I've seen so many pretty boys who never approached here (because they think approaching=PUA and thus that it's 100% bullshit) that, as a guy who has already approached a lot and consumed a lot of PUA shit before the looks blackpill, I want to make something clear for all of them:
PUA is full of bullshit when it says that a) your looks don't matter and b) you need to have super elaborated techniques and be ultra social to get girls by approaching them.
It's just that. Approaching does work for 4+, especially 5+ guys. I've seen it happening a lot of times, it's no joke. How do you think normies get girlfriends? It's not always though their social circles, I can guarantee you.
When you approach, you don't need to be super low inhib or have super techniques: if the girl thinks you're cute and it's up for it, she'll make it ridiculously easy for you. That's exactly where PUA is full of bullshit, they say that with techniques you can change the girl's mind and make a girl who found you unattractive from the start become attracted to you. It doesn't work like that. If she thinks you're attractive, she will open a smile within seconds of interaction, she will ask questions, she will help you keep the conversation going.
You don't need anything elaborate at all, my Chadlite friend always opens with shit like "so, I wanted to meet knew people", followed by simple questions like "what do you study in college" and then the conversation usually flows naturally until a point where he simply says "so, shall we enjoy this night better"? and then he kisses the girl, then gets the contact and he frequently fucks the girl after.
I know another good-looking guy (would rate him 7/10) who goes even simpler, he just says "so, I saw you and I think you're cute, do you like me as well"? Shit as simple as that work if you're good-looking but sub-chad, I'd say 6 and up (LOTS of guys like that here).
PS: I'm talking about approaching in environments in which approaching is expected and socially acceptable. Girls are very sensitive to this and approaching during the day or on the streets will only work for REALLY good-looking guys.
PUA is full of bullshit when it says that a) your looks don't matter and b) you need to have super elaborated techniques and be ultra social to get girls by approaching them.
It's just that. Approaching does work for 4+, especially 5+ guys. I've seen it happening a lot of times, it's no joke. How do you think normies get girlfriends? It's not always though their social circles, I can guarantee you.
When you approach, you don't need to be super low inhib or have super techniques: if the girl thinks you're cute and it's up for it, she'll make it ridiculously easy for you. That's exactly where PUA is full of bullshit, they say that with techniques you can change the girl's mind and make a girl who found you unattractive from the start become attracted to you. It doesn't work like that. If she thinks you're attractive, she will open a smile within seconds of interaction, she will ask questions, she will help you keep the conversation going.
You don't need anything elaborate at all, my Chadlite friend always opens with shit like "so, I wanted to meet knew people", followed by simple questions like "what do you study in college" and then the conversation usually flows naturally until a point where he simply says "so, shall we enjoy this night better"? and then he kisses the girl, then gets the contact and he frequently fucks the girl after.
I know another good-looking guy (would rate him 7/10) who goes even simpler, he just says "so, I saw you and I think you're cute, do you like me as well"? Shit as simple as that work if you're good-looking but sub-chad, I'd say 6 and up (LOTS of guys like that here).
PS: I'm talking about approaching in environments in which approaching is expected and socially acceptable. Girls are very sensitive to this and approaching during the day or on the streets will only work for REALLY good-looking guys.
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