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Discussion Are we all hopless, is it just a mindset for some of us?

FiendNeet

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I wonder if some of us on here have a distorted view of themselves and they aren't as ugly as they think they are. For some of us it's truly over ofc. I know I'm ugly, because of a bad jaw, Norwood 3, slim shoulders and frame on a 400 pound body etc. I know it's completely over, but sometimes in my head if I think I lost the weight and got surgeries that maybe I can attain becoming a mtn. Delusional thinking obviously. I feel that some incels on here are not sub5, especially the fucking geomaxxers.
 
You simply can’t advance in life without looks.
 
Stop having such a negative mindset inkwell :foidSoy:
 
Learned helplessness, too late for most of us on here
 
Does not matter.

If you didn't had any meaningful romantic interaction with a woman in school you are as good as dead.

You will just be upgraded to Wizard, not if, is just a matter of time.

Now if you scored at least once and just pretending to be Incel (like some convert FakeCels here) you will become a betabuxx at most.

Improoooooooving in 2026 only works if you have something to offer what a woman desires in YOUR COUNTRY, mine is being a wagie and non-ND, the only two traits you need to get a Wife / GF here.

In the US being 5'7, Mexican and balding is not even realistic to think you can score the average girl there since the US is all about lookism.

Unless you drop your standards waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay down and date retards like Cyraxx and Chris-Chan did.
 
Its hopeless for me rn, but imagine in the next 10 or 20 years waking up in this same reality alone and screwed up that will be the most terrifying day in my life

I will be truly fucked and I don’t want to see a day like that.
 
It is hopeless, but not that bad if you don't have a strong need for affection and if copemaxxing fullfils you.
 
It is hopeless, but not that bad if you don't have a strong need for affection and if copemaxxing fullfils you.

The only thing that can save the Incel, if you somehow can get rid of the need for affection then any and all coping will keep you going on for years.

After that is just finding something that satisfies you.
 
I mean maybe all the mental issues I have don't help but wtf am I supposed to do about it?

I can't socialize like a normal human being, I'm not one.
 
The only thing that can save the Incel, if you somehow can get rid of the need for affection then any and all coping will keep you going on for years.

After that is just finding something that satisfies you.
But you cant man, its really hard
 
Please shut up
 
I will never have a girlfriend that loves me and is sexually attracted to me.
 

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