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It's Over All the "nerds" and "losers" that I played online games with moved on in life.

VirginAutistManlet

VirginAutistManlet

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This hit me the hardest out of anything, when all the nerds and losers I played MMORPGs back in the early-mid-late 2000s, since then they have moved on in life, they some how managed to escape being a video gaming shut-in and actually developed some what of a normal life by their 30s. I never did though, I am essentially in the same situation I was back then, I was never able to progress and move on in life.

I think this is why video games no longer let me cope anymore, every-time I try to play a game, I end up realizing I am the oldest person, everyone else is in their late teens or early 20s at the latest, and I just feel completely out of place.
 
try ffxiv it has alot of parents and older ppl
 
Same here. I remember being the youngest player on any given server.
 
Honeypot
 
Can confirm. One guy in my free company is 30 and has a girlfriend.
ye its a lot of those older ppl they got gfs cause times were easier back then too.. i dont see ppl my age or at twentys with gfs tbh.. are u on EU?
 
Same here. I remember being the youngest player on any given server.

Recently I installed some new game, and in one of the online games I played, some guy that sounded like he was in his late teens/early 20s at the oldest, says to me "Hey VirginAutistManlet, you sound like you're at least 30, generally curious bro, what are you doing playing games at that age, I'm surprised you even have time to play at that age?". Im in my early 30s, but Im surprised the guy actually thought I sounded old, I think that I have a baby voice.

To think at one time (when I was 15, 16, 17, etc) I use to lie and say I was older than I was.
 
I'll play maybe 1-2 games at most per year. Never really crave them at all.
 
Videogames are boring af If youre ugly.
 
Games just aren't that fun past a certain age, anyways. Don't know how some of you are still playing it so often outside of college age range.
 
Games just aren't that fun past a certain age, anyways. Don't know how some of you are still playing it so often outside of college age range.

I exercise so much already, I spend so much time doing research, I do everything I can to pass the time, but eventually I end up trying a video game as last resort cope.

I mean look at time-online here, Im in the top 20 time-spent online here. I read a lot of threads here. Its a small part of my research tbh.
 
You are not alone , I'm 34yo and I play video games. Theres plenty of men our age playing vgames as a cope.
 
maybe because of puberty. maybe they werent that gifted before but there gene-manifestation greatly improved after they are finished with their puberty transformation. while you on the other hand were ugly and or became uglier. puberty can save or fuck you.
 
maybe because of puberty. maybe they werent that gifted before but there gene-manifestation greatly improved after they are finished with their puberty transformation. while you on the other hand were ugly and or became uglier. puberty can save or fuck you.

Nah these guys were all past puberty back then. I guess what I am saying is that they went from playing video games like 10-15 hours a day, to disappearing off the face of the internet, to normie lives. Its as if they were all normies to begin with, and them being MMORPG addicts was some short 3-5 year phase in their life and thats it.
 
I lost the game of life.
 
Nah these guys were all past puberty back then. I guess what I am saying is that they went from playing video games like 10-15 hours a day, to disappearing off the face of the internet, to normie lives. Its as if they were all normies to begin with, and them being MMORPG addicts was some short 3-5 year phase in their life and thats it.
yeah I think I know guys like that too. do you know how they looked?
 
yeah I think I know guys like that too. do you know how they looked?

When someones spend 10-15 hours a day on games for years during their peak youth (18-24), you don't exactly expect them to be lookers, considering good looking guys are too busy being around women during that period to be bothered playing games.
 
Nah these guys were all past puberty back then. I guess what I am saying is that they went from playing video games like 10-15 hours a day, to disappearing off the face of the internet, to normie lives. Its as if they were all normies to begin with, and them being MMORPG addicts was some short 3-5 year phase in their life and thats it.

Games are addictive bro, but eventually you realize its just the same shit over and over and quit. Happened to me and a bunch of other videogame-cels I knew.
 
Games are addictive bro, but eventually you realize its just the same shit over and over and quit. Happened to me and a bunch of other videogame-cels I knew.

Yes, I came to this realization in my early 20s as well, but I had no way to escaping it, I tried disappearing off the face of the internet like those guys all did, but it led me nowhere. In my early 20s I had stopped playing games for YEARS, and it had no change on my life whatsoever, I didn't just head towards a normie life, if anything I regressed socially since I stopped playing games. At least I would be socializing (online) when I played games back then, when I gave that up cold turkey I was left with nothing, and years down the line when I tried to return, it wasn't the same anymore.
 
When someones spend 10-15 hours a day on games for years during their peak youth (18-24), you don't exactly expect them to be lookers, considering good looking guys are too busy being around women during that period to be bothered playing games.
maybe after the 10-15h they got out slaying xd nah man your right its kind of weird. maybe their sexdrive was very low and they looked average? and they got more interested in foids after quite some time after puberty considering that testosterone still rises after puberty to some point. than they tried a lot and got a ugly gf as a normie
 
Can't wait to by the Nintendo Switch Lite tbh.
 
And your surprised by that op? they where never real incels and tflers to begin with just failed normies. so they've gone on to become some used up bitches beta bucks cuck, who gives a shit lol fuck'em anyways.

for me i kind of made gaming a career as a platinum trophy hunter on the psn, the trophies do serve as a sort of surrogate achievement in place of real life success. its something i can point at and show that i at least am a beast when it comes to getting achievements in video games.

of course any normies you tell will only laugh and shame you for being a loser, but really fuck that. im proud of my 55 platinums and can at least say I've succeeded in something. video games will forever be the greatest escape from reality and will only get more compelling and immersive as time goes on.
 
Same I only play videogames alone now everyone I use to play with stop playing. It sucks because now I have no one I can talk to and waste countless hours enjoying a virtual world instead being in the shitty real one. Unfortunately they all moved on in life and do normie shit now.
 
Same, I noticed this too.
 
They were possibly just mentalcels.Quite a few mentalcels spend lots of time playing vidya during youth,then leave their house for once and ascend.Then keep telling others their "inspiring" transformation from nerd to normie
 
Ive played MMORPGs too and I noticed the main userbase is always kids, and some adults who have kids my age and no responsibilities
 
My brother is good example of that, he lived with parents and me till 23, played games or watching TV all day, until he found a girlfriend and moved on to live with her, they both work today
 
You are not alone , I'm 34yo and I play video games. Theres plenty of men our age playing vgames as a cope.

Imagine, instead of wasting our time playing video games, we can just conquer this world. But unfortunately, that won't happen.
 
true, its even worse IRL.
 
I just play Terraria alone. I don't go online.
 
Yep, my steam friend's list is depressing as fuck. Some friends havent logged in for over 5 years. They all got married, had children and slowly stopped playing video games. Meanwhile here I am, in my 30s and never even had a girlfriend. Fuck, not even a single one night stand.

Back in the day we used to be best b uds online. Back when I was a neet I remember waking up, logging onto a MMO and playing it literally all day. These guys did the same thing. I guess that life isn't really sustainable, though. Either you norm it up and live a mentally stable life or become an incel wreck like myself.
 
Indeed ... im not at that stage yet as im 22 but lately my friends arent logged most days like before ... now you see them 1 or 2 times/week and im the only one neetcelling while they move on with their lives ... truly a sad moment
 
Indeed ... im not at that stage yet as im 22 but lately my friends arent logged most days like before ... now you see them 1 or 2 times/week and im the only one neetcelling while they move on with their lives ... truly a sad moment
Brutal
 
Imagine, instead of wasting our time playing video games, we can just conquer this world. But unfortunately, that won't happen.
Tbh. We need money to do that and we can create a secret society like the iluminatis.
 
I will probably buy a VR Headset now, I want to maximize vidya coping and reality escaping.
 
Here's a story from a guy I know personally who got his first Girlfriend in Final Fantasy Online (FFXIV) with 30 years old.


So I knew this guy back from WoW days, but we all moved on to FFXIV. He was 30 years old, and he was the typical "guy living in mom's basement guy". All he did was play video games, never went outside, etc.

So around 2 years ago, he met a woman in her late 20's in FFXIV. She joined our Free Company (it's like a guild), and they were pretty much sitting together in Discord VC all day, and after 1-2 months they decided to meet up.
So he went outside for the first time in a year or something, to get a hair cut, get proper clothes, shave, etc. So he would look at least hygenic when they met up (honestly, he wasn't bad looking. He just literally never took showers, shaved, cut his hair etc. she knew he was that kind of "mom's basement" guy, she still met up with him).
So, everything went well. They moved in after 7 months or so, they are now 2 years later engaged and she's pregnant with his kid.
He also got a job now, etc.
I still see them online sometimes.
 
Here's a story from a guy I know personally who got his first Girlfriend in Final Fantasy Online (FFXIV) with 30 years old.


So I knew this guy back from WoW days, but we all moved on to FFXIV. He was 30 years old, and he was the typical "guy living in mom's basement guy". All he did was play video games, never went outside, etc.

So around 2 years ago, he met a woman in her late 20's in FFXIV. She joined our Free Company (it's like a guild), and they were pretty much sitting together in Discord VC all day, and after 1-2 months they decided to meet up.
So he went outside for the first time in a year or something, to get a hair cut, get proper clothes, shave, etc. So he would look at least hygenic when they met up (honestly, he wasn't bad looking. He just literally never took showers, shaved, cut his hair etc. she knew he was that kind of "mom's basement" guy, she still met up with him).
So, everything went well. They moved in after 7 months or so, they are now 2 years later engaged and she's pregnant with his kid.
He also got a job now, etc.
I still see them online sometimes.

I bet he was at least 5'11
 
Tbh. We need money to do that and we can create a secret society like the iluminatis.

But the thing is we cannot generate much money. We are massively limited.
 

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