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Serious Any 35+ cels here?

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If so what is life like by then. Is it better or is it even worse? Also do we have so few OLDcels here because dating was better or because they roped?
 
Most old people are probably married.
 
I am not 35+ but I imagine that anyone who is and is still alive is probably numb to anything having to do with dating or women.
 
I've reached that age this year.

For me, making my life mostly online videos and video games now numbs any kind of feelings I get most times. The reason I say most times is because there's no way to get away from foids. I still see them in games, online, on game forums, on discards. Can't get away from them so it eats at me at times because I know I can't have any of them.
But when I get back to my videos and games, all that memory is gone and I'm back to my bitter "don't give a shit" self.

I think it probably gotten a bit better as I've slightly accepted my fate. Doesn't mean I still don't have a slight bit of hope of maybe one day I would find someone, but I've given up looking directly. I've learned my lesson in the early 2010s and the 2000s. I'm not forcing myself to go out there anymore after all the fucking rejections I've had over the years. Only one can take so much abuse and still continue trying just to either get lies of "There's nothing wrong about you." when it's the same song and dance. Always the same song and dance.

I am not 35+ but I imagine that anyone who is and is still alive is probably numb to anything having to do with dating or women.
Ding ding ding!
 
@FrustratedWhiteMale @Emba @ChinaCurry @Alone75 @radishman @Angry_runt @Red Pill Rage @Bangkok or bust @Opus132 are users 35 plus. Why not give the OP the rundown of your current situation?
 
I am not 35+ but I imagine that anyone who is and is still alive is probably numb to anything having to do with dating or women.
If so what is life like by then. Is it better or is it even worse? Also do we have so few OLDcels here because dating was better or because they roped?
I've reached that age this year.

For me, making my life mostly online videos and video games now numbs any kind of feelings I get most times. The reason I say most times is because there's no way to get away from foids. I still see them in games, online, on game forums, on discards. Can't get away from them so it eats at me at times because I know I can't have any of them.
But when I get back to my videos and games, all that memory is gone and I'm back to my bitter "don't give a shit" self.

I think it probably gotten a bit better as I've slightly accepted my fate. Doesn't mean I still don't have a slight bit of hope of maybe one day I would find someone, but I've given up looking directly. I've learned my lesson in the early 2010s and the 2000s. I'm not forcing myself to go out there anymore after all the fucking rejections I've had over the years. Only one can take so much abuse and still continue trying just to either get lies of "There's nothing wrong about you." when it's the same song and dance. Always the same song and dance.


Ding ding ding!


Me in a few years.

Let's be honest, getting older makes your life exponentially worse. There is nothing good about it.

Just multiply how shitty your life is by 10x or so for a preview of your 30s.
 
They don't care that much because of their low T levels. Inceldom is hard in your 20s when your sex drive is at its peak and women arround your group are all fertile and hot and again in your 50s+ when all your colleagues have kids/grandkids while you are rotting alone all by yourself.
 
I'm 38, my life is better than at 28 or 18. Mainly due to lack of money worries and my brain has pretty much given up on trying to get me to reproduce.
 
I'm 33. I just go through the motions.
Work and go home. Rinse and repeat.
It just gets worse. Nothing really matters once you're +30
 
Call it a cope if you wish, but the older you get the less you start caring about your lack of success in DSR (dating sex and relationships). After a while it's hard to continue yearning for something you simply never had access to. It's like daydreaming about what you'd do with the powerball winnings... it's fun, but that's all it is. I don't bother approaching or using app like a braindead retard. I have zero delusions about my station in life or thoughts about a possible ascension.

I wage slave, which does suck but it allows me a certain amount of freedom. If you can neet until the grave through government checks or family allowing you to leech off of them, I say go for it... but know it's probably not sustainable into your 30s and 40s. It's hard to embrace the waifu laifu (dollmaxxing) when you live with your parents. Plus if you do you likely don't have 2-3k to just blow on a life companion. And there's also escorts if I feel like the itch needs scratching.

Honestly my desire for foids only goes down year to year as my sex drive diminishes. And reading about the blackpill and "foids behaving badly" and all that just makes it even less of a priority in my life. There is no love and they only devote themselves to chad, so a relationship is a non-starter for us. At best you can max up to hope for some pump and dumps... but if all you want it sex, might as well sugar baby/escort it and save yourself the trouble.

I'd take to heart what oldcels say because the fact of the matter is most incels are not gonna rope. Some do no doubt and I'm sure the # increases annually, but most will just rot.
 
It defo don't get any easier put it that way. I am too scarred by my younger years (what I missed out on), my family (yeah I know a lot of people luck out in that sense), and the blackpill to even want any kind of meaningful relationship ever again.

I'd say you become really numb to shit after 30, but u tend to be surrounded by really hard coping red and bluepillers, so u sort of have to act good for them.

Also u learn with age what combo of pills and meds work for u, which helps a lot
 
What ever happened to @FrustratedWhiteMale ?
 
@FrustratedWhiteMale @Emba @ChinaCurry @Alone75 @radishman @Angry_runt @Red Pill Rage @Bangkok or bust @Opus132 are users 35 plus. Why not give the OP the rundown of your current situation?
Many of the more obvious irl oldcels are too busy struggling to survive to really notice their Inceldom.

Many orbit a Becky that was nice to them in their far past, but currently only offer disdain and abuse.

Many more just hide from the world.

As for me, I just try to survive as well. And i hide from the world just like i did in my late 20s. - after i kept failing to have even low quality friendships, and watching my looksmatchs drool over Chad's and Brad's and motherfucking Tyrones!

I'm 58 now and i feel my death creeping up on me via the jewish power grab known as the holocough plandemic! Their zombies are coming to bite me with a vaxx.

So... Enjoy whatever you can while you can. Take comfort in the wild and rugged beauty of nature. It's all temporary!

Try to live every day as if it's your last... Because eventually it will be.
 

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