Are you willing to abandon your humanity?

[IronMike]

by humanity I mean whatever it is that makes you YOU.

I think that my ego is preventing me from assimilating with the normies. If I destroy my ego, all will fall in place.

If I abandon my humanity I will no longer be a man who requires masturbation

I will focus on my goals like a normie robot

 

[Maeror]

You can still focus on your goals like me, by following amor fati and stoicism.

 

[IronMike]

You can still focus on your goals like me, by following amor fati and stoicism.

I read meditations, but I think I have driven off the path a while ago

 

[Deleted member 2119]

I cannot abandon masturbation because it is a biological urge for me. I learned that I should not take life that seriously and just choose my own path. Do not assimilate with normies just for the sake of doing it.

 

[IronMike]

I cannot abandon masturbation because it is a biological urge for me. I learned that I should not take life that seriously and just choose my own path. Do not assimilate with normies just for the sake of doing it.

my ultimate cope requires me to make enough money to buy a house, I have to assimilate tbh

 

[Deleted member 2119]

my ultimate cope requires me to make enough money to buy a house, I have to assimilate tbh

Just practice putting up a @Facade if you want to act like a Normie at your workplace. Normies do this all the time so why shouldnt you do it? You can achieve your goals without becoming a mindless robot.

 

[VLÖ]

If you didn't assimilate as a child, you never will. Simple as that. Anyone who says otherwise are severely coping or on drugs.

 

[IronMike]

Just practice putting up a @Facade if you want to act like a Normie at your workplace. Normies do this all the time so why shouldnt you do it? You can achieve your goals without becoming a mindless robot.

hmmm, sort of like Patrick Bateman from american psycho

 

[IronMike]

If you didn't assimilate as a child, you never will. Simple as that. Anyone who says otherwise are severely coping or on drugs.

I had friends as a kid and throughout HS.

It wasn't until college that my life turned to dogshit

 

[Deleted member 2119]

hmmm, sort of like Patrick Bateman from american psycho

People act fake in countless situations. I think nobody is truly a mindless robot

 

[IsolationHurts]

You can still focus on your goals like me, by following amor fati and stoicism.

Indeed. I think that If you are low T you can cope with an incel life with pure acceptance. You are very lucky if you can, trust me! Specially after relizing the black pill is true, or being blackpilled. So treasure that attitude, it worths.
Anyway, I tried meditation (wich was very common in the western world despite what is commonly thought: Philosophy as a Way of Life. Spiritual Exercises from Socrates to Foucault - Pierre Hadot) for years, as many classical stoics, thanks to some buddhist schools that are being born in my country. But it just doesnt work for me, im way too high T, specially after 23. Damn, most stoics had a wife, Seneca included, so obviously they could try to overcome their desire WHILE SATISFIED, not when raging in frustration.
Most buddhist masters had a wife (nd kids) before ordaining as a monk or even have a wife (and kids) while being a monk (like most tibetan traditions except the Geluk one), the Buddha himself wasnt a virgin at all... he had a tons of sex with royal concubines before getting married to a top prime jb and had a kid with her. Obviously, after experiencing that, you can think about leaving behind sexual craving and all that stuff, but... before? When my sex drive is over the top? I dont think so, seriously.
Anyway, i keep meditating when im really depressed. Pure acceptance helps a lot when you are about to end it all obviously.

 

[Mr Joyboy]

Acting normal is good.

 

[Maeror]

Indeed. I think that If you are low T you can cope with an incel life with pure acceptance. You are very lucky if you can, trust me! Specially after relizing the black pill is true, or being blackpilled. So treasure that attitude, it worths.
Anyway, I tried meditation (wich was very common in the western world despite what is commonly thought: Philosophy as a Way of Life. Spiritual Exercises from Socrates to Foucault - Pierre Hadot) for years, as many classical stoics, thanks to some buddhist schools that are being born in my country. But it just doesnt work for me, im way too high T, specially after 23. Damn, most stoics had a wife, Seneca included, so obviously they could try to overcome their desire WHILE SATISFIED, not when raging in frustration.
Most buddhist masters had a wife (nd kids) before ordaining as a monk or even have a wife (and kids) while being a monk (like most tibetan traditions except the Geluk one), the Buddha himself wasnt a virgin at all... he had a tons of sex with royal concubines before getting married to a top prime jb and had a kid with her. Obviously, after experiencing that, you can think about leaving behind sexual craving and all that stuff, but... before? When my sex drive is over the top? I dont think so, seriously.
Anyway, i keep meditating when im really depressed. Pure acceptance helps a lot when you are about to end it all obviously.

I am inclined to believe that being i dont think you would be able to do any of ypur goals with low testosterone because it effects your cognitive abilities and nearly all of your body as a male.

I just exercise and do something else when i have sexual urges; stretching and exercising for example.

What does your diet look like? I think there are other problems that you need to adress,
physiological perhaps.

 

[IsolationHurts]

What does your diet look like? I think there are other problems that you need to adress,
physiological perhaps.

I dont pay too much attention to what i eat tbh. Sometimes i have hunger and eat 3 times a day, sometimes i dont have any hunger and only eat before going to sleep, sometimes i eat healthy, most times i dont...

 

[scrub]

I've abandoned it long ago.

 

[Maeror]

I dont pay too much attention to what i eat tbh. Sometimes i have hunger and eat 3 times a day, sometimes i dont have any hunger and only eat before going to sleep, sometimes i eat healthy, most times i dont...

I think we found the problem. The things you eat are your fuel after all, nutrition is a lot more important than people think it is.

 

[grayjedi90]

I think we found the problem. The things you eat are your fuel after all, nutrition is a lot more important than people think it is.

Then why the fuck can't someone make a standard nutrition plan? Everyone and their mother says something else when it comes to nutrition.

 

[IsolationHurts]

I think we found the problem. The things you eat are your fuel after all, nutrition is a lot more important than people think it is.

I have been a vegetarian during some years, not anymore. It is true that when i care about what i eat, and if i also do some exercice (+ some meditation for me) i really feel A BIT better, at least physically. But i also (tbh) feel more sexual and concious about everything, including my problems, so it makes coping really really hard.
So... i prefer to barely stay alive while stoned, so i dont fully realize how much i fucking suck.
But thanks for caring. Its nice to have some "optimistic" incels around here.

 

[Welcumtotherealworld]

I have started giving 0 fucks when it comes to social inhibition.

 

[Maeror]

Then why the fuck can't someone make a standard nutrition plan? Everyone and their mother says something else when it comes to nutrition.

We can make one for you, what do you currently eat?

Also yes indeed, they also publish false peer reviewes studies, all of the industries today just want money. They dont care about health of the people.

I have been a vegetarian during some years, not anymore. It is true that when i care about what i eat, and if i also do some exercice (+ some meditation for me) i really feel A BIT better, at least physically. But i also (tbh) feel more sexual and concious about everything, including my problems, so it makes coping really really hard.
So... i prefer to barely stay alive while stoned, so i dont fully realize how much i fucking suck.
But thanks for caring. Its nice to have some "optimistic" incels around here.

Depends on what do you do for exercise, also follow a plant based diet. Cut every bad habit you have, refined sugar for example.

No offense but i dont think you are working out hard if you still have the energy to obsess about your problems.

Lastly this is not optimism, in order to truly live you need to take care of your lifestyle. Sugar is a destructive sugar that effects all parts of the body, especially your brain and cognitive potential. It is not something you do for hobby, it is something you MUST do.

 

[Darthmat]

At the drop of a hate if I gain powers out of it.

 

[bignuggies7]

maybe youre too autistic to assimilate and even if the normies accept you, you'd probably be miserable around them because their interests and humor are boring and cringey

then again im probably projecting here

 

[IronMike]

maybe youre too autistic to assimilate and even if the normies accept you, you'd probably be miserable around them because their interests and humor are boring and cringey

then again im probably projecting here

no you are right

 

[IronMike]

I wish I could reject my humanity like Dio Brando

 

[Hunter]

fuck yeah so i can be vergil from devil may cry

 

[IsolationHurts]

No offense but i dont think you are working out hard if you still have the energy to obsess about your problems.

So... dont you take any breaks? I tried this too, but having zero fun doesnt work really well for me.
I mean, i tried things like [1waking up nofapping-->2meditation-->3eating healthy (like no sugar, as u say)-->4exercice-->5study-->6healthy lunch-->7study-->8"socialization"-->9healthy dinner-->10meditation-->11sleep-->and again1,2,3,4] like a fucking robot every day for quite some time and even more than once in my life, and it allways makes me extremely depressed and kind of suicidal, because of the lack of fun (no porn, no vidya, no weed...), hope (beacuse my situation really doesnt get any better, no matter what i do or how good i do it) and also pure exhaustion (because keeping yourself busy 24/7 is very punishing)
I dont know. Im not criticizing your life style. Just saying that you are not offering me anything new, and it doesnt work, at least for me.

 

[Maeror]

So... dont you take any breaks? I tried this too, but having zero fun doesnt work really well for me.
I mean, i tried things like [1waking up nofapping-->2meditation-->3eating healthy (like no sugar, as u say)-->4exercice-->5study-->6healthy lunch-->7study-->8"socialization"-->9healthy dinner-->10meditation-->11sleep-->and again1,2,3,4] like a fucking robot every day for quite some time and even more than once in my life, and it allways makes me extremely depressed and kind of suicidal, because of the lack of fun (no porn, no vidya, no weed...), hope (beacuse my situation really doesnt get any better, no matter what i do or how good i do it) and also pure exhaustion (because keeping yourself busy 24/7 is very punishing)
I dont know. Im not criticizing your life style. Just saying that you are not offering me anything new, and it doesnt work, at least for me.

Not really, i dont take any breaks, that is because i see studying and exercising as a euphoric act. They give me even more energy, keep me sharp and happy. The "happiness" is just a bunch of transmitters, exercise is supposed to make you good not miserable because of endorphins and BDNF.

If you are talking about how long i exercise, i exercise about 2 hours. I also do static stretches whenever i can.

People have became too dependent on instant gratification and dopamine, such a lifestyle probably looks "robotic" because of your addiction and fried reward system.

 

[IsolationHurts]

People have became too dependent on instant gratification and dopamine, such a lifestyle probably looks "robotic" because of your addiction and fried reward system.

Ive thought a lot about it.
Anyway, You should write an unironical post about diets, the pleasure of exercice and studying, and how to not obsess with negative thoughts; us as incels. I dont seem to be the only one interested, and we are not answering OP at all at this point.

 

[Maeror]

Ive thought a lot about it.
Anyway, You should write an unironical post about diets, the pleasure of exercice and studying, and how to not obsess with negative thoughts; us as incels. I dont seem to be the only one interested, and we are not answering OP at all at this point.

That sounds like a great idea! I will do it.