Yes noodlewhores indeed are very self hating.
But there is another factor at play in all of this and that is the thoughts, tastes, prejudices, and opinions of the larger dominant group. White society especially the white whores view us Asian men as a joke. Thats why there's this constant shocking disparity between WMAF and AMWF in white areas within America. White Americans strongly dislike men of color in general but lately with Black American men, white americans have been relenting to them.
If you go to majority minority places within America you'll notice Asian men doing better. You'll even see black foids with asian or latino males from time to time. This is because Whites aren't the majority in these areas and aren't deciding the flavor of these areas as far as who's attractive and who's not. Non-white washed latinas, black foids, middle easterners, noodlewhores are noticeably less racist to Asian men in these majority minority areas.
As America become less and less white and more mixed I can only imagine the dating situation for men of color to get better and for more equality in general.
The future of America will look much like what the east bay portions of the SF bay area looks like imo. That is to say majority hispanic, some blacks, some middle easterners, some indians, east asians, southeast asians, and a minority of whites all mixed up (the rest of the whites would have fled to the interior counties or other whiter states). Men of color do much better in these areas because whites aren't calling the shots. You go to SF or the peninsula (Facebook HQ, Palo Alto/Stanford) however and you notice the rich liberal whites (beta white males and white feminists) and self hating noodlewhores calling the shots in these areas. Extreme sexual racism and extreme economic inequality. They can't last forever and will get chewed up and overshadowed by the integrated majority minority America in the future.
You can think of the pinnacle of white Anglo-Jewish society as this social dynamic where white men have free reign and sexual access to women of color, to liberated feminist white women, have lots of wealth, and whereby large swaths of men of color are working undesirable jobs and can't get laid. Thats the pinnacle of white American society but also the beginning of it's end phase. The hedonism and evil before the collapse of the empire if you will. That can't last forever and a new majority minority America will takeover in the future.