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Approachmaxxing

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Has anyone tried approachmaxxing? Instead of using your unreal dedication and self-discipline on gymmaxxing etc, you approach every ugly woman you see in public - landwhales and wheelchair women. It sounds quite unrealistical considering most of us are pussy shut-ins who are afraid to make eye contact with women or smile at them. There must be users that has absolutely nothing to lose like the unhinged livestream faggot, who's probably going back to the asylum soon. I'm not expecting neurotypicals, textbook definition of midgets (4'11 and below) to succeed, unless you've maxxed something beforehand. This question goes out to mentalcels and 4chan incels (people who cockblock themselves with negativity)
 
It could work depending on how incel you are. But at the same time, remember what the definition of incel is.
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.
 

Me approaching women
 
Has anyone tried approachmaxxing? Instead of using your unreal dedication and self-discipline on gymmaxxing etc, you approach every ugly woman you see in public - landwhales and wheelchair women. It sounds quite unrealistical considering most of us are pussy shut-ins who are afraid to make eye contact with women or smile at them. There must be users that has absolutely nothing to lose like the unhinged livestream faggot, who's probably going back to the asylum soon. I'm not expecting neurotypicals, textbook definition of midgets (4'11 and below) to succeed, unless you've maxxed something beforehand. This question goes out to mentalcels and 4chan incels (people who cockblock themselves with negativity)
I did about 120 approaches, 4 approaches a day for a few months, when I was in my twenties. I did approaches on the sidewalk, in stores, in the mall, on the beach, in the club, pretty much everywhere.

The general response is always they turn their back to you and act as if you don't exist. You know they hear you because they all turn their back to you, or if in a non moving group hudde and close off facing their backs outwards.

As far as nothing to lose. Sure there was nothing to lose a decade or two ago, but now that sort of thing can get you legal trouble for harrasment. It can get you filmed easily, since everyone has a camera phone, then posted online, so that everyone in your town recognizes you wherever you go, are and you get talked about as the creep who harrasses women, which don't want to be approached in public.

It's more socially acceptable to approach girls in bars and clubs but my results were the same.
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.
Confirmed.
A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.
Preach.
I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.
I knew a Chad. They live in a different reality. I had better social skills and could pick up on women giving him very obvious signals all the time, where he only picked up on it when they would literally climb on top of him, cuddle him, and tell them they want him to come home with them. He was always complaining about not being able to find the right girl, while sleeping with and dating a steady stream of solid tens and getting hit on by 8s. He's found the perfect girl to LTR now, and that's the last I heard of him.
Lmao.
 
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Has anyone tried approachmaxxing? Instead of using your unreal dedication and self-discipline on gymmaxxing etc, you approach every ugly woman you see in public - landwhales and wheelchair women. It sounds quite unrealistical considering most of us are pussy shut-ins who are afraid to make eye contact with women or smile at them. There must be users that has absolutely nothing to lose like the unhinged livestream faggot, who's probably going back to the asylum soon. I'm not expecting neurotypicals, textbook definition of midgets (4'11 and below) to succeed, unless you've maxxed something beforehand. This question goes out to mentalcels and 4chan incels (people who cockblock themselves with negativity)
I already asked a girl in the station for her number and got rejected, that was too much for me
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.

High IQ.

Normies have just as much anxiety approaching a woman as we do.

Normies cold approach about as much as us. As in never.

The difference is they meet up with women in social events, friends of friends, etc. 95% of normie relationships are made like that, not through cold approaches.

Women choose the men they want. It's just an ego trip for men to think they get to choose the woman. No. A woman will give the man the idea that he chose her, but in reality the woman held the power all along. For example if a woman wants a man to approach her, she'll spend alot time near him, act submissive and feminine around him, even say a thing or two to him, etc, basically making it easy for the man to talk to her.

Women completely control the sexual market place. From approach to sex to marriage to divorce to everything. They make all the calls. Men are simply at their mercy. Sucks to be born as non-Chad.
 
:soy:< Yes yes we are pussy shit-ins my fellow incels
9gga, a good handfull of users are afraid to leave their fucking house and the thought of stepping out in public, makes them piss themselves. So many NEEts on here and people who think they're the center in others mind.
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.

Cold approaching works for 7+ men. But once you're 7+ why using this retarded method when life itself will throw opportunities without effort? So it ends being practiced only by subhumans.
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I did about 120 approaches, 4 approaches a day for a few months, when I was in my twenties. I did approaches on the sidewalk, in stores, in the mall, on the beach, in the club, pretty much everywhere.

The general response is always they turn their back to you and act as if you don't exist. You know they hear you because they all turn their back to you, or if in a non moving group hudde and close off facing their backs outwards.

As far as nothing to lose. Sure there was nothing to lose a decade or two ago, but now that sort of thing can get you legal trouble for harrasment. It can get you filmed easily, since everyone has a camera phone, then posted online, so that everyone in your town recognizes you wherever you go, are and you get talked about as the creep who harrasses women, which don't want to be approached in public.

It's more socially acceptable to approach girls in bars and clubs but my results were the same.

Confirmed.

Preach.

I knew a Chad. They live in a different reality. I had better social skills and could pick up on women giving him very obvious signals all the time, where he only picked up on it when they would literally climb on top of him, cuddle him, and tell them they want him to come home with them. He was always complaining about not being able to find the right girl, while sleeping with and dating a steady stream of solid tens and getting hit on by 8s. He's found the perfect girl to LTR now, and that's the last I heard of him.

Lmao.
Brutal
 
High IQ.

Normies have just as much anxiety approaching a woman as we do.

Normies cold approach about as much as us. As in never.

The difference is they meet up with women in social events, friends of friends, etc. 95% of normie relationships are made like that, not through cold approaches.

Women choose the men they want. It's just an ego trip for men to think they get to choose the woman. No. A woman will give the man the idea that he chose her, but in reality the woman held the power all along. For example if a woman wants a man to approach her, she'll spend alot time near him, act submissive and feminine around him, even say a thing or two to him, etc, basically making it easy for the man to talk to her.

Women completely control the sexual market place. From approach to sex to marriage to divorce to everything. They make all the calls. Men are simply at their mercy. Sucks to be born as non-Chad.
The difference between us and normies is insane obsession. Our life revolves around sex and relationships. If we only focus on getting in a relationship in life and tell ourselves: "If I cant have sex, then imroping myself". "Im simply existing in this prison" etc, then do we really have anything to lose? We tell ourselves our life is over, so why not try? Out self-esteem is already critically low and most of us are suicidal, we know women will reject us, so do we have anything to fucking lose by trying EVERY day?
 
Has anyone tried approachmaxxing? Instead of using your unreal dedication and self-discipline on gymmaxxing etc, you approach every ugly woman you see in public - landwhales and wheelchair women. It sounds quite unrealistical considering most of us are pussy shut-ins who are afraid to make eye contact with women or smile at them. There must be users that has absolutely nothing to lose like the unhinged livestream faggot, who's probably going back to the asylum soon. I'm not expecting neurotypicals, textbook definition of midgets (4'11 and below) to succeed, unless you've maxxed something beforehand. This question goes out to mentalcels and 4chan incels (people who cockblock themselves with negativity)

Bro you know what happens if your sub 5 if white and sub 6 if curry you legit get the cops called
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.
Realistical but you can always intitiate a conversation by asking friendly questions, then see where it goes
 
Bro you know what happens if your sub 5 if white and sub 6 if curry you legit get the cops called
Not here. Americans are fucking retarded, so im not shocked
 
Not here. Americans are fucking retarded, so im not shocked

I'm in the UK bro it's completely different ethnic and not good looking or even average is death tier
 
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Possible. The pickup guru's I use to watch say that honestly once you reach advanced level you'll get about 1 lay per a thousand approaches. (And this was pre-tinder). And the first ten thousand approaches is just building up basic skills to get to that advanced level.

That level of approaches requires living in a big city, or possible not having a job and moving from city to city. I can't imagine how soulless you become after getting ignored as if you don't exist by ten thousand foids, and groups of foids.
 
Possible. The pickup guru's I use to watch say that honestly once you reach advanced level you'll get about 1 lay per a thousand approaches. (And this was pre-tinder). And the first ten thousand approaches is just building up basic skills to get to that advanced level.

That level of approaches requires living in a big city, or possible not having a job and moving from city to city. I can't imagine how soulless you become after getting ignored as if you don't exist by ten thousand foids, and groups of foids.
If I was a 3/10 I would try. I don't care anymore about rejection. I've become so numb at this point. Unfortunately it's impossible for me even if I tried the whole day.
 
If I was a 3/10 I would try. I don't care anymore about rejection. I've become so numb at this point. Unfortunately it's impossible for me even if I tried the whole day.
I was part of a group of guys that did it and would have meetings where we discussed tactics, hang out but discuss nothing but pickup, and consumed pretty much all pickup material. That's what blackpilled me long before the back pill was a thing.

I noticed only the very good looking guys had any success. Back then, you had to be at least a 7/10 for cold approach to work. I'm sure it's worse now. Essentially for cold approach to work for you, you have to have some game, be good looking enough for online dating, and you'll still get rejected most of the time.
 
I was part of a group of guys that did it and would have meetings where we discussed tactics, hang out but discuss nothing but pickup, and consumed pretty much all pickup material. That's what blackpilled me long before the back pill was a thing.

I noticed only the very good looking guys had any success. Back then, you had to be at least a 7/10 for cold approach to work. I'm sure it's worse now. Essentially for cold approach to work for you, you have to have some game, be good looking enough for online dating, and you'll still get rejected most of the time.
The pickup gurus aren't made for incels. The creators have NO idea people can be as ugly as us. When they make such content they think about average looking normies, who's interested in picking up girls in clubs, bars etc. We are viewed as autists who have no sexual drive, because they're confident that disabled looking people lack sex drive. For example, there are a good amount of humans who neglect the feelings of wheelchair users. Forgetting they have fundamental feelings, can't be horny or desire love. It's over for us truecels
 
The pickup gurus aren't made for incels. The creators have NO idea people can be as ugly as us.
They know. They're psychopaths that profit off of physically ugly men. A good looking guy doesn't need much in the way of pickup knowledge but an ugly guy is a repeat customer.

That's why they preach that looks aren't the most important factor. They want these guys continuing to buy products and go to seminars and bootcamps for decades. If you look at any pickup bootcamp that guys pay for, the audience is always full of like 90% truecels.
When they make such content they think about average looking normies, who's interested in picking up girls in clubs, bars etc.
No. Those normies might consume the free content, but they don't pay. They are targeting blue pilled and red pilled truecels.
We are viewed as autists who have no sexual drive, because they're confident that disabled looking people lack sex drive. For example, there are a good amount of humans who neglect the feelings of wheelchair users.
Back when pickup artists were big, there was this pickup guru named sean stevenson. In a wheelchair with some kind of disease.

He was a motivational speaker as well and managed to get an attractive wife.
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I'm not sure what's up with that. But he died of brittle bone disease. It wouldn't surprise me if a good chunk of guys paying for his advice were in wheel chairs.
 
They know. They're psychopaths that profit off of physically ugly men. A good looking guy doesn't need much in the way of pickup knowledge but an ugly guy is a repeat customer.

That's why they preach that looks aren't the most important factor. They want these guys continuing to buy products and go to seminars and bootcamps for decades. If you look at any pickup bootcamp that guys pay for, the audience is always full of like 90% truecels.

No. Those normies might consume the free content, but they don't pay. They are targeting blue pilled and red pilled truecels.

Back when pickup artists were big, there was this pickup guru named sean stevenson. In a wheelchair with some kind of disease.

He was a motivational speaker as well and managed to get an attractive wife.
175181-1.jpg
MellyLee-SeanStephenson-7.jpg
james-colquhoun-sean-stephenson-transcendence.jpg

I'm not sure what's up with that. But he died of brittle bone disease. It wouldn't surprise me if a good chunk of guys paying for his advice were in wheel chairs.
Good points. Reminds me of manipulative twitch thots who say they prefer non-masculine men so they can exploit ignorant ltn. And of course the steroid freaks who push the narrative it's only a combination of exercise and diet, to profit off of gullilbe teenagers.
Hard to believe he had a wife and a son. Could be actors? Idk man, I don't want to sound like a conspiracy theorist, but it's difficult to believe he could escape this curse.
 
I've most likely approachmaxxed more than any user online currently. DO NOT DO IT, YOU WILL fail on every single attempt. You will never succeed and it'll result in these outcomes, either 1) Ignored, 2) "I have a boyfriend" 3)" I'm too busy"4) gives number/ social media info like Snapchat and never accepts you 5) Gives you a fake number 7) Gives you her actual number and never accepts your calls 8) Gives you her number then changes it later.
 
Good points. Reminds me of manipulative twitch thots who say they prefer non-masculine men so they can exploit ignorant ltn. And of course the steroid freaks who push the narrative it's only a combination of exercise and diet, to profit off of gullilbe teenagers.
Hard to believe he had a wife and a son.

Could be actors? Idk man, I don't want to sound like a conspiracy theorist, but it's difficult to believe he could escape this curse.
I'm surprised I never considered that. They were on the news together.

But I'm fairly certain pickup artists have been using actresses since the very beginning of pickup artistry. There's a news clip of Ross Jeffries showing his "skills of seduction" where he just so happens to come across a gorgeous blonde sitting in a cafe and does his hipnosis stuff on her. Later when I was watching classes, where he'd explain hypnosis to truecels, I saw the same girl. He described her as his friend, pretended to do hypnosis on her, and used her in a few demonstrations. I wouldn't be surprised if she was his employee, in on the con.

Since then, pretty much all pickup artists have been caught using actresses. It got too easy to find them on low paid actor sites, which was one of the reasons (other than woke mind plagues) that killed off main stream pickup artistry, to be replaced by red pill scammers.

These two scams have been going on since the end of tribalistic societies:

1. Guy/Gal pretends to be rich (fakes it in every way possible). Sells "secret" to being rich.
2. Guy pretends to get women (fakes it in every way possible). Sells "secrets" to getting women.

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View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZK9-CUhgEM8


So she's a wannabe failing guru. She might have been using him to try to career max.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBRJk-7pAZU


She sounds emotional about his death. So maybe him being a multimillionaire that could career max her + his cult like ideology and extreme manipulating made her fall for him, and she develop some feelings for him over time.
 
She sounds emotional about his death. So maybe him being a multimillionaire that could career max her + his cult like ideology and extreme manipulating made her fall for him, and she develop some feelings for him over time.
That's a good possibility. I hate to say it, but personality matters to some degree
 
It seems like alot of people here downplay charisma.
 
if you have to approach then its already over
 
How do you approach?
How do you even meet girls?
How can I talk to girls and get to know them or introduce myself?

The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.
Tbh this makes total sense and is why I never approached anyone.
You'll just embarass yourself, or worse.
If someone showed any sign of interest I'd be more than happy and actually comfortable to go around them and start small talk or something. But when all I see from these females are stone cold faces what am I supposed to do?
 

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