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Am i being deluded?

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I have a crush on this girl. She’s in my uni classes and i see her in person 2 times a week. I managed to get her snapchat because she added me and my friends to a group on there.

I’m mainly the one who initiates conversations with her first. She has never once hit me up with a random “hey” or “hru”. It’s always me who does that. Yet again I have only known her for less than a month and just this week got her snapchat. At most she sends me a snap first, then I’m the one who starts a conversation.

I think she’s a slow burner because now she seems to be more comfortable with me. Shows her face etc.

She did show some clear signs that she was interested in me. Basically S tier signs if you saw wheat waffles video. She stares at me, only knew my name, tries to get my attention in person. But online it just seems so different.

Perhaps, she is just busy most of the time unlike me who does LDAR most of the day. Anyways the thing is I know she is attracted to me facially but the question is why am i still a virgin and why does it seem like she doesn’t like me.

I did remember when i was sitting by myself, i heard her and her friend talking. One of them was talking about missing their “ex”. If it was her, i would move on asap because I can easily foresee what would happen. But i don’t know if it’s her, it’s just a possibility.

She said she likes mature guys, so I started a conversation with her today about a rather serious topic. “What do you want to achieve in 5 years”. She answered it, “to be successful” and when i asked her more about it, she explained rather coldly, “im busy now”. For context, its 9:00pm on a Friday.

What do I do? Shes on my mind 24/7 and I can’t help it. Shes a Persian MTB
 
If girls give you S tier signals then your place is not here mate:feelshehe:
 
I have a crush on this girl. She’s in my uni classes and i see her in person 2 times a week. I managed to get her snapchat because she added me and my friends to a group on there.

I’m mainly the one who initiates conversations with her first. She has never once hit me up with a random “hey” or “hru”. It’s always me who does that. Yet again I have only known her for less than a month and just this week got her snapchat. At most she sends me a snap first, then I’m the one who starts a conversation.

I think she’s a slow burner because now she seems to be more comfortable with me. Shows her face etc.

She did show some clear signs that she was interested in me. Basically S tier signs if you saw wheat waffles video. She stares at me, only knew my name, tries to get my attention in person. But online it just seems so different.

Perhaps, she is just busy most of the time unlike me who does LDAR most of the day. Anyways the thing is I know she is attracted to me facially but the question is why am i still a virgin and why does it seem like she doesn’t like me.

I did remember when i was sitting by myself, i heard her and her friend talking. One of them was talking about missing their “ex”. If it was her, i would move on asap because I can easily foresee what would happen. But i don’t know if it’s her, it’s just a possibility.

She said she likes mature guys, so I started a conversation with her today about a rather serious topic. “What do you want to achieve in 5 years”. She answered it, “to be successful” and when i asked her more about it, she explained rather coldly, “im busy now”. For context, its 9:00pm on a Friday.

What do I do? Shes on my mind 24/7 and I can’t help it. Shes a Persian MTB
If she was into you she'd be hitting you up non-stop.
 
Well she’s obviously not into me then. Since I’m making a thread on incel.is and I’m just being deluded which the title of my thread is
 
I have a crush on this girl.
yes u r being deluded

all foids are the same and none is special

if u have a oneitis then it is just a delusion
 
yes u r being deluded

all foids are the same and none is special

if u have a oneitis then it is just a delusion
I mean i cannot deny when i thought she was the one. But trust me as soon as i found out whether or not she had exes, ill move on instantly, i just need something ti help me move on
 
I mean i cannot deny when i thought she was the one. But trust me as soon as i found out whether or not she had exes, ill move on instantly, i just need something ti help me move on
it doesn't matter, all foids are whores who only want chads

she's probably had exes, but even if she didn't she probably fantasizes about chad cock and has one night stands

you should forget that she exists
 
it doesn't matter, all foids are whores who only want chads

she's probably had exes, but even if she didn't she probably fantasizes about chad cock and has one night stands

you should forget that she exists
But what do i do man. I don’t watch porn. I’ve never hugged a girl outside my family, let alone kiss or even had sex with one. I’m desperate
 
But what do i do man. I don’t watch porn. I’ve never hugged a girl outside my family, let alone kiss or even had sex with one. I’m desperate
take the blackpill
 
When a girl is interested, you would know.

Move on, sadly.
 
But I’m only 18 and i don’t think my looks are the problem. Just the way I act
ok then gtfo this forum, you are fakecel
 
She said she likes mature guys, so I started a conversation with her today about a rather serious topic. “What do you want to achieve in 5 years”. She answered it, “to be successful” and when i asked her more about it, she explained rather coldly, “im busy now”. For context, its 9:00pm on a Friday.

This basically tells me that she doesn't have a plan in life, I know a lot of people that want to achieve something but don't have a plan for it. If she reacts like that to that question I'd advise you to not ask more about what she wants to achieve but try to initiate conversations that can stroke her ego and make her believe that you can help her accomplish things, just first try to find something in which she thinks she needs inspiration.
 
ok then gtfo this forum, you are fakecel
You pathetic no life. I am a virgin and I haven’t fucked any bitches yet you call me a fakecel. If i was a fakecel would i be here fantasing abt this girl who doesn’t like me, low iq imbecile
 
Why was she staring at me in class. Only remembered my name. And always responds to my snaps fast

Those are good signals, maybe she's just socially awkward, this means that you always have to lead the conversation.
 
This basically tells me that she doesn't have a plan in life, I know a lot of people that want to achieve something but don't have a plan for it. If she reacts like that to that question I'd advise you to not ask more about what she wants to achieve but try to initiate conversations that can stroke her ego and make her believe that you can help her accomplish things, just first try to find something in which she thinks she needs inspiration.
Thank you bro. That is very good advice and just what I was looking for. Thank you so much
 
You pathetic no life. I am a virgin and I haven’t fucked any bitches yet you call me a fakecel. If i was a fakecel would i be here fantasing abt this girl who doesn’t like me, low iq imbecile
you're 18 and say that your looks aren't a problem

that means you aren't an incel

fakecels like you have no place here
 
You pathetic no life. I am a virgin and I haven’t fucked any bitches yet you call me a fakecel. If i was a fakecel would i be here fantasing abt this girl who doesn’t like me, low iq imbecile

Don't let this negativity get to your head, 98% of all men are incels, I sincerely doubt that there is a fakecel epidemic...
 
Those are good signals, maybe she's just socially awkward, this means that you always have to lead the conversation.
I guess so. She is extroverted in real life but when she first saw me, she was quiet asf. And on messages, i thought it would be different but not really
 
Then why am i still a virgin?
because you're young and many guys haven't had sex by 18

there are actual incels here who are subhuman and will never be loved because of their looks, how dare you come here and claim to be incel because of 'how you act'

GrAYs are retarded
 
This basically tells me that she doesn't have a plan in life, I know a lot of people that want to achieve something but don't have a plan for it. If she reacts like that to that question I'd advise you to not ask more about what she wants to achieve but try to initiate conversations that can stroke her ego and make her believe that you can help her accomplish things, just first try to find something in which she thinks she needs inspiration.
have you got discord by any chance
 
How you manage to get womans snapchat and be incel?
No woman has ever provided me her number mate feel lucky, at least there is hope for you.
You are just a failed normie, correct your mind with shrooms, DMT and Ayahuasca retreat to turn NT.
Imma make a thread about this soon,
it will fix our minds as blackpillers. it will most likely reset our system
 
Thank you bro. That is very good advice and just what I was looking for. Thank you so much

Be subtle about it, don't come in like a juggernaut, steer the conversation into the place you want it, you can't force a conversation to be like this, the flow has to be natural and she has to feel like she was interested in hearing your suggestions, not like it's something you want to spontaneously tell her and she's just the audience, always make sure that there's engagement.

Good luck, brocel.
 
Why was she staring at me in class. Only remembered my name. And always responds to my snaps fast
None of that matters. Stop watching grifters like Wheat Waffles.

Is she initiating contact and showing clear desire to be touchy with you? If not, and you've been talking to her for a while, then it's over. There's no "slow burners" or "getting comfortable".
 
But even the Deathnic sub 5 got it. It was uni group for studying
Then she is using both of you as orbiters for entertainment and attention/validation
 
because you're young and many guys haven't had sex by 18

there are actual incels here who are subhuman and will never be loved because of their looks, how dare you come here and claim to be incel because of 'how you act'

GrAYs are retarded
perhaps you
How you manage to get womans snapchat and be incel?
No woman has ever provided me her number mate feel lucky, at least there is hope for you.
You are just a failed normie, correct your mind with shrooms, DMT and Ayahuasca retreat to turn NT.
Imma make a thread about this soon,
it will fix our minds as blackpillers. it will most likely reset our system
Ok bro. I will watch you for the moment until you make the thread
 
Then she is using both of you as orbiters for entertainment and attention/validation
I didnt consider if any of them were moving to her. Wow perhaps they are
None of that matters. Stop watching grifters like Wheat Waffles.

Is she initiating contact and showing clear desire to be touchy with you? If not, and you've been talking to her for a while, then it's over. There's no "slow burners" or "getting comfortable".
she didn’t mind being close to me when we was writing on this board together. I got her snapchat last week.
 
Be subtle about it, don't come in like a juggernaut, steer the conversation into the place you want it, you can't force a conversation to be like this, the flow has to be natural and she has to feel like she was interested in hearing your suggestions, not like it's something you want to spontaneously tell her and she's just the audience, always make sure that there's engagement.

Good luck, brocel.
I will copy and paste this and remember this. Please tell me if you have discord or any other socials, you gave me the advice i needed
 
But what do i do man. I don’t watch porn. I’ve never hugged a girl outside my family, let alone kiss or even had sex with one. I’m desperate
you have achieved more in this message then most here i think.

thanks for bragging
 
I have a crush on this girl. She’s in my uni classes and i see her in person 2 times a week. I managed to get her snapchat because she added me and my friends to a group on there.

I’m mainly the one who initiates conversations with her first. She has never once hit me up with a random “hey” or “hru”. It’s always me who does that. Yet again I have only known her for less than a month and just this week got her snapchat. At most she sends me a snap first, then I’m the one who starts a conversation.

I think she’s a slow burner because now she seems to be more comfortable with me. Shows her face etc.

She did show some clear signs that she was interested in me. Basically S tier signs if you saw wheat waffles video. She stares at me, only knew my name, tries to get my attention in person. But online it just seems so different.

Perhaps, she is just busy most of the time unlike me who does LDAR most of the day. Anyways the thing is I know she is attracted to me facially but the question is why am i still a virgin and why does it seem like she doesn’t like me.

I did remember when i was sitting by myself, i heard her and her friend talking. One of them was talking about missing their “ex”. If it was her, i would move on asap because I can easily foresee what would happen. But i don’t know if it’s her, it’s just a possibility.

She said she likes mature guys, so I started a conversation with her today about a rather serious topic. “What do you want to achieve in 5 years”. She answered it, “to be successful” and when i asked her more about it, she explained rather coldly, “im busy now”. For context, its 9:00pm on a Friday.

What do I do? Shes on my mind 24/7 and I can’t help it. Shes a Persian MTB
She thinks your gay, shes trying to get you as a best friend. Thats all.
 

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