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At what age did you realise you were incel?

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>19 in my case,
About the time when I stopped vidya coping and stepped into the real world
 
Puberty fucked me up but I never knew about the term incel until earlier this year. So 19.
 
this year
january
 
>19 in my case,
I stopped vidya coping and stepped into the real world

I only did this when i was 29 JFL. Never knew getting a gf was so hard. Then got instantly black pilled after getting zero tinder matches in 3 months.
 
Around 16/17. Before that i was a bluepilled faggot.
 
Well I realized that people didn't like me very early on, however I only realized that it was completely over for me between 17-19 tbh, and I've been slowly discarding every bluepilled illusion since then.
 
Well I realized that people didn't like me very early on, however I only realized that it was completely over for me between 17-19 tbh, and I've been slowly discarding every bluepilled illusion since then
Sounds like a lonesome road fren, hope you are doing ok. Where is that character from btw?
 
As other user said when i was 14 or 15 tealized i wasnt the kind of guy women find atractive however i was really concisius that i would never get a gf at the age of 20 although i didnt know about the term incel, im almost 27 now
 
at 14-15. Nobody wanted to talk to me, everytime I tried I was returned with disgust and condescension. Even teachers. Knew I wasn't the kind of person girls like being around, and later realized that was solely because I was ugly, especially at that age
 
at 21, so last year I finally found out that maybe just maybe personality is not that important and that is why I am still a KV
 
Probably when I was 16 years old. I had a 'redpilled' stage when I was 15 where I hyper focused on improving my wealth and aplha-personality/game. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
When i was 17. Its an ok age to digest the pill, i guess.
 
Until I became 16 I was convinced that I will loose my virginity at an healthy age (below 18) and also was a leftist SJW. Than I suddenly realised my non existing SMV and that I will be forever alone, I don't know why though.

It also was when the migration crisis startet and my political views drastically changed so maybe I just grew up and lost the naive mind of a child.
 
The first brutal sign was when a girl told me she doesn't like me because i'm ugly, i was like 13. I was met with all the typical treatment ugly males get but i was also very stubborn and somehow hoped a miracle would happen, i would meet a cute girl and we would both be into each other somehow, if not for my looks then for what i am as a person. It wasn't until i was like 22-23 when i had a oneitis, the foid was brutal to me and i realized everyone saw me as a non-human, it was like a veil was lifted finally. Drugs, games and daydreaming no longer did it for me and i had a massive mental breakdown from all the suffering and countless issues i had so far in my life. After that i no longer saw women and people in general the same way. I decided to go deeper down the rabbit hole which i was already into earlier and discovered so many males fucked over by life like me. It still hurts when i see a girl i like knowing how things are but i have never felt love or oneitis like before.
 
>19 in my case,
About the time when I stopped vidya coping and stepped into the real world
i am ashamed to say it but i was bluepilled until i was 30, i desperately tried to get a girlfriend for 20 years, it was extremely pathethic and i still cringe at the memories of me not realizing the foid is not interested (i was also unable to interpret social cues and behaved like a complete moron due to mental issues)
but i feel finally free of this burden (im 33 now)
 
22 atm. Didn't always call it "incel" but I always knew I was being unfairly fucked over when it came to foids especially.
 
The day I was born my mom screamed at my face: "I-incel, a b-bloody incel!!"
 
Last year at 21. I’m 22 now.
 
When middle school begun I felt something was off. I saw other peers getting attention from girls and even heard rumors of them doing sexual shit. But as the years rolled on and i went through highschool reality really kicked in.
 
as soon as i heard the term incel
 
Definitely age 16
 
15-16. At least i tried :(
 
5 when I started kindergarten I knew there was something wrong with my looks. But I didn't become black-pilled until 14/15.
 
A few months ago
 
from the moment I was born as an ethnic
 
redpilled during highschool? How did that manifest itself? did you actually take much action?

It was after a couple of brutal rejections and I was seeking some sort of explanation or solution. I had no reasoning for why I was getting rejected and others were not, I knew looks played a part and I could tell ugly from good looking but I didn't know the exact features that make a person better or worse looking.

I didn't actually know the exact term at the time but from what I thought and did I could tell I was 'redpilled'. I thought that most attraction was built off of the amount of money someone had. So I began 'moneymaxxing', this was a frustrating peroid for me as I had the time but not the conscientiousness to put in work and I felt as if I was wasting time and wasting my youth. I got into a bunch of stuff: Crypto currencies, the stock market. I managed to turn the £500 I had into well over £2000 in less than a year, but that was barely anything still. I also thought that I had to become more 'alpha' and act more dominant, I started weightlifting at the time and made some good progress with that aswell. I managed to get an actual visible six-pack for the first time in my life. I gave up because of my terrible frame though. I was also trying to fashionmaxx by trying to see what clothes looked good and supposedly give me a boost in attraction. All of this and other minor things like working on my personality :soy: and charisma.

I was so desperate to live out teenage love experiences. I tried so hard and got so far, but in the end it dosen't even matter.
 
I was so desperate to live out teenage love experiences. I tried so hard and got so far, but in the end it dosen't even matter.
Damn, I sometimes wonder what life would've been like had I need been vidyacoping during my entire childhood. Thanks for sharing your experiences, wish I coulda been there so we could have gone through it together.
I had no reasoning for why I was getting rejected and others were not
Is this with zero bias? I find it hard to believe that after doing just a few approaches you've already determined you did nothing wrong.
 
Is this with zero bias? I find it hard to believe that after doing just a few approaches you've already determined you did nothing wrong.

I had been fed the personality lies my entire life and led into delusion because I thought I was a nice person. I also viewed myself as more physically attractive than I actually was. They weren't really 'approaches', the girls I had liked had been in my classes at school for a while before I developed interest in them. I remember one of the girls quite vividly, and I had friends who knew her very well. She had liked a few other guys in my classes and I remember being told this by my friends. I tried to put two and two together "what made her like these guys so much" and the only thing I could infer from that was that they were more 'sporty' and 'confident' than me. I was ridiculously uninformed and stupid back then, but that occurred back when I was 13 way before I had my redpill phase.
I had been fed the personality lies my entire life and led into delusion because I thought I was a nice person. I also viewed myself as more physically attractive than I actually was. They weren't really 'approaches', the girls I had liked had been in my classes at school for a while before I developed interest in them. I remember one of the girls quite vividly, and I had friends who knew her very well. She had liked a few other guys in my classes and I remember being told this by my friends. I tried to put two and two together "what made her like these guys so much" and the only thing I could infer from that was that they were more 'sporty' and 'confident' than me. I was ridiculously uninformed and stupid back then, but that occurred back when I was 13 way before I had my redpill phase.

Also I'd add, that looking back on old class photos that all of the guys that she had liked were significantly better looking facially than I was and one of them was the tallest in the entire age group of our school jfl.
 
>19 in my case,
About the time when I stopped vidya coping and stepped into the real world
>20, but by 23 it set in hard and harder as nothign had worked.
 
When I heard about incel communities? Well over a year or two ago.

I figured out that I was simply undesirable to females around 16, but through college is when I started adopting blackpill views (before I knew they existed) about how love doesn't exist and there are less and less men who are able to get with foids.
 
Early 20's. That's when I knew for sure it wasn't going to happen.
 
I realised I was incel this year a little time after I joined uni,and got blackpilled.Before that I was redpilled as hell,trying to act alpha,with attitude,but nothing came from it,I just made 2 incel tier "friends" who never texted me back after classes ended,and somehow they also tried to act alpha the first days and talk to foids but without sucess.That also made me realize that foids didnt opened as easy by "alphas" in uni as PUA scammers depicted with "muh attitude"
 
I realized at thirteen but I tried to be blue pilled for many years. I gave up at 25 four years ago
 
16 but I really knew it when I was 22.
 
15-16 because of autism and height. Adding that with the facepill was even more brutal :feelsohgod:
 

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