You're right, no amount of "stats" will ever change my mind. My big conspiracy with black men is media influence, and you wonn't find any stats on that. It's a conspiracy, it can't be proven with stats, only observation. I take it you don't watch the news. I'll tell you: there's a pretty clear anti-white and pro-black agenda.
I go to the local mall alot (it's got a gamestop, among other necessities). Every time I go, I see lots of young people. Of the young couples I see involving white women, there are more black men present than white men. When I see this, I have no choice but to ignore the "stats"... I have first-person observation. These stats are very ethereal to me, they can be twisted and turned into anything the person using them wants them to be. Fact of the matter is, when I go out into public, I see more BMMW young combos than any other, even full white couples (for older couples its majority same-race, but this shouldn't surprise you). I have to take what I see, and all I see is miscegenation. To top it off, most of these black men are around my facial looksmatch, if not below.
Regarding me and SEA, I again extend the offer for you to pay my mortgage, salary, bills, etc. for the trip. I have no reasonable way to get there, and even if I could, I would be status abused just like sub-6 black men are used in America. I'm not interested in being cucked. I prefer incel to cuck.
Lately I've been thinking of proposing a new ratings system for black men in america. Instead of 40% face, 30% height, 15% NT, and 15% "other" for most men, we use 10% face, 50% height, 30% NT, and 10% other. From my observations, the blacks that slay in my area are ugly as sin (they have the non-caucasian features), but they are tall (enough, I've noticed that they have to be 5'8" minimum) and NT or "thug" as fuck (mumble in ebonics, walk slowly, ill-fitting clothes, rap "music", etc.).