Normies typically say "get out more". "Meet new people". "join a club", "if people are shitty to you...find new people!" etc.
These things don't work. ...or at least don't work after a certain age or for total loner males.
There are a lot of such tips being thrown on most forums when some loner asks about increasing his chances of meeting someone and maybe even having new guy friends to open social avenues to meet single chicks , such as the overused typical "join a social club", "join a Meetup" , "join a cooking class" ..... they all revolve around joining X.
In my experience, those very rarely work for forming new friendships, let alone relationships with girls - these only make you have new temporary acquaintances - who will all disappear after you finish/stop the activity/class. They may not even like you and will rebuff your friendship as well.
For example I 've been in extensive 4 month Dreamweaver/web design programming courses in the past, the guys were approachable , we even formed a chat group to communicate and hanged out to somewhere nearby the classes and talked about sport etc...but once we finished the courses finished, pfff .....nothing, even i even attempted to revive some ideas in our chat group but nothing.
And this wasn't the worse case, typically when a class finished (whether it is soccer class, gym, martial arts, cooking, photography, reading, book club, walking club, history group or skill class...) everyone just rushes to leave home - there's no socialization in any form or shape after class. People are very shut off. Closed book.
As for social/activity clubs, people usually join with an already-established group of friends; they never seem to be interested to really know new people from the club itself (females maybe, but not single males), and make them part of their life outside the club at least.
Even if you succeed to obtain their facebook and add you or even their numbers, it leads to nowhere except more feed to your page - there's zero effort from over-21 or so people to form new friendships. I am not just talking about the opposite sex. No one really follows through.
The only thing that I've witnessed to work (to form new friendships or relationship) is mutual friendships, and not those activities/clubs many Normies talking about....but one should have an active social life to have that to begin with.
Who told you these things work for incels? They actually don't, really.
These things don't work. ...or at least don't work after a certain age or for total loner males.
There are a lot of such tips being thrown on most forums when some loner asks about increasing his chances of meeting someone and maybe even having new guy friends to open social avenues to meet single chicks , such as the overused typical "join a social club", "join a Meetup" , "join a cooking class" ..... they all revolve around joining X.
In my experience, those very rarely work for forming new friendships, let alone relationships with girls - these only make you have new temporary acquaintances - who will all disappear after you finish/stop the activity/class. They may not even like you and will rebuff your friendship as well.
For example I 've been in extensive 4 month Dreamweaver/web design programming courses in the past, the guys were approachable , we even formed a chat group to communicate and hanged out to somewhere nearby the classes and talked about sport etc...but once we finished the courses finished, pfff .....nothing, even i even attempted to revive some ideas in our chat group but nothing.
And this wasn't the worse case, typically when a class finished (whether it is soccer class, gym, martial arts, cooking, photography, reading, book club, walking club, history group or skill class...) everyone just rushes to leave home - there's no socialization in any form or shape after class. People are very shut off. Closed book.
As for social/activity clubs, people usually join with an already-established group of friends; they never seem to be interested to really know new people from the club itself (females maybe, but not single males), and make them part of their life outside the club at least.
Even if you succeed to obtain their facebook and add you or even their numbers, it leads to nowhere except more feed to your page - there's zero effort from over-21 or so people to form new friendships. I am not just talking about the opposite sex. No one really follows through.
The only thing that I've witnessed to work (to form new friendships or relationship) is mutual friendships, and not those activities/clubs many Normies talking about....but one should have an active social life to have that to begin with.
Who told you these things work for incels? They actually don't, really.
