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Even if I asked for her number too soon in the conversation, why does she not just tell me that she wants to take it easy? I find it immature and childish on her part that she can not just tell me.
Blocking someone because he asked for your number is immature, not me asking for your number. Communicate. Grow a spine. Instead, I am expected to read your mind and I better not dare to judge your imaginary timing wrongly, right?
So childish and immature and stupid. Even if it was too soon, why don't they just tell me? I am 19 and have no experience with girls. No I am not hateful. No, there's no "attitude" that "bleeds through" mid conversation.
I try to talk to girls normally and get shat on. I do not subscribe to the general mindset on this forum of hating all women because deep down, I am not hateful.
But to act like it's always just me is ridiculous. Fine, I asked to soon. Tell me. Communicate. Don't just block me for such a simple thing. That's you being childish.
Why am I expected to know EVERYTHING about flirting and dating at 19? God forbid I misjudged the timing slightly, now I am Hitler himself apparently.
So ridiculous. I hate it when I make a small mistake and then people act like it's the worst thing ever.
Then they start adding all of these fake details of how I was apparently rude, disgusting and bad to her. Apparently I am now a hateful person who can not be chatted with.
Just stop. I am not. I am frustrated at YOUR inability to communicate and tell me what's wrong. I guess it was part my fault, but also part her fault because why not just tell me to slow down? How am I supposed to know?
Fine, I won't ask for a girls number, ever again. Let them do the heavy lifting. They know it better, apparently.
Apparently, honesty is too much for some. Instead of just saying, “Let’s take it slow,” they expect me to read their bloody minds like I’m some sort of clairvoyant. It’s nonsense. I’m not a wizard, love—just use your words.
Instead, I get ghosted, blocked, or treated like I’ve spat in their tea. This whole act is the height of childishness. If asking for your number feels “too soon,” say so. It’s not rocket science.
But no, it’s easier to act like a wet blanket and run off, leaving me guessing like some poor plonker who should’ve memorized the secret rulebook of modern dating.
Blocking someone over a question? That’s not setting boundaries—that’s the behavior of a daft tosspot who hasn’t got the gumption to handle a bit of conversation. Grow a spine.
Blocking someone because he asked for your number is immature, not me asking for your number. Communicate. Grow a spine. Instead, I am expected to read your mind and I better not dare to judge your imaginary timing wrongly, right?
So childish and immature and stupid. Even if it was too soon, why don't they just tell me? I am 19 and have no experience with girls. No I am not hateful. No, there's no "attitude" that "bleeds through" mid conversation.
I try to talk to girls normally and get shat on. I do not subscribe to the general mindset on this forum of hating all women because deep down, I am not hateful.
But to act like it's always just me is ridiculous. Fine, I asked to soon. Tell me. Communicate. Don't just block me for such a simple thing. That's you being childish.
Why am I expected to know EVERYTHING about flirting and dating at 19? God forbid I misjudged the timing slightly, now I am Hitler himself apparently.
So ridiculous. I hate it when I make a small mistake and then people act like it's the worst thing ever.
Then they start adding all of these fake details of how I was apparently rude, disgusting and bad to her. Apparently I am now a hateful person who can not be chatted with.
Just stop. I am not. I am frustrated at YOUR inability to communicate and tell me what's wrong. I guess it was part my fault, but also part her fault because why not just tell me to slow down? How am I supposed to know?
Fine, I won't ask for a girls number, ever again. Let them do the heavy lifting. They know it better, apparently.
Apparently, honesty is too much for some. Instead of just saying, “Let’s take it slow,” they expect me to read their bloody minds like I’m some sort of clairvoyant. It’s nonsense. I’m not a wizard, love—just use your words.
Instead, I get ghosted, blocked, or treated like I’ve spat in their tea. This whole act is the height of childishness. If asking for your number feels “too soon,” say so. It’s not rocket science.
But no, it’s easier to act like a wet blanket and run off, leaving me guessing like some poor plonker who should’ve memorized the secret rulebook of modern dating.
Blocking someone over a question? That’s not setting boundaries—that’s the behavior of a daft tosspot who hasn’t got the gumption to handle a bit of conversation. Grow a spine.
