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Are men good at parenting?

wintersnow

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How are men at parenting? Is taking care of children strictly a woman's job, or are men just as good?

Some men say that motherhood is the only job a woman should ever have. Or at least the most important. They say that women should be making babies and men should be doing other things, like building bridges, racing cars, running politics, and conquering the universe. They're content to leave child rearing to their wives. But then a funny thing happens if a couple decides they want a divorce.

If the wife gets custody of the children, there are men who cry discrimination. They say that the system is rigged against them. They say that men are just as good as women at being parents, and they insist that they should have custody of the children, not the mother. And this comes after years of them saying that children are a woman's domain, and men should be doing something else.

Okay. So my question is, Which is it? Are men the great conquerors, inventors, and discoverers who have better things to do than care for children? Or are they the nurturing and competent child custodians that they claim to be in divorce court? Are men as good as women at taking care of children? Are they equally good at getting the children clothed, fed, and off to school? Are they equally good at figuring out why the baby is crying at 3 in the morning?

In divorce, it's become common for men to insist that they should be just as entitled to custody of the children as the mother is. The reason that the mother traditionally has gotten custody is because she had been the primary caregiver. The father played a secondary role. But the Men's Rights movement came along and said that men were just as entitled as women to get custody. In order to make such a statement, they had to say that men were just as good at being mothers as women were. But are they?
 
Of course they are, boys who grow without a father are more likely to be unemployed, criminals or to kill themselves and girls on the other side are more likely to engage in prostitution
 
Most incels have no father figure, having no father figure can fuck up your life a lot, I'm an example of that :feelsbadman:

just look at the stats like this:
children born into fatherless homes are more likely to kill themselves, more likely to go to prison etc. https://www.fatherhood.org/father-absence-statistic
and more here:
 
In my opinion, men aren't nurturing. It's female job to be nurturing, soft, caring, gentle towards her children ( but it's rare now because females are getting more masculine ). Father's role is to teach his son about how the world really works and his daughter how to be a decent person.
 
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Most people aren't good parents in general. They don't try to improve their parenting style even if they could. They just do what they think is good based on instinct and how they themselves were raised.
 
In my opinion, men aren't nurturing. It's female job to be nurturing, soft, caring, gentle towards her children ( but it's rare now because females are getting more masculine ). Father's role is to teach his son about how the world really works and his daughter how to be a decent person.
Obviously its a females job
 

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