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An ascended incel would have no power in a relationship

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Relationships are a constant struggle for power. Every day there are constant little events whose outcome is determined by the power dynamic in the couple.

An ex-incel would lose a lot of his power in a relationship. His ugly looks, his lack of experience/confidence, his fear of losing her - they all take away from his power. And women are masters of lies and manipulation, they can sense all these things, and will absolutely take advantage.

A relationship for an ascended incel would be hell. Women control, use and abuse normal men already. For ex-incels it would be worse, constant psychological torture.
 
The status of a man can be so easily deconstructed by his looks and nothing else. Pertaining to that, females can take complete control over the relationship because of the difference in society's and the average person's ability to deconstruct their status.
 
Yes, but Gandy forbid our critics ever consider that. I used to tell guys to go for attractive women even though they were ugly or average, why? Because if you’re going to be put through the ringer, you might as well have something nice to look at.
 
This whole topic around ascension is a lie. We get older and older, so the chances are getting more and more slim. And how do you want to get in contact with any female in the first place? She will likely have a big social circle. She might have some orbiters as well. Seriously, how do you compete with this?
 
Well said

I dont think there is ascension though but youre right
 
This whole topic around ascension is a lie. We get older and older, so the chances are getting more and more slim. And how do you want to get in contact with any female in the first place? She will likely have a big social circle. She might have some orbiters as well. Seriously, how do you compete with this?
You are right, but there's one thing you haven't considered. The older a woman gets, the more desperate she becomes. Yes, nowadays they still have orbiters and many thirsty betas willing to fuck her. And honestly, she likely won't even look at an incel even at 50. But still, there are some women who are just inferior to other women, and for whom the clock is ticking quickly. She'll want to settle down, make babies and squeeze the life and resources out of a man. That's when an incel could be the victim of one of these shebeasts, and that's when he will ascend.
 
Its true. But i dont want the power on my side tbh, im not talking about being cucked btw.
 
you are actually powerless at every single stage
for starters you can't choose who to date, if a woman is available then that's it right there, it could be another 10 years until the next one, so you'll take it. you cannot act on any judgement whatsoever that you might make about her character, her promiscuity, her personality, her habits, her political leaning and how anti-male it is, absolutely nothing.
then once you're in, it's just like you said.
finally once you decide to actually leave the relationship, it's basically a pyrrhic victory every time as she gets another date immediately while you knowingly go back to another ten year dry spell. it's pretty hard to feel like you 'showed her' anything.
 
Yes, nowadays they still have orbiters and many thirsty betas willing to fuck her. And honestly, she likely won't even look at an incel even at 50. But still, there are some women who are just inferior to other women, and for whom the clock is ticking quickly.

So, the only thing left realistically is to find a female around from 40 to 50 years... This is really harsh, but true. So just go for older females brah... It is truly over. I have to delete this existence.
 
As you ascend you would need a new low inhib personality and to genuinely not care if she leaves you 'cos she will shit test you to oblivion. It's just their nature, they don't even consciously know they're doing it. Seems to me the only way to pass these shit tests is to hold frame and be unapologetic as much as possible.
 
This whole topic around ascension is a lie. We get older and older, so the chances are getting more and more slim. And how do you want to get in contact with any female in the first place? She will likely have a big social circle. She might have some orbiters as well. Seriously, how do you compete with this?
you don't, you are chad or not
 
JFL nigga water is wet. Odds are, if you do 'ascend' she'll still sniff the incel off of you and realize she's dating down. Its over
 
to be honest in a relationship the chances of me eventually just freaking the fuck out and making her feel exactly like the whore she is. putting on enough psychological pressure that she can't deny it and ends up a crying mess is very likely.

question is why bother, why build something you're going to trash anyway.

if you couldn't touch girls when they were <20, you've lost. beating up some stupid bitch and screaming in her face that she's a whore is not going to change anything.
 
to be honest in a relationship the chances of me eventually just freaking the fuck out and making her feel exactly like the whore she is. putting on enough psychological pressure that she can't deny it and ends up a crying mess is very likely.

question is why bother, why build something you're going to trash anyway.

if you couldn't touch girls when they were <20, you've lost. beating up some stupid bitch and screaming in her face that she's a whore is not going to change anything.
That would indeed be very likely. Women like to play games, shit test and manipulate. Eventually a man snaps, and seeing as we're not Chad and she doesn't have to stay with us, the entire relationship will have become a waste of time.
 
Lol 26 guests. The slightest grievance for a socially normal person would be devastating for an incel that “ascended”.
 
That would indeed be very likely. Women like to play games, shit test and manipulate. Eventually a man snaps, and seeing as we're not Chad and she doesn't have to stay with us, the entire relationship will have become a waste of time.
even normalfags snap

i put my ear against the wall one night when i heard some weird shit from next door, it was a woman saying something like 'this is the third time you've raised your hand against me' and him mumbling some shit inaudibly in a deep voice.
 
Just fucking lol at even getting into a relationship as of 2019
 
I wouldn't mind having my relationship to end prematurely, just having the experience would be more desirable than my current condition.
 
Ascension is a big lie made by gays
 

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