Stop the online dating. In the west, everyone has a dating profile. In EA and SEA, only the uglies and the truly desperate have it. Most decent looking Rice foids don't use it because they don't need to. Rice Stacy foids get stuff handed to them a lot of the time. There's a reason so many Rice Stacy Foids are spoiled as fuck. Also, Tinder isn't as popular worldwide as most think it is. It's really only popular in South Korea in EA, and a lot of the time it's just foreigners.
But if OP actually goes to SEA himself he will be revered. I've seen it when I visited with my family when I was younger. Trust me.