Are these two beliefs true?

[Heathcheshire]

A lad told me this the other day

1. Confidence is a symptom of success with women not the cause. He says some lads are only confident because women throw themselves at them

2. Women universally find some types of men attractive and others not. He says all women find tall handsome brutes attractive for instance

seems right to me

 

[Fed Link]

No way

 

[Seahorsecel]

Yes, they are true. There will always be exceptions, but they do not disprove the BP LAW.

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

they do not disprove the BP LAW.

 

[randombrucetv]

Women universally find some types of men attractive and others not

thats not true 100%

 

[BasedAdam]

A woman knows if she is going to fuck a man within the next ten seconds

 

[Seahorsecel]

thats not true 100%

Many women do not know what they want. They might say they desire a clean-kept Christian man, but end up impregnated by black brutes.

 

[Heathcheshire]

thats not true 100%

Really?

 

[randombrucetv]

Many women do not know what they want. They might say they desire a clean-kept Christian man, but end up impregnated by black brutes.

thats not the question though, I mean that there are endless types of women out there and they want different types of men its not like every women likes a certain type of a guy

 

[VintageCarCoper]

A woman knows if she is going to fuck a man within the next ten seconds

Honestly, she knows that in less than a second most of the time

 

[VintageCarCoper]

Too many people act like you can spawn confidence out of nowhere. This is wrong. You need a reason to feel confident. I’m confident with my mechanical knowledge because I’ve done many successful repairs on cars, lawnmowers, and many small engines. If every repair I did failed miserably, do you think I’d be confident? Of course not. Same goes for women. Can’t be confident in something if you never had success with

 

[Heathcheshire]

thats not the question though, I mean that there are endless types of women out there and they want different types of men its not like every women likes a certain type of a guy

they do

no woman really wants a 5f 5 guy with a weak jawline

all women are attractive to a 6ft 5 chad

 

[SoycuckGodOfReddit]

where do u find all these 'lads' that be talking mad blackpill shit yo

 

[Limitcel]

If you need to know this it's because it's over

 

[Limitcel]

I think confidence can also be built on issues in the neighborhood where you were born and the dynamics of your family.
Very poor people and those with not very structured families tend to learn earlier to be "confident" because they need it to survive
It doesn't mean that they will ignore the possibility of being an incel, rejections cause a loss of confidence too, so even if the family encourages them to be confident they may end up losing it with time
The more rejections you suffer without any success rate, the more difficult it becomes