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Venting almost got fired today for driving by my coworker's house.

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I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
 
This is another reason to avoid the foids in work
 
Leave car with a shotgun that you will load as you come straight to her door. Ring the bell and then welcome hER loudly and make sure all neighbours will remember that day for rest of their lives
 
If anyone asks just feign ignorance. As far as I can tell, you've got things sorted out with your boss which is all that matters. Now, avoid that foid at all costs. If she's ever tries to interact with you first, make sure you discreetly record everything, as she could try to get you in further trouble. Do not take any risks, but don't let it eat away at you either. Their personality detectors may suck but these foids can smell fear and will definitely try to take advantage of that.
 
This is another reason to avoid the foids in work
I guess so. before this I honestly thought she somewhat liked me (platonically, obviously). we never really talked but she was respectful and would say 'hi' sometimes if we walked into the office at the same time. I thought she at least saw me as a human being, but obviously not.
 
If she's ever tries to interact with you first, make sure you discreetly record everything, as she could try to get you in further trouble.
I doubt she will, but this is a good idea. she's obviously twisting things her way so I'll have to protect myself for sure. thanks brother.
 
Leave car with a shotgun that you will load as you come straight to her door. Ring the bell and then welcome hER loudly and make sure all neighbours will remember that day for rest of their lives
I will do this tonight (in Arc Raiders).
 
fakecel if you have an office job
 
shoulda did a trades job.

There's no foids there
 
A new reminder of what it's like to be an unattractive man in society.

They reject you silently or loudly ( she did both by inviting someone in front of you and not including you )

Then if you try to socialize, it backfire to you.

You misunderstood her and just because of that you have to face consequences.

Work shouldn't even have to put you in anxiety mode for something that happened out of your work environment, it's your right to drive where you want and like you said, you didn't stopped, you didn't do anything wrong.

If they fire you or try to intimidatedyou, go to court.
 
What a cunt she is, if you do see her again look at her as if she smells of shit
 
fakecel if you have an office job
I don't know if you'd call it an "office job" since I'm rarely at the office, except to clock-in and grab supplies for whatever job site I'm headed to. I go to different stores and such to fix their computers/POS systems so it's an IT job, pretty typical for incels who don't NEET.
 
I don't know if you'd call it an "office job" since I'm rarely at the office, except to clock-in and grab supplies for whatever job site I'm headed to. I go to different stores and such to fix their computers/POS systems so it's an IT job, pretty typical for incels who don't NEET.
yeah I read the whole story now, brootal. they can't even pretend to be nice despite their superior social skills.
 
shoulda did a trades job.

There's no foids there
there's lots of foids in trades where I'm at, 'cause they just get awarded any job they want if they apply for anything considered male-dominated. then they just stand around and do the least amount of work while they cry about the wage gap but get paid exactly what they deserve for having no experience and no training.

it's also just full of chads. I'd be endlessly bullied and probably useless as a low energy, skeletal freak.
 
yeah I read the whole story now, brootal. they can't even pretend to be nice despite their superior social skills.
exactly. they're "so much better" than us yet somehow can't treat us like humans.
 
What a cunt she is, if you do see her again look at her as if she smells of shit
I don't want to antagonize her, she will just make up more shit about me.
 
A new reminder of what it's like to be an unattractive man in society.

They reject you silently or loudly ( she did both by inviting someone in front of you and not including you )

Then if you try to socialize, it backfire to you.

You misunderstood her and just because of that you have to face consequences.

Work shouldn't even have to put you in anxiety mode for something that happened out of your work environment, it's your right to drive where you want and like you said, you didn't stopped, you didn't do anything wrong.

If they fire you or try to intimidatedyou, go to court.
you said it perfectly. I don't know why others refuse to see it this way, just as it is.

the court system here is pretty cucked, but if it happens, I'll see what I can do..
 
there's lots of foids in trades where I'm at, 'cause they just get awarded any job they want if they apply for anything considered male-dominated. then they just stand around and do the least amount of work while they cry about the wage gap but get paid exactly what they deserve for having no experience and no training.

it's also just full of chads. I'd be endlessly bullied and probably useless as a low energy, skeletal freak.
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the chad part is kind of untrue, but the job probably is hypermasculine which means everybody working there is a white knight cuckservative who serves foids and children.
 
If I ever had a male HR worker who acts like an absolute shitfag, I'd run him over when he plays GTAVI online.
 
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the chad part is kind of untrue, but the job probably is hypermasculine which means everybody working there is a white knight cuckservative who serves foids and children.
AI overview is wrong all the time, and I'm talking about where I live. I see tradesmen everyday and lots of them are chads.
 
AI overview is wrong all the time, and I'm talking about where I live. I see tradesmen everyday and lots of them are chads.
At least you get to cope and say that you aern't breaking your back and your work is safe :feelshaha: :feelsthink: :feelsgah:
 
If I ever had a male HR worker who acts like an absolute shitfag, I'd run him over when he plays GTAVI online.
the funny thing is he isn't even HR, we don't actually have a dedicated HR department because it's a small business.
 
I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
No foids in business!
 
No foids in business!
they unironically need to go back to the kitchen. they make every workplace needlessly complicated.
 
the funny thing is he isn't even HR, we don't actually have a dedicated HR department because it's a small business.
Probably better tbh. HR departments are almost always foids
 
Listen to your boss and keep your distance. Obviousely she is crazy.

Don't even talk to her. Act like she does not exist.

The best you can do.
 
Probably better tbh. HR departments are almost always foids
yeah exactly, they'd probably just back her completely without even thinking about it.
 
Listen to your boss and keep your distance. Obviousely she is crazy.

Don't even talk to her. Act like she does not exist.

The best you can do.
yeah that's definitely what I'll do from now on. fucking psychotic foid.
 
I thought mgtow was cope. Until I saw rhis thread jfl
 
I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
Keep your head up man who really cares, its not a crime to drive down a street
 
Keep your head up man who really cares, its not a crime to drive down a street
I just don't want to lose my job or have it be more soul crushing then it already is. :feelsbadman: but I'm headed home for the day and these comments have helped.
 
I just don't want to lose my job or have it be more soul crushing then it already is. :feelsbadman: but I'm headed home for the day and these comments have helped.
I really dont think you can lose your job for this, seems your boss is chill, if your boss would fire you he would most likely have gone into a normie rant
 
I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
im sorry brocel, normoids are evil creatures


maybe someone randomly brought it up and she went through her camera footage on the night of the party to check and saw you there
 
I really dont think you can lose your job for this, seems your boss is chill, if your boss would fire you he would most likely have gone into a normie rant
I don't know, he seemed really frustrated by the whole situation, so if she makes up more shit, he might just fire me out of convenience. it's a small business so he could just say it's a lay-off due to finances.
 
im sorry brocel, normoids are evil creatures


maybe someone randomly brought it up and she went through her camera footage on the night of the party to check and saw you there
thanks brother.

and that's what I was thinking at first, but I don't think most cameras store footage from that far back? could be wrong though.
 
You need to remember that as a low-smv male, anything you do can be "creepy" if they say it is. By doing a drive-by of her house party you just gave them something to talk about, that they could put a very negative angle on.

At least now you know what people at your work think of you. Do you like that job? If not it might be time to start looking for the next job?

If anyone asks just feign ignorance. As far as I can tell, you've got things sorted out with your boss which is all that matters. Now, avoid that foid at all costs. If she's ever tries to interact with you first, make sure you discreetly record everything, as she could try to get you in further trouble. Do not take any risks, but don't let it eat away at you either. Their personality detectors may suck but these foids can smell fear and will definitely try to take advantage of that.
:yes: This is good advice.

Listen to your boss and keep your distance. Obviousely she is crazy.

Don't even talk to her. Act like she does not exist.

The best you can do.
:yes: This is good advice.
 
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Do you like that job? If not it might be time to start looking for the next job?
I don't like having to go to different job sites and communicate with so many people every day, so not really. I thought going into IT meant I could keep to myself more. I've been looking for other jobs like that but the IT industry here is really bad right now. it's so hard to get/keep a job and they tend to be pretty shitty, unless you've been in it for 20+ years.
 
Woman exaggerate and are Neurotic whats new :feelsclown:
 
I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
She was most likely gossiping and talking shit about you out of nowhere one day and the manager just happened to be in the conversation so he ended up wanting to whiteknight for her by stepping in.
 
Might want to look for a new job bro.

Besides them all partying without you, they ALL think you're Crepy stalker!

Sorry bro about the inconvenience, but you got to get ahead of it.
 
I posted about the original nothing burger a few months ago; basically my coworker was having a party and she invited everyone except me. at the time I wasn't sure if she meant to include me, because she invited someone right in front of me, and said her address out loud and everything. I realize, now, how stupid I was for thinking she might've been talking to me too. but I'm a retard.

anyway, on the night of the party, I drove by the front of her house, then down the back lane. I didn't stop but I drove kind of slow and saw all of my coworkers sitting around a fire, laughing, drinking, being obnoxious and having fun. then I went home. nothing fucking happened.

then today, MONTHS after that, I got pulled into the office first thing in the morning. my boss told me a foid coworker accused me of stalking and I legitimately had no idea what he was on about. then he said, "she says she has you on camera driving around the front and back of her house" and I realized who he was talking about. I basically explained the situation and by the end of the meeting, he didn't really know what to do. she obviously made it sound worse than it was and I clearly didn't do anything wrong. so he gave me a "verbal warning" and told me to keep my distance from her.

luckily I don't have to be around her much since I'm usually on different job sites. but this is fucking crazy. I don't understand how she knew (I was sure no one noticed me) or why it was only brought up now. I'm on break right now and I can't calm down, my heart is racing. I'll probably have to just call-in for the rest of my shift because I can't fucking do this.
God reading this fills me with so much rage, I really do hate women
 

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