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Teutonic Knight

Teutonic Knight

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I might be a minority here but lately I started to feel really happy and satisfied with my life. Finding out about "blackpill" had a lot to do with it too. Especially in the last few weeks I've been very happy, I'm doing productive things, I'm in good mood all the time etc.

I don't care about getting relationships and women anymore and don't mind if I will never get married. After reading a lot about the issues in this society I don't really see what the point of this would be. I can't understand why anyone "blackpilled" would want that?

It's very hard to get anything resembling a meaningful marriage these days and it usually ends in a nightmare, especially for men. I'm happy living alone at this point and doing things that I like like sports, reading books, going to church, playing video games, listening to music etc.

My main problem before reading about incels and visiting this board was that I always thought I was missing something, but now that I saw (also thanks to this site) that there are a lot of men who were in similar position and that men who are in relationships have all kinds of problems, I don't regret anything. I'm actually glad that I "missed out" on having some useless normie relationships.

Obviously from Catholic religious point of view celibacy is actually even superior to marriage. As a Catholic, I shouldn't really be complaining about anything and there are a lot of Catholics I look up to who lived in celibacy even if they weren't priests.

I also realized that a lot of my problems with society in the past were because I have Asperger's and I can't really blame some people for not wanting to be around me when I acted so autistic in the past. Before I came to incel forums I didn't know much about autism and Asperger's and it lead me to seek diagnosis. So obviously "autismpill" helped me a lot to understand my situation. I also appreciate more now that I had at least some friends who looked past that. I feel like even if I got a relationship it would be a disaster due to being non-NT, so if I had to live in a society with arranged marriages or some sort of 'enforced' monogamy, it would not be good for me. So in the end, living in the current society where you don't have to marry it's actually very good for me I think.

If women don't like me I don't care, I can't force anyone to like me and it's their choice. I don't really see why I should bother with it. I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't like me and I don't care about sex and promiscuity and other forms of degeneracy.

I'm perfectly fine with living the rest of my life alone and it's also perfectly compatible with my religious views and worldview in general.

Considering that the vast majority of men have a lot of problems with modern relationships, I don't see why I should complain. My lifestyle is still like 10 times better than that of some betabuxxer or a normie who got cheated on. Complaining that I'm not a Chad is useless because that's like complaining that you weren't born into a family of one of the top 10% richest people, basically complaining that you didn't win some sort of lottery. Also again, from Catholic view living the life of a regular Chad would be a one way ticket straight to hell. If I were Chad I would use good looks for other things, but temptation would probably be too hard to resist anyway.

It looks like to me that the ultimate result of being exposed to blackpill is to become a happy volcel and that most incels who are angry have just not fully accepted the situation.
 
This website is indeed a cope and I fully concur with you on last lines..
 
No, I'm still ethnic.
 
If I was 6'3" NT and white I'd be happier tbh
 
I'm going to have to throw this down, but don't let this site be a cope, don't be too dependant on it, you could get permabanned or this site could get taken down by the Feds, while I spend time here, I don't let myself grow too attached on the off chance I'm rubbed out or the site gets obliterated. If either of these things happen it won't be too big of a deal for me, I'll still have my copes, plus I'll be at a peace of mind knowing I'm not the only one who's unsuccesful in romantic relationships.

Will it suck, not having anyone to talk to about this? Yes, but I'll surely live. Just my two cents.
 
Sometimes yes. Good thread, this is lifefuel tbh
 
I'm going to have to throw this down, but don't let this site be a cope, don't be too dependant on it

I'm not dependant on this site at all, I barely post on it lately. But it was a good cope for a while and it helped me understand some things better. I think you get bored after a while because discussions get a bit repetitive. I mostly just come to chat with some people now.
 
Good for you that you have found peace and are keeping your faith. I'm converting to Catholicism and am beginning to accept my faith and I can say I'm feeling a lot better with it now then a year ago. God bless and stay strong friend
 
I’m glad you’re coping well boyo. I’m trying to cope as well.
 
It’s a mix of both. On one hand I’m happier I don’t have to waste my time trying anymore, but I’m miserable thinking about how cucked this world is.
 
If women don't like me I don't care, I can't force anyone to like me and it's their choice. I don't really see why I should bother with it. I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't like me and I don't care about sex and promiscuity and other forms of degeneracy.

How can you not care? If women do not like you it means you are lacking as a man. This will always eat away at me.
 
How can you not care? If women do not like you it means you are lacking as a man. This will always eat away at me.

It only means that you don't fit their standards of a "man". In the modern world, standards of manliness are very weird, for example not having a big penis is considered shameful while in ancient Greece it was the opposite.

The reasons why women dislike me is not because of lack of manliness but because I'm autistic and not good looking enough to compensate it. 100 years ago this wouldn't be a big problem in itself (although being non-NT could lead to some problems in relationship).

I would first have to care about the standards of modern society to care why women don't want me.

Also as someone with Asperger's I didn't get that many social opportunities to meet women. Maybe some of them would like me more if I got more opportunities to socialize with them, who knows.

It's not something I bother with a lot anyway.
 
The Blackpill has only made my life more depressing
 
no i might find some stuff here funny or interesting but no
 
This forum gives me good old quality 4chan vibes.

We may be subhumans, but at least we real humans unlike NPCs.

P.S. I wish we have more traditions. And it little irritating that some users like to spew edgy shit, but in the same time we don'd do raids and missinformation campaigns.
 

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