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Are You Yourself a Lookist?

eldercelder

eldercelder

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I'm not talking about finding a foid hot or ugly for fucking, I mean, do you think you've judged people based on their looks alone? I'm not claiming to be a saint, but I don't think I was as judgmental towards people I thought were ugly the way so many normies are.

You look at someone like Mikhail Gorbachev. Yes, that giant blotch of a mole on his head was very unbecoming. But it's not like he CHOSE to have that mole. It wasn't a tattoo he purposely placed there. And if he could, he'd cover it with hair, he didn't chose to be bald.

While I may have found other people odd or weird looking, I was never the type to mistreat them based just on factors beyond their control. I guess that's why the blackpill was so hard to digest at first. All this mistreatment, and nothing I could do about it, but so many people just naturally ahere to this prejudice. Don't people realize it's not someone's fault if something is beyond their genetic control?

And I'm not talking about dating or fucking. Foids think I'm ugly and don't want to be with me, I can get over it or cope somehow. I'm talking about daily mistreatment from people, men and foids, who I'm simply trying to interact with like a normal human being.

But where do you stand? Are you no different from normies yourself and all this was just natural to you since birth? Or are you still somewhat amazed at how judgmental they are?
 
i have a built in smv calculator from all the shit i read on looksmax
 
I don't think I pay attention to other guys looks at all unless they're a disgusting hobo or some shit
 
I don't judge based on looks alone but I definitely do judge based on looks, looks are a window to your soul
Yup same. Physiognomy is real
 
Before I didn't, but people have always assumed I was something that I am not, so I judge their character based of looks out of spite.
 
I'm not talking about finding a foid hot or ugly for fucking, I mean, do you think you've judged people based on their looks alone? I'm not claiming to be a saint, but I don't think I was as judgmental towards people I thought were ugly the way so many normies are.

You look at someone like Mikhail Gorbachev. Yes, that giant blotch of a mole on his head was very unbecoming. But it's not like he CHOSE to have that mole. It wasn't a tattoo he purposely placed there. And if he could, he'd cover it with hair, he didn't chose to be bald.

While I may have found other people odd or weird looking, I was never the type to mistreat them based just on factors beyond their control. I guess that's why the blackpill was so hard to digest at first. All this mistreatment, and nothing I could do about it, but so many people just naturally ahere to this prejudice. Don't people realize it's not someone's fault if something is beyond their genetic control?

And I'm not talking about dating or fucking. Foids think I'm ugly and don't want to be with me, I can get over it or cope somehow. I'm talking about daily mistreatment from people, men and foids, who I'm simply trying to interact with like a normal human being.

But where do you stand? Are you no different from normies yourself and all this was just natural to you since birth? Or are you still somewhat amazed at how judgmental they are?
Yes, I used to be a bit more superficial when I was younger, but there's nothing like getting fucked over by a good looking person to "wake you up" to how good looking ones aren't any better , so it doesn't make sense to treat the uglier ones worse. Most people never make the connection and still think even after all that...

good looking = good
ugly = evil
 
All humans are lookist
 
Yes and the people who deny it are coping. We all subconciously judge people by their looks whether we want it or not.
 
Yes and the people who deny it are coping. We all subconciously judge people by their looks whether we want it or not.
True, but I was talking more about how you treat another person. I used to look at ugly foids or screwed up looking dudes and think, "I wouldn't want to fuck that chick, and that dude looks screwed up. But I'll still treat them with basic human dignity."

I don't think I was ever so lookist the way so many normies are. This, coupled with being ugly, may be why the blackpill was so enlightening, yet hard to swallow. You're telling me you've ALWAYS known this? That's interesting. I thought people were shallow, but not this shallow. I don't think I ever was.
 
I've trained myself from young age to be as non lookist as possible
 
I've trained myself from young age to be as non lookist as possible
And this may be due to how we subconsciously knew we were being treated differently and didn't want to behave the same toward people we found ugly/weird looking.
 
And this may be due to how we subconsciously knew we were being treated differently and didn't want to behave the same toward people we found ugly/weird looking.
Maybe. I've always been a stickler for justice though and nothing rustles my jimmies more than unfair advantage
 
Maybe. I've always been a stickler for justice though and nothing rustles my jimmies more than unfair advantage
I feel the same. Long before I was blackpilled. Long before I knew how ugly I was. Long before I fully understood how normies behave.

I think this factors in to the process of becoming blackpilled. There are uglyfuglies who will never see it. There may be some normies who think like we do, but because they don't experience it the way we do, they'll never realize how unjust things are. Whatever this factor is, it plays into becoming blackpilled (coupled with being ugly and actually experiencing it).
 
It's impossible to not be a lookist as a human unfortunately...
 
I think I've done it when I was a child but once I realized it existed, I tried my hardest to not do it and still do. But that being said, I recognize when people are ugly, and honestly feel some kinship with them. So I suppose that is kind of a judgment, that they live a similar life to me, although from what I've seen many seem better adjusted and more happy somehow. I think having validating surroundings growing up probably has a big part to do with that.

Sorry got kind of unrelated at the end.
 
I'm not talking about finding a foid hot or ugly for fucking, I mean, do you think you've judged people based on their looks alone? I'm not claiming to be a saint, but I don't think I was as judgmental towards people I thought were ugly the way so many normies are.

You look at someone like Mikhail Gorbachev. Yes, that giant blotch of a mole on his head was very unbecoming. But it's not like he CHOSE to have that mole. It wasn't a tattoo he purposely placed there. And if he could, he'd cover it with hair, he didn't chose to be bald.

While I may have found other people odd or weird looking, I was never the type to mistreat them based just on factors beyond their control. I guess that's why the blackpill was so hard to digest at first. All this mistreatment, and nothing I could do about it, but so many people just naturally ahere to this prejudice. Don't people realize it's not someone's fault if something is beyond their genetic control?

And I'm not talking about dating or fucking. Foids think I'm ugly and don't want to be with me, I can get over it or cope somehow. I'm talking about daily mistreatment from people, men and foids, who I'm simply trying to interact with like a normal human being.

But where do you stand? Are you no different from normies yourself and all this was just natural to you since birth? Or are you still somewhat amazed at how judgmental they are?
I will talk with everyone but I still notice if someone is ugly although I try not to show it. Everyone is lookist to a certain degree.
 
I will talk with everyone but I still notice if someone is ugly although I try not to show it. Everyone is lookist to a certain degree.
Yes, of course you notice. You have eyes. That's not what I'm asking. I'm talking about treatment of said individual based on their looks.
 
I usually feel sorry for unattractive men and I have no desire to bully them, even when they try to act confident. It's pathetic but it doesn't annoy me. I hate normie Chad wannabes who think they're leagues above incels despite their most mediocre appearance. These are the ones who make the most fun of us.
 
True, but I was talking more about how you treat another person. I used to look at ugly foids or screwed up looking dudes and think, "I wouldn't want to fuck that chick, and that dude looks screwed up. But I'll still treat them with basic human dignity."

I don't think I was ever so lookist the way so many normies are. This, coupled with being ugly, may be why the blackpill was so enlightening, yet hard to swallow. You're telling me you've ALWAYS known this? That's interesting. I thought people were shallow, but not this shallow. I don't think I ever was.
I treat people acc to how they treat me and I like to believe that it has nothing to do with my subconscious looks bias (doesn't apply to chads and stacies cause I feel a strong dislike towards them but involuntarily assign them some positive traits)
 
I don't think I pay attention to other guys looks at all unless they're a disgusting hobo or some shit
this
everyone is just wired to be natually repulsed by subhumans and avoid them
activates flight or fight mode

even a subhuman like me is scared of other subhumans
everyones got a look to them
some subhumans look friendly some dont
if youre in the latter like me youre fucked
soyciety will always treat you with suspicion
 

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