Blackpill ARLpill: There is only ONE acceptable way for straight men to love

[SlayerSlayer]

The only acceptable way for a straight man to exhibit romantic love is to be a male-savior figure. It's the only acceptable role, because contrary to 2021 twitter opinions, women LOVE gender roles. It's DEEPLY, deeply, ingrained in them. They hate doing male things like, going 50/50, generally asking for things, and of course-- getting rejected over and over.

If you are not passionate and truly selfless in your passion to improve the lives of women you admire, then you have NO FUCKING BUSINESS tinkering around with romantic love. Don't even bother. It's OVER.

The male-savior mindset must be NATURAL and INTUITIVE for you. If you hate helping others, it's not something you can keep up. You will constantly be at wits end and confused between ever shifting vicissitudes of needs and desires. It's better to never try. It's better to be ANTI ROMANTIC LOVE (ARL)

Most incels are effeminate sissy men because we were genetic failures relative to the communities we were raised in. We have consistently failed to dominate at anything, and as an ego mechanism, we had to rely on our own introversion to cope. This does not make for being healthy partners. We naturally have NOTHING HEALTHY to offer to women-- only toxicity . The only way women could work with us is if they break out of their gender roles. This is probably why trannies are always trying to convert us.

We desire TO BE loved, and have no passion about GIVING LOVE. Bringing others up-- selflessly, thanklessly, intuitively is gross to us-- and that makes us freaks within the broad swath of society. You were designed by piece of shit parents to be greedy, narcissists just like them, and you have no idea how much of a piece of shit you are.

Believe it or not, some people in the world really do like to help others. They are compassionate. Helping doesn't disgust them. It's in their self-interest, because it makes them feel good. Me personally-- I naturally hate helping people, unless I get something out of it. I hate the idea that if I help someone, they will use the boost I GAVE THEM, against me. I'm waay to petty to sincerely help others. I only help elderly people, because there's no risk of such a mogging, and it's in my self-interest, because elderly tend to be thankful.

 

[foosballcel]

Romantic orientation - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

they have a wiki article on just this

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Romantic orientation - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

they have a wiki article on just this

I really hate the aro community because they are a bunch of hypocrites and floozies. Most of them are foids in stupid relationships that just hate sex. NOT THE SAME THING.

ARL is about genuinely hating romantic love and advocating for the empowerment of perpetually single people-- as in making THE MARRIED pay their fair share in taxes, and banning holidays that exclude the single like valentines day, and other things like that to make the single life more bearable.

 

[foosballcel]

I really hate the aro community because they are a bunch of hypocrites and floozies. Most of them are foids in stupid relationships that just hate sex. NOT THE SAME THING.

ARL is about genuinely hating romantic love and advocating for the empowerment of perpetually single people-- as in making THE MARRIED pay their fair share in taxes, and banning holidays that exclude the single like valentines day, and other things like that to make the single life more bearable.

If you research the history of Valentine's day, you will see that St. Valentine wasn't even a romantic

The Gory Origins of Valentine's Day

The holiday began as a feast to celebrate the decapitation of a third-century Christian martyr, or perhaps two. So how did it become all about love?

www.smithsonianmag.com

St. Valentine was not a romantic​

The third third-century Valentinus was a bishop of Terni in the province of Umbria, Italy.

St. Valentine kneeling (David Teniers III)
According to his equally dodgy legend, Terni’s bishop got into a situation like the other Valentinus by debating a potential convert and afterward healing his son. The rest of story is quite similar as well: He too, was beheaded on the orders of Emperor Gothicus and his body buried along the Via Flaminia.


It is likely, as the Bollandists suggested, that there weren’t actually two decapitated Valentines, but that two different versions of one saint’s legend appeared in both Rome and Terni.

Nonetheless, African, Roman or Umbrian, none of the Valentines seems to have been a romantic.

Indeed, medieval legends, repeated in modern media, had St. Valentine performing Christian marriage rituals or passing notes between Christian lovers jailed by Gothicus. Still other stories romantically involved him with the blind girl whom he allegedly healed. Yet none of these medieval tales had any basis in third-century history, as the Bollandists pointed out.

St. Valentine baptizing St. Lucilla (Jacopo Bassano (Jacopo da Ponte))
In any case, historical veracity did not count for much with medieval Christians. What they cared about were stories of miracles and martyrdoms, and the physical remains or relics of the saint. To be sure, many different churches and monasteries around medieval Europe claimed to have bits of a St. Valentinus’ skull in their treasuries.


Santa Maria in Cosmedin in Rome, for example, still displays a whole skull. According to the Bollandists, other churches across Europe also claim to own slivers and bits of one or the other St. Valentinus’ body: For example, San Anton Church in Madrid, Whitefriar Street Church in Dublin, the Church of Sts. Peter and Paul in Prague, Saint Mary’s Assumption in Chelmno, Poland, as well as churches in Malta, Birmingham, Glasgow, and on the Greek isle of Lesbos, among others.

For believers, relics of the martyrs signified the saints’ continuing their invisible presence among communities of pious Christians. In 11th-century Brittany, for instance, one bishop used what was purported to be Valentine’s head to halt fires, prevent epidemics, and cure all sorts of illnesses, including demonic possession.

As far as we know, though, the saint’s bones did nothing special for lovers.

 

[kanyepilled]

im scared of going outside

 

[Meus]

Retarded thread lol

How can someone write so much and basically say nothing?

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Retarded thread lol

How can someone write so much and basically say nothing?

FUCK YOU FAG

take these up your asshole::

Retarded thread lol

How can someone write so much and basically say nothing?

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[Meus]

FUCK YOU FAG

take these up your asshole::


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Shut the fuck up moron.

You talk a bunch of bullshit and project all kind of gay shit onto us

"Most incels are effeminate sissy men because we were genetic failures relative to the communities we were raised in. We have consistently failed to dominate at anything, and as an ego mechanism, we had to rely on our own introversion to cope. This does not make for being healthy partners. We naturally have NOTHING HEALTHY to offer to women-- only toxicity . The only way women could work with us is if they break out of their gender roles. This is probably why trannies are always trying to convert us.

We desire TO BE loved, and have no passion about GIVING LOVE. Bringing others up-- selflessly, thanklessly, intuitively is gross to us-- and that makes us freaks within the broad swath of society. You were designed by piece of shit parents to be greedy, narcissists just like them, and you have no idea how much of a piece of shit you are."

1. I'm not a fucking sissy man. I'm an incel because I'm ugly and autistic, but I'm not a fucking pussy. I have been in WAY more fights than your average Chad. Stop projecting your own issue unto us..
2. I have a lot of healthy shit to offer.
3. I DO want to give love, much more than being loved, the problem is almost nobody is worthy of my love.
4. I'm not greedy, not a narcissist etc...

I agree that romance is bullshit but your thread is cringe and retarded as fuck. You are basically projecting onto us what outsiders think incels must be like, instead of what we really are like. Hell you are probably an IT faggot. Shove your cucked thread up your ass, retard.

 

[FlyFace]

If you research the history of Valentine's day, you will see that St. Valentine wasn't even a romantic

All Valentines day is, is a competition between Figs to see who can extort the most money out of their Male ATM.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

All Valentines day is, is a competition between Figs to see who can extort the most money out of their Male ATM.

valentines day is literally sex-haver oppression. It's about sex havers asserting dominance over the single.

It's closest thing to a socially acceptable straight pride parade. It's fucking stupid, pointless, and narcissistic.