It's Over Anyone else feels like their parents tried to substitute love by giving you material goods ?

[Friezacel]

Im not spoiled at all, but in terms of materialistic stuff i got nearly everything i wanted from my parents, whether its consoles, video games or similar things. I feel like they did that as substitute to real love since they are unable to actually love their short, autistic sub5 son sincerely. This way they can always claim they gave me "love" and everything i wanted, which might be true in their sick, twisted mind. They always screamed and punished me for every little tiny mistake i made (even if i didnt do anything wrong) while my sister never got yelled at once in her entire life.

 

[Skelly]

no

 

[Cryotron]

yes, similar

 

[BurntIvoryKingcel]

yes but I honestly love goyslop, games, and anime more anyway so I've got no complaints.

 

[Cryotron]

i remember how they always liked to compare how i dressed compared to some kid of drug addicts/alcoholics lol implying that they love me by giving me better clothes than absolute low life

 

[$₦øωǤя!†₲ų¥]

They always screamed and punished me for every little tiny mistake i made (even if i didnt do anything wrong) while my sister never got yelled at once in her entire life.

That's so relatable for me. My sister was the golden whore that can do no wrong. But I was the root of every little problem my parents had to deal with, even if it was not related to me at all.

Im not spoiled at all, but in terms of materialistic stuff i got nearly everything i wanted from my parents

Nah, I had to beg them to get me anything. They truly hated me. Not to throw shade on them, they did the bare minimum. (I'm still bitter that I couldn't get 3ds but my sister could get her gymnastic classes)

 

[$₦øωǤя!†₲ų¥]

i remember how they always liked to compare how i dressed compared to some kid of drug addicts/alcoholics lol implying that they love me by giving me better clothes than absolute low life

BRO same.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

Yes.