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Experiment Are you treated friendly to, but you just want importance/ prominence instead? Where the problem is not lookist based mistreatment, but your egomania?

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People can be friendly to you sure yeah.When they greet you, say hello, like talking to you on the street...
But do you ever find yourself introspectively and honestly not living in that bad of a location, and superficiality is only applicable to dating/ relationships/ making PERSONAL friends.
Being casually friended to is not being intimately desired. And a lot of people here i'm sure have ideal life requirements where we narcissistically want to be the center of everyone else's personal hierarchal agenda. Where girls are kind of nice/ passive to you but never UNfriendly, but you know they're not talking amongst themselves about you.
This is a type of volcel/ highstandardcel kind of thing. Where you choose to not get laid because egomania prevents you from wanting to socialize without being top dog.
 
Yes. Most everyone is treated kindly. It’s default almost. “Yes sir, no sir”.. professional mannerisms cause we’re all “adults” now.

I want to be respected and feared by men, and lusted after my women. I don’t want the default treatment. I’ve suffered too much to be just another inconsequential face in the crowd
 
Fuck friendliness nigga, I just want bitches, drugs and you know I'm all about that paper money homeboy.
 
Yes. Most everyone is treated kindly. It’s default almost. “Yes sir, no sir”.. professional mannerisms cause we’re all “adults” now.

I want to be respected and feared by men, and lusted after my women. I don’t want the default treatment. I’ve suffered too much to be just another inconsequential face in the crowd
yes, society cannot possible afford reparations to anyone who has suffered in their childhood and then gets on the normie default "yes sir, no sir" professional mannerisms ring that the high tier normies/ chads/ foids have snickered gleefully getting away with their years of being hierarchal/ abusive/ domineering. Our ego is angry though and so it will continue to leech blood for our own equality since nothing can replace the years where we could have dunked those weaker than us, and stride powerfully in primal wealth.
You cannot say you lived a full life without it. So by us being antagonistic/ selfish we are simply taking back what we missed out on to the point of looking in the mirror thinking that we never lived a truly "full" life.

Default treatment is kind of a humblebrag among many college/ university/ sports oriented chads and chadlites. They use it and then girls will follow them "teeheeing" knowing that the underlying primal value disparities, and primal based dominance dynamics are still there. But if a chad or chadlite or any kind of alpha does it then they can have non-tryhard ports/ trylight, trylittle points to implicate higher maturity, higher value, less is more element. But the mogging is still there.
 
it doesn't matter if you socialize you will just get accused of rape or harassment
 
Who cares about being treated kindly? Who cares friendship?
As long as noone mess with me,is all good.
We are by ourselves in this world.So never count on anyone nor expect anything.
 
Who cares about being treated kindly? Who cares friendship?
As long as noone mess with me,is all good.
We are by ourselves in this world.So never count on anyone nor expect anything.
everyone knows that. what's ironic is that most of the people who are sad in the world are not really people who don't have many friends but the people who have a bruised ego from not being good looking.
proving that it's a misconstrued meaning to think we want "friendship" in social interaction in general. we really want prominence and importance.
 
Don't know about you guys,but I'm always the one who has to greet someone first in order to get them to acknowledge me,even my school friends ignore me if they think I'm not noticing them.

I force myself to go to social events often enough and I don't remember one time when someone initiated a conversation with me.I'm not just talking about women,men don't really want to be near me either.

I'm so far beyond wanting to establish an intimate relation with a female,it seems about as real of possibility for me as being invited to Hogwarts school of wizardry,literally all I want is to be looked upon as an average dude,and not being able to have that is making me very fucking bitter,which just makes making friends harder.

This is why I suspect that there are a lot of mentacels here,since most of them seem to want to be treated like chad,not realizing that chads make a very small percentage of top tier men.A really ugly dude desires only to be treated like a normal human being.
 
Don't know about you guys,but I'm always the one who has to greet someone first in order to get them to acknowledge me,even my school friends ignore me if they think I'm not noticing them.

I force myself to go to social events often enough and I don't remember one time when someone initiated a conversation with me.I'm not just talking about women,men don't really want to be near me either.

I'm so far beyond wanting to establish an intimate relation with a female,it seems about as real of possibility for me as being invited to Hogwarts school of wizardry,literally all I want is to be looked upon as an average dude,and not being able to have that is making me very fucking bitter,which just makes making friends harder.

This is why I suspect that there are a lot of mentacels here,since most of them seem to want to be treated like chad,not realizing that chads make a very small percentage of top tier men.A really ugly dude desires only to be treated like a normal human being.
I'd say 80% of the people here suffer from mentalceldom and high expectations.
Most ugly people are too busy being bluepilled and coping.
 
everyone knows that. what's ironic is that most of the people who are sad in the world are not really people who don't have many friends but the people who have a bruised ego from not being good looking.
proving that it's a misconstrued meaning to think we want "friendship" in social interaction in general. we really want prominence and importance.
Agree,we want privileges that would make us more valuable.
 
Agree,we want privileges that would make us more valuable.
people say it's all about "waaah I'm alone" because they can easily misconstrue their lack of getting looks and likes to abuse. people can just put themselves out there and get friends on a normie basis grounds. but people are waaaay to egotistical in their expectations and hate to see them all get unmet and broken.
but because the physical state/ actions of the person will always be in high inhibition they will make a constructed recalling of the situation to make themselves abused so they can act out and do compensatory things for power, and ego boost.
lookist mistreatment does happen. but a lot of the time its highstandardcels trying to find a ton of reason to not stay outside to explain their inhibition. by switching the nonphysical abstracts of physical states with those that (since they think no one will know the truth of enough to see through them) help them, and give them power and license as victims to do whatever they want.
 
I'd say 80% of the people here suffer from mentalceldom and high expectations.
Most ugly people are too busy being bluepilled and coping.

Depends how you define mentalceldom.Women rate men much harsher than men rate women.In women's eyes,most men are unattractive.Based on that,if a guy looks average to other men he's still going to have a lot of trouble getting laid with women,so technically it's very possible for him to be an incel.

As I said,I don't really think much of women anymore.For me,true despair comes from not being able to make male friends,because that's how you know you're truly undesirable.
 
Depends how you define mentalceldom.Women rate men much harsher than men rate women.In women's eyes,most men are unattractive.Based on that,if a guy looks average to other men he's still going to have a lot of trouble getting laid with women,so technically it's very possible for him to be an incel.

As I said,I don't really think much of women anymore.For me,true despair comes from not being able to make male friends,because that's how you know you're truly undesirable.
Not denying. I define it as highstandardcel, not just anxiety. Many men have anxiety. But you can always dumpster dive, but the top 60% of women will belong to the top 1% of men.
It's because women are looking for the top tier dominarch to control the situation and be bad ass.
Women are looking for the bad ass video game character, either actually or metaphorically/ symbologically (how they abstractually project rock stars)
While men are just looking for a boner fix which is a lot less exacting than being what women want men to be.
I'd say most men can cope their way to finding some semblance of what women want to be to get laid somehow. But they'd still have to aim low and keep their head down.
The highstandardcels won't want that so they just give up.
 
but people are waaaay to egotistical in their expectations and hate to see them all get unmet and broken.
Yeah that's correct.Apart of that noone want to be with a person with too much troubles.Same with ugly guys sometimes.Other times they want to be with the ugly guy to be more noticed.Taking advantages of that.But ugly people are not stupid and won't let being used like that.
Happened to me on my first year on a new school,in highschool.The companions saw me with disgust,distance,weird looks.But then another guy came in,a new one and this time,attractive.The girls were talking between themselves who's that guy???? let's talk to him .Then they were arguing which of those girls would talk to the guy first -yeah it was a group of females "friends"-
Other day,the attractive guy put on glassed and one girl said looks awesome then i tried and she said horrible so i asked her why you tell me that like if i care? i don't give a shit.After that,she put an ofended face.Why??? LOL
 
Yeah that's correct.Apart of that noone want to be with a person with too much troubles.Same with ugly guys sometimes.Other times they want to be with the ugly guy to be more noticed.Taking advantages of that.But ugly people are not stupid and won't let being used like that.
Happened to me on my first year on a new school,in highschool.The companions saw me with disgust,distance,weird looks.But then another guy came in,a new one and this time,attractive.The girls were talking between themselves who's that guy???? let's talk to him .Then they were arguing which of those girls would talk to the guy first -yeah it was a group of females "friends"-
Other day,the attractive guy put on glassed and one girl said looks awesome then i tried and she said horrible so i asked her why you tell me that like if i care? i don't give a shit.After that,she put an ofended face.Why??? LOL
they want to be a part of the ugly guy to virtue signal. they take advantages of that.
a girl is being your friend in that arena yes but they don't talk amongst themselves about you because humanity is primal.
the philosophical feed behind your life is that they are judging you as inferior and they want to get in on the contexts surrounding the guy they were invested/ honed in on.
a lot of the time things are based on optic/ impression manipulation.
You talk to a girl's friend and not her if you wanna have a good leverage points to be acquainted with her social group, and to make her feel like she wants to qualify to be the one who is more wanted. So you have being a prize/ and being acquainted with on your side.
Then she feels like you're the prize, and can trigger her lizard primality brain's "victory" button.
But only if you have good value. incel does this and nothing mya come from it. anymore than you try and cleverly market frozen shit.
 
they want to be a part of the ugly guy to virtue signal. they take advantages of that.
a girl is being your friend in that arena yes but they don't talk amongst themselves about you because humanity is primal.
the philosophical feed behind your life is that they are judging you as inferior and they want to get in on the contexts surrounding the guy they were invested/ honed in on.
a lot of the time things are based on optic/ impression manipulation.
You talk to a girl's friend and not her if you wanna have a good leverage points to be acquainted with her social group, and to make her feel like she wants to qualify to be the one who is more wanted. So you have being a prize/ and being acquainted with on your side.
Then she feels like you're the prize, and can trigger her lizard primality brain's "victory" button.
But only if you have good value. incel does this and nothing mya come from it. anymore than you try and cleverly market frozen shit.
LOL i learnt the bad way.I was bullied a little,a mess with girls,a decent person.Yet i tried to talk with a girl i liked.I did it couple of times.Yeah i know i was a loser upon her eyes,but i didn't care.She started with all that crap of being friends,despite we didn't know each other and more nonsense crap bla bla.
Then i saw a guy slapping her ass.At that time he said he was straight but later he admited he was gay.
I don't know maybe he was bi.Maybe he was telling the truth by admiting his homosexuality.Who knows.
But i was so angry.I knew the truth.A standard looking homo,slaping a girl's ass.
Me,feeling so useless.Angry with myself,dissapointed.One day i went to the school bath and i looked in the mirror.......is over man,forget it.You won't be able to be with a standard looking girl neither.
So.......nothing,fully blank i was.I knew my looks were the problem so i had to resign somehow.Fucking sucks.
 

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