Anybody here just INVISIBLE SEXUALLY

[_incelinside]

Cashiers and waitresses are nice to me. Strangers are almost always friendly with me and greet me in a nice manner to be polite while some ignore. But that's about the extent of my interaction with women,  due to my short height and sub-par frame and lack of facial masculinity i'm a dimorphic faliure. This makes me invisible sexually to all women. No woman could ever take me seriously as a sexual partner, If I become NT the best I can hope for is to become a asexual handbag accessory to women.

 

[KyloRen]

I'm also invisible, sexually. I have female friends, the problem is that they don't view me as anything more than that.

 

[_incelinside]

I'm also invisible, sexually. I have female friends, the problem is that they don't view me as anything more than that.

It's shit

 

[dawn]

I am invisible both sexually and other wise. No woman even want to talk with me.

 

[KyloRen]

It's shit

I keep my mouth shut around normies, but if I wasn't looking at a professional job I would curse the shit out of everyone and call people out on their bullshit.

 

[Testiclechincel]

;[[[[[ a cute co worker likes to call me her brother...
I am not even feminine. Tall for my country, wide frame, masculine.

 

[A Good Friend]

I have female friends, the problem is that they don't view me as anything more than that.

I know this feel well, my friend. They were kind enough to show me their tits from time to time though. Also, I told them if they want to talk about boyfriends or other guys they can do it somewhere else. If you're here, we're smoking dope and watching cartoons.

 

[_incelinside]

;[[[[[ a cute co worker likes to call me her brother...
I am not even feminine. Tall for my country, wide frame, masculine.

is your face unmasculine, lack of brow ridge and smaller proportions

 

[a-virgin-nigger]

I am completely invisible to both women and men.

 

[KyloRen]

I know this feel well, my friend. They were kind enough to show me their tits from time to time though. Also, I told them if they want to talk about boyfriends or other guys they can do it somewhere else. If you're here, we're smoking dope and watching cartoons.

Good on you for not feeding into their validation.

How were the tits?

 

[Weed]

I don't like females that much because bad memories when I was a truecel

 

[Weirdcel]

For the most part, yeah. Once in a long while, I'll get girl try to flirt with me, but she is never very attractive and I'm so autistic I have no idea how to reciprocate.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

I am invisible both sexually and other wise. No woman even want to talk with me.

 

[A Good Friend]

How were the tits?

My one good friend had amazing tits, but it bugged her me constantly wanting to see them. I'm amazed she put up with me. Truly a good person.

Girls were much cooler then, I think. No phones or social media. Go figure.

 

[KyloRen]

My one good friend had amazing tits, but it bugged her me constantly wanting to see them. I'm amazed she put up with me. Truly a good person.

Girls were much cooler then, I think. No phones or social media. Go figure.

Did she let you touch them?

 

[TheRealChincel]

I’m so ugly that I’m constantly fauxflirted with. Invisibility would be a true blessing for me.

 

[_incelinside]

I’m so ugly that I’m constantly fauxflirted with. Invisibility would be a true blessing for me.

different shades of incel

 

[TheRealChincel]

different shades of incel

Yes, but most guys are invisible sexually. I’m on the “service people fuck me over” level.

 

[A Good Friend]

Did she let you touch them?

Once or twice. That's the thing about truly being a non-sexual object. I think from her perspective it's like "whatever, touch my chest if it makes you happy, seems stupid to me."

I worry that this laid-back attitude is absent anymore. Incelqueers is reading this going "he hand-raped that poor woman." If your friends are guys, you're probably gonna end up seeing their dicks sooner or later; if they're girls, you see their tits.

and if you've never seen your best friend's dick, he's not your best friend

 

[Testiclechincel]

is your face unmasculine, lack of brow ridge and smaller proportions

Not caveman level but i have a brow ridge.
I do look considerably younger then my acutal age
28 years old, look 22-24.

 

[Tellem--T]

Same, Weill I mean you are on an incels.is asking this question to us sexual failures

 

[UncannyValley]

Yes! Women do not regard my presence.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Once or twice. That's the thing about truly being a non-sexual object. I think from her perspective it's like "whatever, touch my chest if it makes you happy, seems stupid to me."

I worry that this laid-back attitude is absent anymore. Incelqueers is reading this going "he hand-raped that poor woman." If your friends are guys, you're probably gonna end up seeing their dicks sooner or later; if they're girls, you see their tits.

and if you've never seen your best friend's dick, he's not your best friend

You’re on another level compared to me, I’ve never had a friend of any gender.

 

[KyloRen]

Once or twice. That's the thing about truly being a non-sexual object. I think from her perspective it's like "whatever, touch my chest if it makes you happy, seems stupid to me."

How did you feel at the time? Was it a "this feels so good?" or a "I'm never going to do this with a woman who truly wants me?" or something else like that?

I worry that this laid-back attitude is absent anymore. Incelqueers is reading this going "he hand-raped that poor woman."

Kek

If your friends are guys, you're probably gonna end up seeing their dicks sooner or later; if they're girls, you see their tits.

and if you've never seen your best friend's dick, he's not your best friend

I've seen a dick or two from my friends. Once a group of us were screwing around with Omegle and one of them flashed his dick to the cam. Another time was changing at the gym, but that's to be expected.

I have female friends, but they're not that close to me. Kek. And besides, it would be "rape" today.

 

[A Good Friend]

You’re on another level compared to me, I’ve never had a friend of any gender.

And that's why I don't like to talk about this stuff normally, because I know some people didn't have as much. I won't lie and say it sucks, and I am very grateful to have found them. But I'm just as grateful to read shit from many of you at this phase.

My only advice, and I hate advice, is that there are weird flesh-and-blood people out there, they're just not on social media. You gotta look for less-vapid people.

How did you feel at the time? Was it a "this feels so good?" or a "I'm never going to do this with a woman who truly wants me?" or something else like that?

It's like your friend, so you're like "haha, you have tits and you're letting me touch them." Just like if you grabbed your friends ass or something.

I have female friends, but they're not that close to me. Kek. And besides, it would be "rape" today.

I think it really would be like that. I'd say this country took a bit of conservative dip in the mid-2000's. So it became "anything not from a male of my desire is rape."

We were more bohemian, being a group of artists and goth kids, so we were easy going about everything. No fights or macho horseshit. That really changed, but I bet there's still kids like that now.

 

[KyloRen]

It's like your friend, so you're like "haha, you have tits and you're letting me touch them." Just like if you grabbed your friends ass or something. 

I see.

I think it really would be like that. I'd say this country took a bit of  conservative dip in the mid-2000's. So it became "anything not from a male of my desire is rape."

We were more bohemian, being a group of artists and goth kids, so we were easy going about everything. No fights or macho horseshit. That really changed, but I bet there's still kids like that now.

Perhaps. Culture changes over time. It's normal.

 

[TheRealChincel]

And that's why I don't like to talk about this stuff normally, because I know some people didn't have as much. I won't lie and say it sucks, and I am very grateful to have found them. But I'm just as grateful to read shit from many of you at this phase.

My only advice, and I hate advice, is that there are weird flesh-and-blood people out there, they're just not on social media. You gotta look for less-vapid people.

Oh, I’m not looking to make friends, thankfully I’ve been blessed to have not one but TWO personality disorders which explain my disinterest. Just saying that even here, I’m a bit out of place.

 

[A Good Friend]

Perhaps. Culture changes over time. It's normal.

Yes, but don't discount the harmful effects of this current one.

I mean, this site is built on the foundations of it. My dad didn't believe in it until yesterday when they started attacking Shaun White right after his win. He was extremely fucking pissed. I told him he's going through what a lot of younger men are going through. It's not the sixties, man.

 

[KyloRen]

Yes, but don't discount the harmful effects of this current one.

I mean, this site is built on the foundations of it. My dad didn't believe in it until yesterday when they started attacking Shaun White right after his win. He was extremely fucking pissed. I told him he's going through what a lot of younger men are going through. It's not the sixties, man.

True.

 

[A Good Friend]

Oh, I’m not looking to make friends, thankfully I’ve been blessed to have not one but TWO personality disorders which explain my disinterest. Just saying that even here, I’m a bit out of place.

That's the thing about friends though. They have their ridiculously huge flaws too. There are people that are sympathetic, but you just don't always find them.

 

[TheRealChincel]

That's the thing about friends though. They have their ridiculously huge flaws too. There are people that are sympathetic, but you just don't always find them.

Whatever makes someone want a friend, I’m “missing” it. For a few years, a doc tried to figure out why. Then he realized I had schizoid and narcissistic personality disorders. If I didn’t have the NPD, I would be  at peace. I thought most guys here would have PDs but it’s not the case.

 

[A Good Friend]

Whatever makes someone want a friend, I’m “missing” it. For a few years, a doc tried to figure out why. Then he realized I had schizoid and narcissistic personality disorders. If I didn’t have the NPD, I would be at peace. I thought most guys here would have PDs but it’s not the case.

Well, some people want different things. It's not bad, just different.

Don't let anybody talk you out of staying the medical route. There are good doctors and good meds. It's a struggle like anything else. I need psych meds to function, but partially for different reasons.

 

[_incelinside]

Whatever makes someone want a friend, I’m “missing” it. For a few years, a doc tried to figure out why. Then he realized I had schizoid and narcissistic personality disorders. If I didn’t have the NPD, I would be  at peace. I thought most guys here would have PDs but it’s not the case.

Does SPD make it easier to live as an incel when you don't desire social or romantic relationships.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Does SPD make it easier to live as an incel when you don't desire social or romantic relationships.

Yes, I only want validation but that has lessened with age. The validation being that I know I could do it. It bothered me that I failed at PUA but in the way that you get annoyed when losing in a game or failing a pop quiz.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

I'm invisible to anything but mom, dad and a few other family members, the neet lifestyle i'm currently living accentuates this and even if i were doxxed, the faggot who'd do it won't know what the fuck to do with the information because there is nothing to do with it.

 

[DeadInside]

females talk to me like I'm mentally retarded and incapable of even understanding what they're saying, yet alone capable of having a sexual relationship with them

 

[QuantumDummy]

I might as well not have a dick and balls.

 

[Its0verMuhNigga]

I'm invisible to anything but mom, dad and a few other family members, the neet lifestyle i'm currently living accentuates this and even if i were doxxed, the faggot who'd do it won't know what the fuck to do with the information because there is nothing to do with it.

I know that feeling all to well.  Been living neet for nearly half my life.  So if anyone was to doxx me they'd be thoroughly disappointed.

The only things that prove I exist are as follows.

1: Birth certificate and social security card 

2: Medical insurance card (medicaid, because I haven't worked for more than 15 years)

3hoto i.d. (I've never held a driver's licence) In fact the femoid at the dmv extended my i.d. card to 10 years before expires.


I have no Facebook account or any other social media presence.  In fact, most people I went to school with 15+ years ago probably thought I died.

So yeah I'm pretty much a phantom.

@OP  I'm invisible to women and most people wouldn't even know existed in the first place.

 

[Juxtaposition6]

I know that feeling all to well.  Been living neet for nearly half my life.  So if anyone was to doxx me they'd be thoroughly disappointed.

The only things that prove I exist are as follows.

1: Birth certificate and social security card 

2: Medical insurance card (medicaid, because I haven't worked for more than 15 years)

3hoto i.d. (I've never held a driver's licence) In fact the femoid at the dmv extended my i.d. card to 10 years before expires.


I have no Facebook account or any other social media presence.  In fact, most people I went to school with 15+ years ago probably thought I died.

So yeah I'm pretty much a phantom.

@OP  I'm invisible to women and most people wouldn't even know existed in the first place.

Pretty much this, the only thing that proves i exist in this society is an ID card, a picture of my face which i've never put on the internet whatsoever and a birth certificate, it's a good thing, i don't want to exist in this shitty world, i prefer existing in the digital world but not really, you get the idea.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I'm invisible to everyone. No one would care if I died besides my parents.

I thought most guys here would have PDs but it’s not the case.

I think I have AvPD

 

[Deleted member 3129]

get ur erect throbbing dick out and do the helicopter with it

 

[Deleted member 3385]

growing up when the internet basically didn't exist and incel wasn't even a word I never had any female converse to me beyond when they were forced to.

I mean the fact I never even had a date and hit my 30's is still something I find hard to believe, no female has even attempted to befriend me to get to know me, which is why I will always reject the normie claim it's only our personality

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I am just invisible to women, check your privileges.

 

[BlackPill47]

I think that applies to all incels, OP. I don't get much more than token human interaction.

 

[TheRealChincel]

I'm invisible to everyone. No one would care if I died besides my parents.


I think I have AvPD

A death sentence for -cels.

 

[towncel]

"femoids treat me well, I'm just invisible sexually"

Out