LDAR any other incels who are shy?

[Deleted member 33986]

I can't approach girls because im a low value male and deep down I know they'd be better off with a NT normalfag. I was always insecure around girls because of my looks after being mocked for being ugly. It's deep seated and as an adult you know it's not worth it to risk talking to girls. Rejection only confirms what you already know. Being shy does not matter as an incel because if you're ugly they will never want you. Good looking people are not shy because they don't fear rejection and embarassment as much as incels.

 

[Deleted member 3497]

I was born shy, almost never spoke first.

 

[Idotms]

I was born shy, almost never spoke first.

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 17883]

Are you a ?

Why are you always trying to gather infos

 

[Transcended Trucel]

I used to not be but became so

Are you a ?

Why are you always trying to gather infos

OP is glowie maxxing

 

[Caesercel]

I was born shy, almost never spoke first.

 

[bigantennaemay1]

deep down I know they'd be better off with a NT normalfag.

Better off? No. Exclusive to NT? Yes. Foids are NT-only.

 

[Deleted member 35351]

Only at the beginning which is critical, reason for my friend zones

 

[fast_curry]

I'm scared of approaching girls because it's so easy for them to ruin your reputation if they want to (and they have plenty of reasons to do so when you are not chad). Gossip spreads fast and I'd rather cope alone than taking any risk.

That's just a rational explanation I can think of. I'm also shy by nature and it's not something I can possibly work on without torturing myself.

 

[AllejDon]

I have aspergers and high inhib so I have learnt to keep my mouth shut because I’m socially abnormal. I never have any words on my mind anyway, so not like I can keep a conversation with people. And because I’m an aspie high inhibcel, of course I’m shy

 

[Deleted member 33833]

When I was a kid I was shy later on teenage years I was extroverted and tried to approach and got rejected and now I'm shy again due to realising how shitty my voice is so i can't really speak at all.

 

[BrazilianLiveMatter]

I don't think I'm shy, I'm just reserved and sometimes too polite, but I usually have no problem exposing myself, as much as I hate it.

 

[Cuckoja]

I dont talk to anyone unless I have to, and I'm totally formal.

 

[Michael15651]

I thought this applied to most incels

 

[Deleted member 34664]

depends. If I'm going solo anywhere in any situation then maybe, however, if I'm with a friend or group of them (when I had friends) I could talk to girls way more easily, ofc it never went anywhere but I at least had the confidence to speak to them. can't say yes/or; depends.

 

[JustinSane]

Shycels don't want to know as shy in a public setting/workplace etc. If you are at work, you want to keep a low profile. But there is always a loud mouth extrovert who will expose you as the quiet, weird guy to everyone. Now all of you co-workers have stigmatized you.

Most supervisors/team leaders/managers look down on shy workers, they will try to pair you up with someone in order to get you out of your shell. Which makes it worse because now the co-worker is pissed that he/shes normie reputation will be diminished because they will be associated with the weird shy guy.

 

[NorthernWind]

It depends.

 

[Oldcelloner38]

I'll go with depends. I used to be called shy and quiet a lot or an introvert,especially at work at this fast food restaurant I used to be a server. Like something was wrong with me. I'm still considered quiet to people even though I try to be sociable and have small talk more then I was as a teen or 20s.

I used to think what the fuck is shy even supposed to mean? I was smart enough to keep my mouth shut at my old job,because I would get judged badly if I didnt. Then there's times like outside of work I can let loose and not care how I come off.

Shy around girls or scared to approach, that all comes with you probably know the results that are coming. I have done it so many times,I have approached and tried to start convos and wasn't shy to ask for the number,I got the balls and did it. Because they said you never know till you try. And I still go by that every once in awhile even though I know what the past has been.

 

[Deleted member 35110]

I'm not shy, I'm very open about myself, willing to talk and such despite everyone shutting me down for my ugly face

 

[Black&Red]

I thought this applied to most incels

I thought everyone was.

 

[proudweeb]

Well yes. but why waste my time pursuing foids who will just turn me down? Don't need that negativity in my life

 

[AllanKing]

I know a guy that was very shy when he was a kid，after he entered college，he became a tall and good looking guy，his temper also changed，he became confident，later，he added weight and became shy again

 

[mentally lost cel 1]

I can't approach girls because im a low value male and deep down I know they'd be better off with a NT normalfag. I was always insecure around girls because of my looks after being mocked for being ugly. It's deep seated and as an adult you know it's not worth it to risk talking to girls. Rejection only confirms what you already know. Being shy does not matter as an incel because if you're ugly they will never want you. Good looking people are not shy because they don't fear rejection and embarassment as much as incels.

Depends on how I feel, mostly feel and act like horseshit and get treated like horseshit cuz I look weird

 

[Deleted member 35245]

@BodyFat10orRope gtfih

 

[Permabancel]

A truecel is always shy

 

[BodyFat10orRope]

You shouldn't be shy about talking to women, especially strangers. What will they do to you?

I'm scared of approaching girls because it's so easy for them to ruin your reputation if they want to (and they have plenty of reasons to do so when you are not chad). Gossip spreads fast and I'd rather cope alone than taking any risk.

That's only in a warm approach setting (work or a small school). How would they ruin it anyway? Yeah okay you got rejected maybe but why would that ruin you? Also do you even have a reputation? Lol.

I don't think I'm shy, I'm just reserved and sometimes too polite, but I usually have no problem exposing myself, as much as I hate it.

I often find myself too tired to talk to people at work. Plus I don't feel like talking to social maxxed normies, especially young ones. They have nothing to say.

 

[DGood]

Being a low value male i know that I don't stand a chance when to comes to foids, she's not looking to get with someone like me. I wouldn't even know when or how to approach women.

 

[fast_curry]

That's only in a warm approach setting (work or a small school). How would they ruin it anyway? Yeah okay you got rejected maybe but why would that ruin you? Also do you even have a reputation? Lol.

It's enough to ruin my life just by making me a running joke around my colleagues. That might make me quit my job out of embarrassment.

Not sure where I can even find foids to cold approach.

 

[RandomBroCel]

I have avoidant personality disorder its over lul

 

[Deleted member 35492]

Subhumans don't have any other option besides being shy, if you try to act like an extrovert, people will find you annoying

 

[CoomerCommander]

I think all through school I lived by the motto "If you don't have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all" or whatever. I never had anything nice to say so i stayed shut.