Serious Truecel trait: your parents try to talk you out of wanting a relationship

[TheGrayWolf]

Ok I get it, you want me to not want a gf bc you know I can't get one anyway. I get you.

But still. Saying shit like "relationships are overrated" dozens of times or "it will be very hard for you to get a gf bc you need to like her and she you" and "she will only cheat on you, especially if she's good looking" and many shit like this... ok, I admit, maybe some of those things are true.

But it doesn't work even if I wanted it to, I can't help it!

Also it just unintentionally makes me feel even more insecure and less motivated to do shit and then they get mad at me that I never do any sports and that they offer me everything!

I'm 27 but I'm autistic and deformed af.

 

[randombrucetv]

thats weird because parents seem to almost always be bluepilled and spitting npc lines encouraging to try and find a gf

 

[TheGrayWolf]

thats weird because parents seem to almost always be bluepilled and spitting npc lines encouraging to try and find a gf

yes but not in my case, it's so obvious everyone expect a blind person would agree with my parents, also I think they implied once if I can get a gf then a really ugly one ("I'd be very happy even if you got a very ugly gf", idk what really ugly means to them)...but I'd rather have none then and cope with cooming to insta pics of hot women

 

[Dealer of Kangas]

Is been the opposite for me

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Is been the opposite for me

it mostly is the opposite

 

[randombrucetv]

yes but not in my case, it's so obvious everyone expect a blind person would agree with my parents, also I think they implied once if I can get a gf then a really ugly one ("I'd be very happy even if you got a very ugly gf", idk what really ugly means to them)...but I'd rather have none then and cope with cooming to insta pics of hot women

yeah the only right thing in life is to ignore what your parents say, unfortunately I realized that too late. even though they actually might love and care for you the world they were living in was so much different that their advice is at best not do jack shit and at worst even make your situation worse.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

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yeah the only right thing in life is to ignore what your parents say, unfortunately I realized that too late. even though they actually might love and care for you the world they were living in was so much different that their advice is at best not do jack shit and at worst even make your situation worse.

exactly

 

[Lizard King]

Ok I get it, you want me to not want a gf bc you know I can't get one anyway. I get you.

But still. Saying shit like "relationships are overrated" dozens of times or "it will be very hard for you to get a gf bc you need to like her and she you" and "she will only cheat on you, especially if she's good looking" and many shit like this... ok, I admit, maybe some of those things are true.

But it doesn't work even if I wanted it to, I can't help it!

Also it just unintentionally makes me feel even more insecure and less motivated to do shit and then they get mad at me that I never do any sports and that they offer me everything!

I'm 27 but I'm autistic and deformed af.

Im31. my mom told me Im not going to find anyone that likes me

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Im31. my mom told me Im not going to find anyone that likes me

my mom didn't phrase it like that but over the years she heavily implied it, although about 5 years ago she told me I can never get a gf (don't remember how exactly she said it)

 

[Lizard King]

my mom didn't phrase it like that but over the years she heavily implied it, although about 5 years ago she told me I can never get a gf (don't remember how exactly she said it)

 

[Mayocel]

My parents just don't ask me about women. I know and they know. I'm guessing they are hedging their bets on my brother.

 

[notcracklord]

Ok I get it, you want me to not want a gf bc you know I can't get one anyway. I get you.

But still. Saying shit like "relationships are overrated" dozens of times or "it will be very hard for you to get a gf bc you need to like her and she you" and "she will only cheat on you, especially if she's good looking" and many shit like this... ok, I admit, maybe some of those things are true.

But it doesn't work even if I wanted it to, I can't help it!

Also it just unintentionally makes me feel even more insecure and less motivated to do shit and then they get mad at me that I never do any sports and that they offer me everything!

I'm 27 but I'm autistic and deformed af.

My parents genuinely just think I’m gay. It hurts they’ll never understand even if I tried explaining to them

 

[kay']

the only right thing in life is to ignore what your parents say, unfortunately I realized that too late.

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

Ok I get it, you want me to not want a gf bc you know I can't get one anyway. I get you.

But still. Saying shit like "relationships are overrated" dozens of times or "it will be very hard for you to get a gf bc you need to like her and she you" and "she will only cheat on you, especially if she's good looking" and many shit like this... ok, I admit, maybe some of those things are true.

But it doesn't work even if I wanted it to, I can't help it!

Also it just unintentionally makes me feel even more insecure and less motivated to do shit and then they get mad at me that I never do any sports and that they offer me everything!

I'm 27 but I'm autistic and deformed af.

wtf. i am truecel and my parents have never talked with me about relationships or gfs or sexual things...

 

[SadButTrueCel]

my mom didn't phrase it like that but over the years she heavily implied it, although about 5 years ago she told me I can never get a gf (don't remember how exactly she said it)

Damn I think I would prefer this. My mom is still unaware of how ugly I am, despite me being truecel. She keeps talking about me getting married and having grandkids. I just feel so bad, cause I know it's never gonna happen. But idk how to explain it to her

 

[TheGrayWolf]

wtf. i am truecel and my parents have never talked with me about relationships or gfs or sexual things...

..... my parents didn't either, it was only when I brought it up that I want a gf (and hence my plan to work out, maybe get some surgery etc.), that they said this. Turns out, now I know that neither working out nor surgeries can help me

 

[L0rd_0f_der_matrix]

A woman will cheat on you whether it's a good looking one or a normie

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Damn I think I would prefer this. My mom is still unaware of how ugly I am, despite me being truecel. She keeps talking about me getting married and having grandkids. I just feel so bad, cause I know it's never gonna happen. But idk how to explain it to her

Yeah man, I understand.

Her overall attitude is "you'll never have a gf or wife"... that I should basically just accept it, etc etc (not exactly her words but heavily implied), which is also brutal, in its own way I guess.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Damn I think I would prefer this. My mom is still unaware of how ugly I am, despite me being truecel. She keeps talking about me getting married and having grandkids. I just feel so bad, cause I know it's never gonna happen. But idk how to explain it to her

She knows it deep inside. But she's coping. Foids have their coping strategies, too. Especially when it comes to this topic and they're the mother of an ugly guy. They just don't want to admit it openly

 

[Plggy20144]

Is been the opposite for me

 

[Lurkercel_678]

Ok I get it, you want me to not want a gf bc you know I can't get one anyway. I get you.

But still. Saying shit like "relationships are overrated" dozens of times or "it will be very hard for you to get a gf bc you need to like her and she you" and "she will only cheat on you, especially if she's good looking" and many shit like this... ok, I admit, maybe some of those things are true.

But it doesn't work even if I wanted it to, I can't help it!

Also it just unintentionally makes me feel even more insecure and less motivated to do shit and then they get mad at me that I never do any sports and that they offer me everything!

I'm 27 but I'm autistic and deformed af.

Had this happen to me