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Serious Anyone else here too occupied with copes to care about sex/dating?

KingOfRome

KingOfRome

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I have so many copes right now that the thought of actually having to go on a date is unappealing. Like, why would I go to some shitty Starbucks where I have a 60-80% chance of getting flaked, then have to listen to Female Humanoid Organism #2663 blather on about The Office and keto brownies on the off chance she doesn't flake, only to then have her ghost me the next day because she wasn't "feeling it"? (Foids will never "feel it" with genetically inferior males just FYI.)

When I can read, write, draw, play vidya, lift weights, or pet my cat, and not even have to dress up for the occasion?

I mean, I'm mostly just here for the sense of community. You guys are great. I've seen way too many horror stories online and in real life to get upset about not being allowed to follow in their footsteps.
 
Indeed dating is not very appealing and only reason for the dating is having sex. Like,why would you spend time with a woman if you don't have sex? women are inferior,they will never understand politics,history etc. Do you think chads hanging out with women all the time ? of course no
 
This year statistics:
attempts: 1
rejections: 1


Not only copes, but also tired of that femoid shit
 
I can't imagine enjoying going on a first date tbh. It's so alien to me I would be so nervous to the point of wondering why I would ever consider doing it.
I want kids so I guess I'll have to try one day.
 
I can't imagine enjoying going on a first date tbh. It's so alien to me I would be so nervous to the point of wondering why I would ever consider doing it.
I want kids so I guess I'll have to try one day.
Same here I have no idea what I'm supposed to do in a date if I ever get one tbh
 
I've got enough copes to keep me occupied. Also i deal with too many mental problems to even think about dating anymore. The dating scene is like a meme to me at this point, something to passively laugh at.

From time to time i still get the urge to have some type of connection with foids, but then i remember modern day foids are pieces of shit.
 
I can't imagine enjoying going on a first date tbh. It's so alien to me I would be so nervous to the point of wondering why I would ever consider doing it.
I want kids so I guess I'll have to try one day.
You're supposed to "get to know each other" i.e. be a court jester and hope you're good enough at clowning to make your date forget how ugly you are. Which is impossible because you'll be out in public and mogged by at least 70% of the other men around you and 100% of the dogs.
 
I’m too fucked in the head to ever sustain a relationship anyway. I’m over it now.
 
I envy your coping abilities.

If you legitimately like doing those things more than romance and sex, it's even doubtful if you can call them copes. "Cope" in that sense is basically "something you do because you can't do what you really wanted (sex/romance)."
 
My copes are too pervasive in my life to care about dating, but now I want to try just to say that I tried to get a Girlfriend.

I tried my first approach one week ago and I got rejected, I asked for sex directly to a girl online. Failed.

But at least I can say that now I tried and I can die in peace knowing that I did all I could do to get this goddamn girlfriend that I don’t even want anymore.
 
I envy your coping abilities.

If you legitimately like doing those things more than romance and sex, it's even doubtful if you can call them copes. "Cope" in that sense is basically "something you do because you can't do what you really wanted (sex/romance)."
Copemaxxing is a legit anti-inceldom strat.

It probably helps that my parents' marriage was a dumpster fire, and most of my paid escort sessions were dogshit, so I have a pretty dour view of sex and romance even beyond the "sour grapes" effect.
 
Nope. I have severe anehdonia. Looksmax or death.
 
I wish I had more copes. Hopefully, when the weather gets nice.
 
I want sum fuk with cute gf who makes me sandwiches while I repair her car. :feelscry:
 
I have no copes tbh except this forum and porn
 
I agree, I don't even remember the last time I cared.
 
Even though I do not feel so much desire of fap, I still have the damn body dysmorphism with my penis and every day I think about it.
 
I like hiking in places normalshits don't go. Quite frankly I've given the fuck up on trying to make friends after getting mocked in public so many times so I just head for secluded zero cell service areas and take pictures for a few hours or days when I feel lonely.
 
no i hardly have any copes because nothing on this shitty planet is fun to me
 

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