Advise from a new member

[SoloAlex]

I wouldn‘t call it coping. Coping is when you know you’re lying to yourself and still yearn for sex/relationship deep within.

Why humiliate and disgrace yourself when you know you’re worth more. Incels should stop worshipping pussy and find their own way in life.

The yearning for sex and female attention is too strong. What do you feel when you see couples outside kissing….?

 

[iamsubhuman]

jesus christ, already at 3 pages. i always miss all the fun shit

anyway, did not read. you can't be truly happy when you've been alone for your entire life while your peers have lives that are a thousand times better than yours and they didn't even try

 

[SoloAlex]

anyway, did not read. you can't be truly happy when you've been alone for your entire life while your peers have lives that are a thousand times better than yours and they didn't even try

 

[SlayerSlayer]

You know what OP I am going to follow your advice. I apologize for insulting you. You gave me and other incels a fresh perspective on things. I have been problematic. I will do better and be more positive. Take more showers. Therapy. Hit the gym. If nothing comes out of it thats all on me. Skies up from here.

 

[Deleted member 38579]

jesus christ, already at 3 pages. i always miss all the fun shit

anyway, did not read. you can't be truly happy when you've been alone for your entire life while your peers have lives that are a thousand times better than yours and they didn't even try

in top of being treated as a subhuman by so(y)ciety and your quality of life decreasing just so you are forced to cater to some single mom roastie entitlement.

it's also interesting how OPfaggot pretends to ignore foids when they are responsible of accelerating the process of removing copes and any form of escapism men have. videogames? pozzed. movies? pozzed. porn? pozzed. drawings? pozzed.

 

[ballistictesticles]

From a legally blind person on Quora:


Oh ABSOLUTELY! I am a very VERY happy person! Low stress, easy going…

I have a secret! And I’ll tell it to you at the end. And you don’t got to pay nuffin for it!

The main thing anyone, blind, wheelchair user, deaf/Deaf, amputee or TAB (Temporarily Able Bodied) needs to do is LEARN TO BE CONTENT!

Know that there will always be people who are smarter, stronger, faster, richer than you, and that there will always be people who are dumber, weaker, slower, poorer than you. Find your niche and decorate it! Bloom where you are planted!

I am legally blind. I COULD decide that this has blighted my economic life, my social life, destroyed me financially… which it has. Because I AM poor. I have been homeless in my life. I am now unable to afford groceries. At all. My partner and I eat at the senior Center, and depend (yes DEPEND) on the food bank.

But instead, I choose to look on the good side! We don’t have major debt (Well… maybe $15,000 for car, hospital debt etc. We’re working on it) we have a place to live (our landlord is a VERY sweet, generous, kind and wonderful man! I love him!) we have friends at church. I am losing weight! being too poor to buy cookies or potato chips has forced me to concentrate on my health, to EAT better (the food bank features LOTS of vegetables! YES!) and, in fact, I started 2016 at 250 lbs. I ENDED 2016 at 207 lbs! So not being able to buy my own food, I lost FORTY THREE POUNDS!

So yes, I AM happy! I am legally blind. That means I do NOT drive. If I want to go somewhere… I walk! I started 2016 diagnosed six months earlier as diabetic. I ended 2016 with my doctor telling me my blood glucose levels were so low, I was not only no longer in the diabetic range… I was even OUT of the PRE-diabetic range! I’m healthy again!

Can the blind be happy? YES! But it takes… exactly as it takes ALL people… sheer ATTITUDE, a thankful frame of mind, and conscious living to DO it.

Do you want to know my secret? I call it my Spiritual Scavenger Hunt and you can do it, too. Grab a rosary… or just a necklace. It doesn’t matter, just a string of beads will do, with no religious symbols. Atheists can do it.

Before going to bed, take the first bead (closest to the clasp it it’s a necklace) and think back over your day. What was a “good thing” (or if you’re religious, a “blessing”) that happened this day? Found a parking spot? Great! That’s a bead! Go to the next. Another good thing…. your kid got a B in Algebra! Bead! Next! You found a dine in the sofa!… don’t laugh. Even small, inconsequential things count! Bead! Next! The vet says Rusty doesn’t have ringworm, YAYYYY! Count it! and go on through, until you’ve run out of beads.

Can’t think of any? Eyesight! Count it! Hearing! Count it! nobody died! Count it! Give thanks for each sense, each survival, each day you didn’t get a traffic ticket COUNT IT ALL! And go to sleep thinking of all those blessings. Here are some of mine:

My five senses. And then some more. Sight (what there is) Hearing, Touch, Taste, Smell, Balance, Humor, Honor, common sense, too. Then I count beads for the miracles we live amidst. That a Sami caribou-herder in the frozen north can post a letter that will get to ANY doorstep in the whole WORLD! YES, that’s a miracle! That we go to the supermarket and there are RIVERS of food! Look down any grocery aisle! WOW! Count a bead! Keep on counting and realizing just how WONDERFUL this world IS. This is my secret, and now it’s yours. Don’t want to use beads? Use fingers and toes. the point of the exercise is to cultivate an “attitude of gratitude”.

And in this, the Age of Trump, I intend to be one of the happiest Americans ever. This is survival, folks.

You'd be correct.

I crunched a few words in whatever 60 seconds I had to typo out the above post. Typos / errors were inevitable.

> Quora

You need to go back.

 

[Robtical]

Similarly, being born unattractive or having a toxic/shit personality as a result thereof, or WHATEVER excuse you may have, it may have happened because of factors that are out of your control.

Please don't refer to our personalities as "toxic" like feminist cucks. As long as soyciety keeps favoring whores over non chad men there will always be incels. The only thing we can do is fight the cucked system, not try to live within the rules of the cucked system and force ourselves to be "happy". That's literally what cucks do, and they are more incel than the members here.

 

[Robtical]

> Quora

You need to go back.

He has plenty of places to post his nonsense, if he wants to preach that being a happy soycuck without getting pussy is a better mindset to have, then his "advice" will be a waste of his time here.

 

[AsianKungFao]

Worthless response. Even a blind person can be happy. If you have a functioning eye sight (and are otherwise healthy), you're 100x better off in this world, and therefore, have no excuse to be miserable and a toxic mess.

It's all about attitude.

you have something against blind people? What's wrong with them? You think they are the bottom of the barrel?
depressed people can be more miserable than supported blind people.

also what makes you think I'm unhappy?

 

[fast_curry]

You know what OP I am going to follow your advice. I apologize for insulting you. You gave me and other incels a fresh perspective on things. I have been problematic. I will do better and be more positive. Take more showers. Therapy. Hit the gym. If nothing comes out of it thats all on me. Skies up from here.

OP only speaks words of wisdom

 

[Aadi]

roastie hands typed this

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

New page for copecels

 

[Deleted member 39786]

Hi fellow human beings,

Hope you're all well. Please allow me to share my advise in regards to the issue at hand (being involuntary celibate):

Life is unfair.

That's all there is to it.

Do you complain and lose sleep over someone being born into a rich household?
Do you complain and lose sleep over someone being born into abject poverty (for example, sub-saharan africa?)
Do you complain and lose sleep over when someone in your country wins a multi-million lottery?
Do you complain and lose sleep over when someone is born blind?

Of course not. None of us do because we understand and realize that none of the above conditions are under our control.

Similarly, being born unattractive or having a toxic/shit personality as a result thereof, or WHATEVER excuse you may have, it may have happened because of factors that are out of your control.

However, why let these events morph & define your existence henceforth? Why be angry and a miserable person because of it all? Why let intercourse or being in a relationship with another human be the defining sole purpose of your life? There's a ton of other things that you could do to ease whatever it is that's eating away at your soul right now (anger, loneliness, depression, etc.)

Work on yourself and your mental health first. Enjoy whatever else life has to offer. Don't waste your time seething in anger over things you have no control over.

Even a blind person can lead a happy life. You have no excuse.

Are u one of those IT trannies in disguise?

 

[SlayerSlayer]

OP only speaks words of wisdom

its called gratitude we should be BLESSED a kind strangerino graced our presence and gave us romantic hobos some "chicken soup for the soul"

 

[Hoteldoor]

I love this site. Huh been a while since i can say that sentence without any sarcasm

 

[Praise the Sun]

No happiness for your face. You can‘t be happy as a man without having gf sex