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Serious Anyone blame been brought up in a religious family?

ogdoge1029

ogdoge1029

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Has anyone been brought in a super religious or a somewhat religious family? Do you blame that to be the reason why you don't have a girl? Because I sometimes do... I live in a country where teenage relationships is not socially accepted. Though I have seen young people find each other. But on top of that being brought up religious and living a life of it brings more obstacles because I gotta keep up the facade of wanting celibacy, and the girls I usually spend time with (which is rare in itself) seem to want the same and even if in their mind they didn't I'm just too afraid to approach because of the consequences of it backfiring.
Dating apps are out of the picture because again I just can't go out and get a girlfriend and break the news to my parents. And even if I did find a girl, she'll have to be someone religious too, if that relationship would have any future at all. I've let people believe that I'm not interested in dating but in reality a girlfriend is the only thing I've ever truly wanted in life. I'm an easily contented person. It doesn't take much for me to be happy but I just want someone I can call my own and someone I can talk to whenever or just hold close by. I just wanna know what that feels like to be wanted... Being 5'4" with shit skin and minimal social skills doesn't help either... I'm just lost and sad...
Sorry if this is a long read... This is the first time I found a place where I can share this and I have a lot to share...:feelsbadman:
 
There is no religion for your face
 
Religion can be a cause of Inceldom, how do people meet toilets in your country?
 
No bc my family are based atheists
 
Religion can be a cause of Inceldom, how do people meet toilets in your country?
I'm assuming toilet refers to women.. People mostly meet in school/college classes or colleague at work or I'm assuming clubs too (though I've never been to one). Tinder and bumble is getting more popular but I personally don't know anyone who's met people through there.
 
I grew up a Jehovah's Witness in California. Not that bad seeming, but my single mother was crazy and socially anxious as fuck. Which lead to many people in our hall looking down on us or just viewing us as the weird family. We were also fat which didn't help. I think my religion and also family situation definitely heavily contributed to my inceldom. Not to mention my unhealthy lifestyle, no father figure, no friends till i was 11, and having many of the mental illnesses from my mother. Also i have autism cause she had me at an old age
 
I grew up a Jehovah's Witness in California. Not that bad seeming, but my single mother was crazy and socially anxious as fuck. Which lead to many people in our hall looking down on us or just viewing us as the weird family. We were also fat which didn't help. I think my religion and also family situation definitely heavily contributed to my inceldom. Not to mention my unhealthy lifestyle, no father figure, no friends till i was 11, and having many of the mental illnesses from my mother. Also i have autism cause she had me at an old age
damn brotha
 

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