
Love is a male concept, the only men who are loved are Chads, non Chads have two paths to follow, you can improoooove and flush your self dignity down the toilet by being her doormat or embrace porn, buy a doll and LDAR.
can u give a representation of a chad
 
You should give up on love the moment you realize that it's an illusion generated by your biology. If you mean give up on trying to find a mate, then that's harder to say. There's too many variables that go into it.
 
If you didn't get teen love, give up
 
You should give up on love the moment you realize that it's an illusion generated by your biology. If you mean give up on trying to find a mate, then that's harder to say. There's too many variables that go into it.
What are the variables? I feel like I was destined to fail whenever I was born. Not sure much else plays a role besides ur face and height and i definitely got the shittier end of that stick
 
What is the minimum looks level required for someone 5’8 in the west but also non nt of course
For a foid to truly be attracted to you atleast HTN
 
can u give a representation of a chad
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The example here are the Chads I refer to, if you don’t look like these men then you essentially live life on nightmare mode.
 
What are the variables? I feel like I was destined to fail whenever I was born. Not sure much else plays a role besides ur face and height and i definitely got the shittier end of that stick
Looks, money, status, age and culture. There's too many combinations of things when you break each of those down further, but the physical aspects are the most important. It's the biggest hurdle and barrier of entry. If you're not tall and/or good looking, just forget it, because the rest won't matter. It's a losing proposition and negative ROI for the effort you'll put in and torment you'll receive.

Learn Briffault's Law. Women see men only as a utility. Like @ParasiteToSociety said, love is a male concept. Women are only capable of loving their children. A man is only as good as what he has (genetics, money etc.) and what he can provide for her (good genes for her babies, comfort/financial security etc.).

You should focus on yourself and your copes.
 
Looks, money, status, age and culture. There's too many combinations of things when you break each of those down further, but the physical aspects are the most important. It's the biggest hurdle and barrier of entry. If you're not tall and/or good looking, just forget it, because the rest won't matter. It's a losing proposition and negative ROI for the effort you'll put in and torment you'll receive.

Learn Briffault's Law. Women see men only as a utility. Like @ParasiteToSociety said, love is a male concept. Women are only capable of loving their children. A man is only as good as what he has (genetics, money etc.) and what he can provide for her (good genes for her babies, comfort/financial security etc.).

You should focus on yourself and your copes.
This kind of makes me feel better knowing everything is truly out of our control. I wish life was designed better. I dont have any money or genetics that will suffice so at least i dont have to worry if im barely over the benchmark as guys will stress about this just to get divorced, get all their things taken away and left in utter shambles. Why do foids have to be such ruthless fucking cunts, they need to pay
 
Why do foids have to be such ruthless fucking cunts,
Ruthlessness towards males is part of female nature across many species, not just humans, but society also enables and allows them to express that aspect of their nature. Society works very hard to keep male nature in check, but female nature gets a free pass in Western societies - not so in patriarchal societies (the feminists like to label that as "male oppression").

they need to pay
They already are in many ways. Rates of unhappiness have been steadily increasing, since feminism has been inculcated in the minds of hundreds and millions of women from the 1960s up until today. Rates of mental illness and psychological medication are soaring, not to mention suicide amongst single females who learn too late that they've been lied to their whole life and now will die childless and alone. It turns out that yo can't have your cake and eat it to everything has a cost (including opportunities), and that the Disney princess fantasy is just that - a fantasy.
 
Ruthlessness towards males is part of female nature across many species, not just humans, but society also enables and allows them to express that aspect of their nature. Society works very hard to keep male nature in check, but female nature gets a free pass in Western societies - not so in patriarchal societies (the feminists like to label that as "male oppression").


They already are in many ways. Rates of unhappiness have been steadily increasing, since feminism has been inculcated in the minds of hundreds and millions of women from the 1960s up until today. Rates of mental illness and psychological medication are soaring, not to mention suicide amongst single females who learn too late that they've been lied to their whole life and now will die childless and alone. It turns out that yo can't have your cake and eat it to everything has a cost (including opportunities), and that the Disney princess fantasy is just that - a fantasy.
I see but even a day in my shoes is 10x worse than a day of them on their period
 
Whenever you feel like it
 
Love doesnt exist for sub 7s

Unless you are 15 and make use of the just be first theory
 
16- 18, when your bones fuse and your stuck at your height/skull for the rest of your life
 
If you aren’t 6’4 and look like him by the time you’re 18-19, just give up on life

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He’s a 6’4 prettyboy. No self improvements needed. Nothing extraordinary but that’s the bare minimum to not struggle in the dating market
 

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