anyone else feel better in isolation?

[jackwolfskin999]

they say you have to socialize to be healthy but i find the opposite
when i am in social situations for extended periods of time I feel ill and my mental state deteriorates

when I am alone I can recharge

 

[TheSecondComing]

Yes but I still want my daily dose of attention (which I never get), it's a never ending cycle

 

[LastGerman]

I feel good at the gym hitting it brutally.

 

[jackwolfskin999]

I feel good at the gym hitting it brutally.

stopped going to the gym, too much cortisol surrounded by people

 

[Alone75]

Most introverts feel like that, I prefer to stay in now because most people are cunts to be around.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Better in isolation now than with moron friends who wanted me to go after ugly roasties few years ago

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Substantially better.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

Yeah i prefer to be alone, i feel like shit when im around people

 

[Deleted member 19079]

yes of course its the only time when im not reminded of my subhumanity

 

[LastGerman]

stopped going to the gym, too much cortisol surrounded by people

I will hit it even harder. Next Saturday I will be there for an entire day.

 

[gnomen1]

I feel much better and can only relax when I am alone. Trying to fit into social situations is draining.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

I feel better isolated because every attempt to socialize ends up with people talking behind my back and making me a joke for everyone else, I wish to laugh and talk with other people, go out to fun places like parks, the shopping, clubs, enjoy my life with others, but all the joy they want from me is a hysterical laugh at the cost of my ugly image.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Society. Society is unhealthy.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Yes but I still want my daily dose of attention (which I never get), it's a never ending cycle

Same here, I moved to a quite remote area with almost no peole around but as much as I liked it for a while, now I actually need to hit town a couple times a week or my mind goes places I don't want it to.

 

[jackwolfskin999]

I will hit it even harder. Next Saturday I will be there for an entire day.

i still workout just at home

 

[Insomniac]

I can’t stand being around people. I feel very uncomfortable.

I hate it when normies try to engage in small talk with me..

 

[Deleted member 18912]

they say you have to socialize to be healthy but i find the opposite
when i am in social situations for extended periods of time I feel ill and my mental state deteriorates

when I am alone I can recharge

Being isolated is my normal mental state.
I am a misanthrope.
Its only natural.

Normies on the other hand, live their lives as small petty ants.
The most social of insects.

 

[wasted12years]

I've been alone since i was a teenager so i'm used to it. There's too many stupid people and i wouldn't want to hang out with them anyway. I lost some drinking friends last weekend because i started talking about the third reich. Good riddance.

 

[Numb]

All the time

 

[Deleted member 6329]

I like being alone but hate being lonley.

 

[Deleted member 18912]

I like being alone but hate being lonley.

Loneliness can be felt, when you´re among a big crowd, and you can´t relate to any of them.
You feel like a beast. ( At least that´s my case )
That is one of many situations about feeling lonely IRL.

 

[RandomGuy]

Same here, I moved to a quite remote area with almost no peole around but as much as I liked it for a while, now I actually need to hit town a couple times a week or my mind goes places I don't want it to.

Cabin fever is a biach to deal with.

 

[Deleted member 12355]

I hate it when normies try to engage in small talk with me..

mogs me (thankfully)

normies leave me alone

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Isolation makes the world just your room which is great.

 

[jackwolfskin999]

Isolation makes the world just your room which is great.

sometimes I fantasize of everyone just vanishing and I can walk around the city free of anxiety, explore places I've always wanted to
also becoming invisible

 

[LDARBuddah]

mogs me (thankfully)

normies leave me alone

Most normies dont want to talk with ethnics so Its easy to alonemaxx

 

[FukFeminism]

Usually do. But we all have a need for some intimate connection.

 

[Incellectual]

same, though I am nonNT so it makes sense. Ever since I was very little I have been a loner.

 

[jackwolfskin999]

same, though I am nonNT so it makes sense. Ever since I was very little I have been a loner.

same bro
I would play imaginary games by myself as a kid I didnt want to play with others and I developed social anxiety

 

[Incellectual]

same bro
I would play imaginary games by myself as a kid I didnt want to play with others and I developed social anxiety

In elementary school and preschool I was apparently violent when kids would try to play with me. Like a kid would try to start playing and I would hit them. IDK why tbh, its not like they were being mean to me. Thankfully I grew out of that phase but I still prefer being alone.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Yes, very much so. How women and Chads feel when they socialize is how I feel when I can get away from people. Obviously I never experience the highs that they do but I’m not a -cel who hates being alone and feels like a “trapped” extrovert.

 

[StaroRavager]

I feel much better and can only relax when I am alone.

 

[Shigechi]

That's because you only get negative feedback in social situations. You then lie to yourself that's better to be alone, and for ugly men that's probably true.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

Same bro, I am rather alone than socializing with low IQ normies. I have also been lonely in my whole life, so I am used to it.

 

[Joelossus]

Loneliness can be felt, when you´re among a big crowd, and you can´t relate to any of them.
You feel like a beast. ( At least that´s my case )
That is one of many situations about feeling lonely IRL.

That's how i felt back when i was still going to school.

 

[orchis]

I actively try to avoid social situations

 

[seija]

Yeah I feel better in isolation because it allows me to think & concentrate more and it allows me to be myself.

 

[Deleted member 17719]

An autist has no choice as I can't fit in with people, I am too quiet by nature and quiet people don't fit in with loud mouthed NT's, being alone is actually physically healthier for me as I m not anxious

 

[Turkbro]

When I'm all alone to myself I start to feel the solitude after sometime. This wasn't always the case but ever since I've became an adult it is. Flip side is that when I'm with somebody I feel irritated and wish not to be with them but at home playing vidya. There truely is no middle ground in this.

 

[jackwolfskin999]

even now I can hear my family members talking loudly and moving like beasts next door, it keeps me anxious

when I'm alone in the house a sudden wave of peace washes over me and I feel just right

 

[Izayacel]

Most introverts feel like that, I prefer to stay in now because most people are cunts to be around.

 

[GreyWorld]

I enjoy it because it's the only way I can completely relax even with family that I'm comfortable with I never completely relax unless I'm alone for a few hours. I generally try to stay alone most of the week and will go out and do stuff maybe twice a week.

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

even now I can hear my family members talking loudly and moving like beasts next door, it keeps me anxious

when I'm alone in the house a sudden wave of peace washes over me and I feel just right

Same bro, when I am alone, the feeling is glorious, like I am finally at peace.

 

[Johny.speiz]

Usually do. But we all have a need for some intimate connection.

same, though I am nonNT so it makes sense. Ever since I was very little I have been a loner.

Yes but I still want my daily dose of attention (which I never get), it's a never ending cycle

I've been alone since i was a teenager so i'm used to it. There's too many stupid people and i wouldn't want to hang out with them anyway. I lost some drinking friends last weekend because i started talking about the third reich. Good riddance.

We all need social interaction, but with the right people, which happen to be difficult to find.

Some isolation is good, but years of loneliness is extremely unhealthy.

Isolation makes the world just your room which is great.

Same, if it wasn't for my stupid parents that think I'm a chad with easy life, and that I have to work hard to achieve anything, treating me like a subhuman, bullying me and shouting at me most of the time - living in the most complete denial. Sadly, love is nowhere to be found in my family, nor help.

That's because you only get negative feedback in social situations. You then lie to yourself that's better to be alone, and for ugly men that's probably true.

All of my social interactions in the past have ended with negative feedbacks. That's why I'm a loner.

An autist has no choice as I can't fit in with people, I am too quiet by nature and quiet people don't fit in with loud mouthed NT's, being alone is actually physically healthier for me as I m not anxious

I guess I have some undiagnosed mental problems. Unluckily, every time I see a therapist or a psychiatrist I get a different diagnosis.

When I'm all alone to myself I start to feel the solitude after sometime. This wasn't always the case but ever since I've became an adult it is. Flip side is that when I'm with somebody I feel irritated and wish not to be with them but at home playing vidya. There truely is no middle ground in this.

Same. Being lonely while I was a teenager was a salvation. Ever since I became an adult, I feel lots of anxiety and panic attacks due to prolonged involuntary loneliness; and it's getting worser, the oldest I am.

Adulthood was the worst part of my life, never could really fit in it.

Even now, I find many difficulties to cope with it. Having resigning parents did not help either.

 

[StoicNihilist]

Yes, being in social situations drains me mentally. I like being alone. Not all the time, but most of the time.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

Same, if it wasn't for my stupid parents that think I'm a chad with easy life, and that I have to work hard to achieve anything, treating me like a subhuman, bullying me and shouting at me most of the time - living in the most complete denial. Sadly, love is nowhere to be found in my family, nor help.

Sounds exactly the same as my situation. I wonder why this is, can they not project themselves into our shoes?

 

[Johny.speiz]

Sounds exactly the same as my situation. I wonder why this is, can they not project themselves into our shoes?

Bluepilled parents are the same in most situation.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

I like a balance of isolation and socialization.

 

[Alveus]

all the time

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

My brain doesn’t haven’t any positive feedback from being around people and socialising in real life so I have no incentive or drive to do it. I have an incentive to avoid it though, because it’s always a negative experience.