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Serious any oldcels who never had friends?

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25+ qualifies as oldcel. It feels like I'm the only true outcast on this planet. How do you survive a lifetime of solitary confinement?
 
Take up a hobby or something. I used to play Magic the Gathering at my local gameshop and everyone there was an incel many of them oldcels but they had a social network based on this game.
 
I used to. It was all a waste of time. None of those people gave a fuck about you.

Most royal families even hate each other.
 
I'm not 25 yet, but this will probably be my case. I prefer not having to deal with normscum and their empty massthought, so that part of the situation isn't an outstanding issue; I just need a foid in which to release.
 
How do you survive a lifetime of solitary confinement?

Anime, manga, books, movies, video games. Pick your poison, pick your cope.

I prefer not having to deal with normscum and their empty massthought, so that part of the situation isn't an outstanding issue; I just need a foid in which to release.

This. I honestly don't give a shit about the lack of friends. If a God appeared and offered to grant any one wish of mine, I would just ask for an obedient gf that would let me have sex whenever I want. Sure as hell I wouldn't ask for "friends".
 
I threw myself into the study of Philosophy and French Comparative Literary Theory, ended up with a Bachelor's degree. Made it thru 5 years of college without having any sexual experiences. It sucked. My only friend hooked me up with heroin, and THAT became my friend for 20 years, then methadone, then beer. Also, he's no longer my friend; called me a "pussy" 2 years ago and I said, That's it, forget it, this is over.......Now I'm 45 and wish I were dead, seriously.
 
Take up a hobby or something.

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Friends are fake
 
I do fish spearing (i live next to the sea).
I do downhill mountain bike.

And the best is to walk a lot in the woods, just get out there away the society.

I went 3 times to parties with foids.
I hated it.
 
Me, 35, last time I had friends was in middle school. I don't see much point in having friends if you're an incel - they're not going to hook you up with their friends, you'll just get to watch them have relationships, they'll be asking you for favors and they'll never respect you because they'll know you're incel.
 
This forum is the only socialization I get.
 
25+ qualifies as oldcel. It feels like I'm the only true outcast on this planet. How do you survive a lifetime of solitary confinement?

I am an OldCel, and I never had friends either. Well, I did hang out with guys who bullied me and never invited me to do stuff outside of school. But that was a long time ago.
 
29 now and last time I had any so-called "friends" was 10 years ago.

I'm extremely introverted (have been my whole life) and never really got why people wanted friends since I never wanted any.
 
solitary confinement

For me the worst part is the anxiety... Im allways anxious, like something very bad is about to happen. I have to drink valenian brew, listen to calming music, smoke weed, meditate... just to not feel sick all the time :feelsbadman:
I try to distract myself from my pathetic life with vidya, reading, watching stuff in the internet.... But its true that its just fake. Everything is a fake in my life. I just hope i die ASAP...


I threw myself into the study of Philosophy and French Comparative Literary Theory, ended up with a Bachelor's degree. Made it thru 5 years of college without having any sexual experiences. It sucked. My only friend hooked me up with heroin, and THAT became my friend for 20 years, then methadone, then beer. Also, he's no longer my friend; called me a "pussy" 2 years ago and I said, That's it, forget it, this is over.......Now I'm 45 and wish I were dead, seriously.

I studied philosphy too, for 5 years.... now im a KHHV outcast with a useless degree :feelsbadman:

Me, 35, last time I had friends was in middle school. I don't see much point in having friends if you're an incel - they're not going to hook you up with their friends, you'll just get to watch them have relationships, they'll be asking you for favors and they'll never respect you because they'll know you're incel.

True. Watching normies having a normie life is fucking suifuel. :feelsrope:
Also, nobody takes you serious if you are clearly an incel. Its like everyone is making you a favor just for looking at you or talking with you. I felt extremely pathetic and childlish when i went around college begging for some attention as a outcast.

This forum is the only socialization I get.
Same :feelsbadman:
 
I’ve NEVER wanted a friend let alone a group of them. Social circle isn’t going to help us and if you’re anything like me, even the guys that played MtG during lunch hated you in school just for existing.
 
I’ve NEVER wanted a friend let alone a group of them. Social circle isn’t going to help us and if you’re anything like me, even the guys that played MtG during lunch hated you in school just for existing.
wish i was a schizoidcel
 
wish i was a schizoidcel
It's pretty good. When I compare myself to my roommate who is depressed with his head in his hands 24/7, not feeling anything seems like heaven.
 
I’ve NEVER wanted a friend let alone a group of them. Social circle isn’t going to help us and if you’re anything like me, even the guys that played MtG during lunch hated you in school just for existing.
What was even the lowest of the low’s justification for hating you?
 
im 24 and haven't had friends outside of WoW since middle school. Even then it was more like people who just felt bad for me and let me hang out with them than real friends. I'm incapable of forming friendships. I'm too aspie.
 
wish i was a schizoidcel

It's the only way an incel can have a decent state of mind.
What was even the lowest of the low’s justification for hating you?

I refused to talk in school unless it was absolutely necessary, I also didn't try out for the basketball team. (The coach saw I was 6'5 and how this kid who tripped knocked into me and I didn't fall down) Some of these nerds were mascots, waterboys, assistant coaches, etc. and thought that the team would be better and they'd get girls/respect.
 
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I thought being a schizo only had disadvantages. Explain?

Schizoid is basically apathy with social situations, sex, etc, there's no disconnect with reality just a lack of interest. Are there disadvantages? Sure, but being incel has the same effect imo.
 
Schizoid is basically apathy with social situations, sex, etc, there's no disconnect with reality just a lack of interest. Are there disadvantages? Sure, but being incel has the same effect imo.

Now i understand. Yep, i wish i had any kind of sever mental illness that made things easier -.-
 
Schizoid is basically apathy with social situations, sex, etc, there's no disconnect with reality just a lack of interest. Are there disadvantages? Sure, but being incel has the same effect imo.

Usually, the schizoid personality displays virtually no interest in relationships, and therefore appears uninterested in pursuing intimacy or interpersonal connection.
 
25+ qualifies as oldcel. It feels like I'm the only true outcast on this planet. How do you survive a lifetime of solitary confinement?

this without even being in jail, well not that you could do what you want besides being a solo player
 
Usually, the schizoid personality displays virtually no interest in relationships, and therefore appears uninterested in pursuing intimacy or interpersonal connection.

Yes, I deal with narcissism though, if I had the option to slay, then I could live in peace.
 
No friends since middle school reporting in. Mild autism was useful for coping but the loneliness got to me eventually. Failed college and LDAR'd for years until I realized that I didn't have it in me to rope. I'm able to not LDAR thanks to some decent anti-depressants I've been on for a few years.
 
To the OP. You learn how to have fun with your own mind eventhough its suffering. If you like games you're lucky. Virtual friends don't need looks or you :feelsrope:

If that doesn't bother u, you are nothing.
 
I'm 25. Never had a friend, only "hung out" with people once, never got invited back. I get all retarded when talking to people, and I don't really like anybody and it shows, even if I try to be nice sometimes. I have some sort of undiagnosed mental thing, probably avoidant personality disorder, but I 100% have something.
 
36, no friends since junior high school.
 
Me, 35, last time I had friends was in middle school.
No friends since middle school reporting in.
haven't had friends since middle school.
same. It's crazy how much easier it was back then.
This forum is the only socialization I get.
feels bro. :feelsbadman:
I'm 25. Never had a friend, only "hung out" with people once, never got invited back. I get all retarded when talking to people, and I don't really like anybody and it shows, even if I try to be nice sometimes. I have some sort of undiagnosed mental thing, probably avoidant personality disorder, but I 100% have something.
sounds about right. I'm diagnosed with AvPD and this is my experience
I’ve NEVER wanted a friend let alone a group of them. Social circle isn’t going to help us and if you’re anything like me, even the guys that played MtG during lunch hated you in school just for existing.
yeah, the nerdy/weird kids always hate me for some reason.
 
same. It's crazy how much easier it was back then.

feels bro. :feelsbadman:

sounds about right. I'm diagnosed with AvPD and this is my experience

yeah, the nerdy/weird kids always hate me for some reason.
the fatal fate
 

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