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@ColdLightOfDay @GoffSystemQB

You guys have got to be shitting me. OP is NT, intelligent, 6'5, wide-framed, white, athletic (basketball player), with an above-average face (at least while younger)? And his only complaint is that he is balding a bit?
I’m not shitting you, all those things are true - apart from the assertion that he is intelligent; he may be a sadistic troll of middling intellect or he may be one of the most retarded people I’ve ever come across in my life. Either way, his stupidity is rooted in his narcissism and self-delusion more so than any abject cognitive deficiency - which is why I have 0 sympathy for him. Though if he is genuine, he is so far beyond the pale of self-centred conceit that I consider him more of an idiot than severe down syndrome sufferers who are, merely by virtue of knowing they are different from others, capable of practicing more self awareness than he is. If he is indeed trolling, then ‘intelligent’ would still be an inaccurate label for him given the fact he is so brazen in his contradictions that anyone who isn’t severely autistic would be able to see him for what he is. That is why a part of me believes he is merely a delusional narcissist, because a troll who spends as much time dedicated to their craft as he does, yet lacks such basic continuity in their trolling so as to make it realistic, seems like quite an abstraction to me that I can’t get my head round. Either way - he’s fucking retarded.
 
I'll leave it a this. All those times you posted the Zuckerberg vs. UCLA gigamogging I wonder if you were secretly getting enjoyment/validation as some sort of narcissist. Because the way you describe yourself you're certainly closer to the 6'5+ white wide-framed basketball player with an above-average face than Zucky. That's what really makes me go hmmm.

What exactly was your intent on spamming that picture over the forum? There's no way in hell you relate more to Zuckerberg given your descriptions of yourself. You might as well BE the guy in the photo with the descriptions/comments I found lol.


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Board has become a circle jerk of gate keepers claiming they're the only true incels

Sadly this is kind of true.
I’d rather have a board of blackpilled normies who aren’t necessarily khhv truecels than some of the gatekeepers you get
 
as a 5'5 2/10 guy
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HEXABASED.

also... OP posted that he was well >6’5 in a 2018 post that got deleted by mods. so, go from NBA height to 6’5... and then down to 6’2? LOL, and the only flaw that’s ever mentioned is a NW2 hairline for a guy in his mid thirties. how anyone can believe that this guy is an incel is beyond me
LOL are you kidding me? This dude might have legitimately been a College basketball player. I hope it's archived somewhere.

@ColdLightOfDay @PPEcel @BummerDrummer @Colvin76 @Legendarywristcel @Grothendieck
 
Cope, I've been to college and seen many average dudes dating fatties or getting nothing at all. Many other people have reported on the state of normies:
They are coping big time, and so are you. The thing is; every time one of you guys see a relationship where the female mogs the male you instantly think ‘betabux’ or ‘she’s cucking him’ so you don’t count it, you only register when the male mogs the female, which further feeds in to your delusional sub 8 narrative. Betabux doesn’t exist for under 30s. You guys are coping so hard it’s unbelievable, OP is an obvious gimmick and you believe his bullshit. Almost everyone who has a social circle that contains normies (which isn’t many people) deny sub 8 theory.
 
They are coping big time, and so are you. The thing is; every time one of you guys see a relationship where the female mogs the male you instantly think ‘betabux’ or ‘she’s cucking him’ so you don’t count it, you only register when the male mogs the female, which further feeds in to your delusional sub 8 narrative. Betabux doesn’t exist for under 30s. You guys are coping so hard it’s unbelievable, OP is an obvious gimmick and you believe his bullshit. Almost everyone who has a social circle that contains normies (which isn’t many people) deny sub 8 theory.
I didn't say sub 8 was automatically incel.

I stated that hypergamy means normies usually can't get their looksmatch
Explain this to me, if normies are all getting their looksmatch, then does hypergamy exist? How come there are incels? Shouldn't sub5 men be able to get their looksmatch? Or is it possible normies have to dumpster dive since Chads and Chadlites are monopolizing the majority of non ugly females?
 
Sheet.... fuark... so op is LARPer... damn... didn't see that coming.
Didnt know either. Not surprised at all tbh

"no one is allowed to be more incel than me. i'm the prettiest princess gatekeeper of incels"

- you
Go neck yourself bitch.

I always knew there was something off about you. Glad I never respected you and praised your autistic posts.
They are coping big time, and so are you. The thing is; every time one of you guys see a relationship where the female mogs the male you instantly think ‘betabux’ or ‘she’s cucking him’ so you don’t count it, you only register when the male mogs the female, which further feeds in to your delusional sub 8 narrative. Betabux doesn’t exist for under 30s. You guys are coping so hard it’s unbelievable, OP is an obvious gimmick and you believe his bullshit. Almost everyone who has a social circle that contains normies (which isn’t many people) deny sub 8 theory.
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I didn't say sub 8 was automatically incel.

I stated that hypergamy means normies usually can't get their looksmatch
There’s some truth in that, though I put it down to makeup more than anything. When I pass couples on the street, I do not see a massive disparity either way, and you do occasionally see couples where the female mogs the male considerably (and obviously vice versa.) I think the general reason for hypergamy is that women can amplify their looks to a greater degree with makeup, so couples appear ostensibly looks matched, though there is some frauding going on by way of the females, this upwards mobility that is unavailable for males explains why there are a subsection of incels left at the bottom for who there are no females left in the bracket of.
 
There’s some truth in that, though I put it down to makeup more than anything. When I pass couples on the street, I do not see a massive disparity either way, and you do occasionally see couples where the female mogs the male considerably (and obviously vice versa.) I think the general reason for hypergamy is that women can amplify their looks to a greater degree with makeup, so couples appear ostensibly looks matched, though there is some frauding going on by way of the females, this upwards mobility that is unavailable for males explains why there are a subsection of incels left at the bottom for who there are no females left in the bracket of.
true.

Plus I live in America, you don't, so skinny guys with fatties is more common here, that's another factor
 
true.

Plus I live in America, you don't, so skinny guys with fatties is more common here, that's another factor
true.

Plus I live in America, you don't, so skinny guys with fatties is more common here, that's another factor
Maybe the high obesity rates in the US accentuate hypergamy even more, I guess I wouldn’t know. Here it’s not unheard of, but I rarely see a skinny guy with a fat woman. Weirdly the couples like that I have seen have usually been devout looking Muslims. Probably because the women are rarely out of the house.
LOL are you kidding me? This dude might have legitimately been a College basketball player. I hope it's archived somewhere.

@ColdLightOfDay @PPEcel @BummerDrummer @Colvin76 @Legendarywristcel @Grothendieck
@GoffSystemQB
I don’t know which is more pathetic, incorporating his actual stats into his troll because he’s such a narcissist that he couldn’t resist breaking character to flex over a bunch of incels, or genuinely being delusional enough to consider himself on incel level despite being a college basketball player. Either way he is an embarrassment to himself. I don’t even care if he gets banned or not at this point because it’s actually quite funny watching this absolute idiot try to justify himself but I would prefer for people to at least stop taking him seriously, which looks like it’s starting to happen by the state of the comments in this thread.
 
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LOL are you kidding me? This dude might have legitimately been a College basketball player. I hope it's archived somewhere.

@ColdLightOfDay @PPEcel @BummerDrummer @Colvin76 @Legendarywristcel @Grothendieck

This guy is an uber mogger. Moggers.co tbh.
 
LOL are you kidding me? This dude might have legitimately been a College basketball player. I hope it's archived somewhere.

@ColdLightOfDay @PPEcel @BummerDrummer @Colvin76 @Legendarywristcel @Grothendieck

Man I have no words, @SergeantIncel do you seriously want such users on this forum? Come on! This is incels.co man
 
lol at this forum and lol at anyone that defends him
 
@ColdLightOfDay @GoffSystemQB

Are you poor as fuck? Do you not have a degree? What explains the fact that you're here with us?
Lold
 
One bullshit report of men getting laid easy from online dating put on CNN is all it will take for no one to ever believe you that incels can exist.

I'm getting near 35 and balding with a normie face and according to a lot on this forum, I should be getting TONS of pussy. Apparently women are horny for balding men in their 30s.

It is mans natural state to be blue pilled and delusional.

Women claim looks don't matter because almost everyone believes it.

Dude STFU JFL

You weren't born balding, there was a point where you were fucking 6ft something with an average face and a decent head of hair, so you have literally no excuse

Also balding would not stop a 6'5 white guy in thailand or some other SEA country from getting laid, especially if he just shaved, so you are really just a picky cunt that likely only pursues "muh pure aryan princess", there's no fucking way a 6'5 white guy with an average face doesn't score with ethnic women, especially in an ethnic country, you literally wasted your genes, you are a waste of space, guys like you make the forum look like a fucking joke

This Chads.co meme is reality, I can't even deny it anymore

lol at this forum and lol at anyone that defends him
Man I have no words, @SergeantIncel do you seriously want such users on this forum? Come on! This is incels.co man
 
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Dude STFU JFL

You weren't born balding, there was a point where you were fucking 6ft something with an average face and a decent head of hair, so you have literally no excuse

Also balding would not stop a 6'5 white guy in thailand or some other SEA country from getting laid, especially if he just shaved, so you are really just a picky cunt that likely only pursues "muh pure aryan princess", there's no fucking way a 6'5 white guy with an average face doesn't score with ethnic women, especially in an ethnic country, you literally wasted your genes, you are a waste of space, guys like you make the forum look like a fucking joke

This Chads.co meme is reality, I can't even deny it anymore
Just quit your job, leave your friends behind, and move to the other side of the world to get laid bro
 
It is mans natural state to be blue pilled and delusional.

Women claim looks don't matter because almost everyone believes it.
It's not their natural state, it's their brainwashed state from the media and the junk food they eat. Even if it's their natural state, humans can change things about themselves that aren't working in their current environment. Being lazy is in everyone's natural state, but a lot of people still choose to exercise and have a healthy diet.
Just quit your job, leave your friends behind, and move to the other side of the world to get laid bro
That's easy if you don't have friends or a job, and on neetbux.
 
Dude STFU JFL

You weren't born balding, there was a point where you were fucking 6ft something with an average face and a decent head of hair, so you have literally no excuse

Also balding would not stop a 6'5 white guy in thailand or some other SEA country from getting laid, especially if he just shaved, so you are really just a picky cunt that likely only pursues "muh pure aryan princess", there's no fucking way a 6'5 white guy with an average face doesn't score with ethnic women, especially in an ethnic country, you literally wasted your genes, you are a waste of space, guys like you make the forum look like a fucking joke

This Chads.co meme is reality, I can't even deny it anymore

OP won't settle for a looksmatch his age and wants a college-aged Stacy, that's what's happening. But Stacies want Chads, not former Chads.

Ageing happening to everyone, it is a piss-poor excuse.
Just quit your job, leave your friends behind, and move to the other side of the world to get laid bro

That's the same advice mayos give ethnics but worse. "Go back to be with your people."

Just move to a country whose language you don't speak and whose culture you don't understand.
That's easy if you don't have friends or a job, and on neetbux.

Enough NEETbux for international travel?
 
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That's the same advice mayos give ethnics but worse. "Go back to be with your people."

Just move to a country whose language you don't speak and whose culture you don't understand.
I never gave that advice to ethnics tbh. Location change maxxing is theoretically an option for anyone, but it's pretty damn complex and I don't blame those who don't want to do it.
 
Just quit your job, leave your friends behind, and move to the other side of the world to get laid bro

Incel: "I have no life, I want to kill myself, my current life is terrible, ITS OVER FOR MEEEE"

Anyone: "Ok, how about go where you have more advantages, start a new life"

Incel: "OMG ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY?, YOU CAN'T EXPECT ME TO UPROOT AND ABANDON THE LIFE I JUST SAID WAS TERRIBLE AND I WANT TO KILL MYSELF OVER"

If you are tall, white and have basic qualifications, pretty sure you can easily get a new job in one of those countries, the question that people need to ask themselves is - "Is your life really as bad as you make it out to be, complaining online every fucking day, when its so comfortable that you see it as too much of a bother to uproot and start over?"

Its just a ridiculous contradiction to complain so much as if your life is intolerable, but its literally so good that you'd never change it, that sounds like a joke to me

If you wouldn't uproot your life, then it isn't really that bad, to me a true incel finds his current life intolerable, every breath as his current self (lacking power and resources) is a struggle, something he tolerates for a time being, and he would definitely leave his past life (friends and family included) behind to actually have an enjoyable one

Heck I plan on even changing my name after wealthmaxxing, getting new ID, etc, then when I leave I'm never contacting anyone from my past again, unless its anonymously, maybe to send my parents some money, but that's it, I want nothing to do with my current life, so when I hear incels on here saying - "I can't leave my life behind" all I think is - "your life mustn't be so bad then, because its the opposite for me, I can't wait to leave my life behind"

I'm basically going for a "rebirth" experience, I'm destroying my past life completely and leaving it behind, that's my #1 goal right now
 
Incel: "I have no life, I want to kill myself, my current life is terrible, ITS OVER FOR MEEEE"

Anyone: "Ok, how about go where you have more advantages, start a new life"

Incel: "OMG ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY?, YOU CAN'T EXPECT ME TO UPROOT AND ABANDON THE LIFE I JUST SAID WAS TERRIBLE AND I WANT TO KILL MYSELF OVER"

If you are tall, white and have basic qualifications, pretty sure you can easily get a new job in one of those countries, the question that people need to ask themselves is - "Is your life really as bad as you make it out to be, complaining online every fucking day, when its so comfortable that you see it as too much of a bother to uproot and start over?"

Its just a ridiculous contradiction to complain so much as if your life is intolerable, but its literally so good that you'd never change it, that sounds like a joke to me

If you wouldn't uproot your life, then it isn't really that bad, to me a true incel finds his current life intolerable, every breath as his current self (lacking power and resources) is a struggle, something he tolerates for a time being, and he would definitely leave his past life (friends and family included) behind to actually have an enjoyable one

Heck I plan on even changing my name after wealthmaxxing, getting new ID, etc, then when I leave I'm never contacting anyone from my past again, unless its anonymously, maybe to send my parents some money, but that's it, I want nothing to do with my current life, so when I hear incels on here saying - "I can't leave my life behind" all I think is - "your life mustn't be so bad then, because its the opposite for me, I can't wait to leave my life behind"

I'm basically going for a "rebirth" experience, I'm destroying my past life completely and leaving it behind, that's my #1 goal right now
who knows, maybe he lives in southwest USA and can take escortcelling vacations in Mexico. Plus there still is the social aspect. Leaving the country is leaving behind friends. If you're an incel with no close friends, it's easy to leave because you're not giving up anything.
 
Leaving the country is leaving behind friends. If you're an incel with no close friends, it's easy to leave because you're not giving up anything.

Please tell me what you are objectively "giving up" by leaving friends behind?

You do realize you guys are individuals in separate bodies right, while you restrict yourself and hold yourself back, your friends may very well be advancing their lives, and you'll wake up one day and they have children and you are the same loser, but worse, you've lost a few years that you could have taken to start your new life

You are making one of the biggest mistakes anyone can, you can never live your life based on other peoples plans, and you can't plan your life around what other people are doing or what you expect to happen to them, you could miss out on an oppurtunity for the sake of "remaining friends" and poof, those friends all die a few years later, now you are left with no friends AND you lost out on that oppurtunity

You can only structure your life and goals around yourself, to do otherwise is foolishness, one of your friends could kill themselves tomorrow, you have to live for yourself



I do have close friends (they've become more normie tier over time though, I've ventured down another path) but what does that matter, what you're saying sounds blue pilled, your friends are either

A. Like you (incel) and going nowhere in life (well when it pertains to normie goals)
B. Are more normie tier and are dating (so at some point you won't even be friends, they'll be bust raising kids, no time to "play" with some loser)

A lot of friends I knew ALL have children right now, so what are you even talking about dude JFL, you are seriously going to let your life pass you by for people who are likely pursuing their own goals and leaving you behind (in their own way)

You are afraid to leave your friends behind, but take heed, they are already leaving you behind day by day, and one day you will wake up and realize this, its only you holding yourself back, they aren't going to not have kinds and not date so you guys "remain friends" JFL

Are you seriously advocating that men stifle their potential and hinder their own progress for the sake of "friendship"



Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from kindergarten? (I doubt it, maybe one or two of them)

Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from the primary level of education? (more likely, but still rare, you probably only contact like three to five if any at all)

Etc, etc, etc

NEWS FLASH - FRIENDSHIPS ARE TEMPORARY RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE

The only people who can become "permanent fixtures" in your life are people who are ON THE SAME PATH

So you know what, maybe I'm wrong, maybe you are on the same path as the guys you consider friends, but if that path is "nowehere", and you keep holding yourself back just for the sake of "remaining friends" with them, you are blue pilled, and it isn't even a real friendship, real friends don't have to restrict themselves to "be on the same wave length" or be at similar "levels" in life

People become friends and they "grow apart", because were not all on the same path
 
Please tell me what you are objectively "giving up" by leaving friends behind?

You do realize you guys are individuals in separate bodies right, while you restrict yourself and hold yourself back, your friends may very well be advancing their lives, and you'll wake up one day and they have children and you are the same loser, but worse, you've lost a few years that you could have taken to start your new life

You are making one of the biggest mistakes anyone can, you can never live your life based on other peoples plans, and you can't plan your life around what other people are doing or what you expect to happen to them, you could miss out on an oppurtunity for the sake of "remaining friends" and poof, those friends all die a few years later, now you are left with no friends AND you lost out on that oppurtunity

You can only structure your life and goals around yourself, to do otherwise is foolishness, one of your friends could kill themselves tomorrow, you have to live for yourself



I do have close friends (they've become more normie tier over time though, I've ventured down another path) but what does that matter, what you're saying sounds blue pilled, your friends are either

A. Like you (incel) and going nowhere in life (well when it pertains to normie goals)
B. Are more normie tier and are dating (so at some point you won't even be friends, they'll be bust raising kids, no time to "play" with some loser)

A lot of friends I knew ALL have children right now, so what are you even talking about dude JFL, you are seriously going to let your life pass you by for people who are likely pursuing their own goals and leaving you behind (in their own way)

You are afraid to leave your friends behind, but take heed, they are already leaving you behind day by day, and one day you will wake up and realize this, its only you holding yourself back, they aren't going to not have kinds and not date so you guys "remain friends" JFL

Are you seriously advocating that men stifle their potential and hinder their own progress for the sake of "friendship"



Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from kindergarten? (I doubt it, maybe one or two of them)

Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from the primary level of education? (more likely, but still rare, you probably only contact like three to five if any at all)

Etc, etc, etc

NEWS FLASH - FRIENDSHIPS ARE TEMPORARY RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE

The only people who can become "permanent fixtures" in your life are people who are ON THE SAME PATH

So you know what, maybe I'm wrong, maybe you are on the same path as the guys you consider friends, but if that path is "nowehere", and you keep holding yourself back just for the sake of "remaining friends" with them, you are blue pilled, and it isn't even a real friendship, real friends don't have to restrict themselves to "be on the same wave length" or be at similar "levels" in life

People become friends and they "grow apart", because were not all on the same path
I wasn't even talking about me I was talking about mylifeistrash lol.
 
Please tell me what you are objectively "giving up" by leaving friends behind?

You do realize you guys are individuals in separate bodies right, while you restrict yourself and hold yourself back, your friends may very well be advancing their lives, and you'll wake up one day and they have children and you are the same loser, but worse, you've lost a few years that you could have taken to start your new life

You are making one of the biggest mistakes anyone can, you can never live your life based on other peoples plans, and you can't plan your life around what other people are doing or what you expect to happen to them, you could miss out on an oppurtunity for the sake of "remaining friends" and poof, those friends all die a few years later, now you are left with no friends AND you lost out on that oppurtunity

You can only structure your life and goals around yourself, to do otherwise is foolishness, one of your friends could kill themselves tomorrow, you have to live for yourself



I do have close friends (they've become more normie tier over time though, I've ventured down another path) but what does that matter, what you're saying sounds blue pilled, your friends are either

A. Like you (incel) and going nowhere in life (well when it pertains to normie goals)
B. Are more normie tier and are dating (so at some point you won't even be friends, they'll be bust raising kids, no time to "play" with some loser)

A lot of friends I knew ALL have children right now, so what are you even talking about dude JFL, you are seriously going to let your life pass you by for people who are likely pursuing their own goals and leaving you behind (in their own way)

You are afraid to leave your friends behind, but take heed, they are already leaving you behind day by day, and one day you will wake up and realize this, its only you holding yourself back, they aren't going to not have kinds and not date so you guys "remain friends" JFL

Are you seriously advocating that men stifle their potential and hinder their own progress for the sake of "friendship"



Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from kindergarten? (I doubt it, maybe one or two of them)

Are you still in contact with ALL of your friends from the primary level of education? (more likely, but still rare, you probably only contact like three to five if any at all)

Etc, etc, etc

NEWS FLASH - FRIENDSHIPS ARE TEMPORARY RELATIONSHIPS IN LIFE

The only people who can become "permanent fixtures" in your life are people who are ON THE SAME PATH

So you know what, maybe I'm wrong, maybe you are on the same path as the guys you consider friends, but if that path is "nowehere", and you keep holding yourself back just for the sake of "remaining friends" with them, you are blue pilled, and it isn't even a real friendship, real friends don't have to restrict themselves to "be on the same wave length" or be at similar "levels" in life

People become friends and they "grow apart", because were not all on the same path
Agreed 100%. There ars other aspects like language that may make moving undesireable though.
 
Agreed 100%. There ars other aspects like language that may make moving undesireable though.

Yeah that's true, but its not like there's only one country where people speak your language (well I'm sure there is for a few rare cases)

Either way I'd have no problem learning an entirely new language to leave my current life behind

I just find the whole "muh friends and family" excuse ridiculous, they are all going to die anyways, you can't make permanent decisions based on your attachments to temporary beings, you will never get those years back (think I'll make a thread about this JFL)
 
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I'll leave it a this. All those times you posted the Zuckerberg vs. UCLA gigamogging I wonder if you were secretly getting enjoyment/validation as some sort of narcissist. Because the way you describe yourself you're certainly closer to the 6'5+ white wide-framed basketball player with an above-average face than Zucky. That's what really makes me go hmmm.

What exactly was your intent on spamming that picture over the forum? There's no way in hell you relate more to Zuckerberg given your descriptions of yourself. You might as well BE the guy in the photo with the descriptions/comments I found lol.


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Nice, just saw this. You absolutely destroyed him here - no wonder he didn’t respond. He always backs off when the pressure is on.
 
Agreed 100%. There ars other aspects like language that may make moving undesireable though.
English is widespread but not as much where it's easy to move
 
I just find the whole "muh friends and family" excuse ridiculous, they are all going to die anyways, you can't make permanent decisions based on your attachments to temporary beings, you will never get those years back (think I'll make a thread about this JFL)

I suppose that life itself is temporary, and insofar as you have unconditional bonds, you should cherish them for as long as they last.

But sometimes unconditional bonds become your chains, and you have to abandon them for the sake of your own dignity.
 
you have unconditional bonds

No such thing, say over the phrase "unconditional bonds" a bit over and over and it will dawn upon you, this is just more of the shit we've been indoctrinated to believe from birth, we end up accepting obvious oxymorons as though they are factual truth

The most cliche one being "unconditional love"

Think about it, what is a bond?:
"a thing used to tie something or to fasten things together"

"ropes, chains, or other restraints used to hold someone prisoner"

"a force or feeling that unites people; a shared emotion or interest"

"an agreement with legal force"


Just like there's no such thing as "unconditional love", there's always a condition WITH EVERYTHING

EVERY INTERACTION IS A TRANSACTION
 
looks do matter. even if a girl ever gets with you she’ll leave you for chad.
EXACTLY, everything that comes out of their disgusting whorish mouths is bullshit.
 
No such thing, say over the phrase "unconditional bonds" a bit over and over and it will dawn upon you, this is just more of the shit we've been indoctrinated to believe from birth, we end up accepting obvious oxymorons as though they are factual truth

The most cliche one being "unconditional love"

Think about it, what is a bond?:
"a thing used to tie something or to fasten things together"

"ropes, chains, or other restraints used to hold someone prisoner"

"a force or feeling that unites people; a shared emotion or interest"

"an agreement with legal force"


Just like there's no such thing as "unconditional love", there's always a condition WITH EVERYTHING

EVERY INTERACTION IS A TRANSACTION
In the case of parents, it is apparent that all the investment they put into their children is very often viewed as a "sunk cost," in that they never abandon them and even allow them to become NEETs, well past the point that they might offer them anything in exchange.

This differs from person to person, however. I am fortunate in that my parents are "on my side," but this is by no means the rule:

 
In the case of parents, it is apparent that all the investment they put into their children is very often viewed as a "sunk cost,"

Sunk cost in resources, not in ego and other subjective nonsense most humans are mentally invested in

A child's success makes a parent feel like they've accomplished something "by proxy", that's why parents want their children to succeed, because your success is an indicator of "their character", you represent them

Nobody is having a child so that the child will fail, the condition is that the child succeeds (financially, actually reproduces, etc)

There's a reason why parents "disown" children, you didn't meet the conditions, there are always exceptions to the rule, parents who stick by their children no matter what, but that has to do with emotional investment
 

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