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Advice on pics for tinder profile

flowerful

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okay guys i want to test out tinder but i need advice on the pics

all i have are selfies... none with other people or pics of me taken by other people...


am i screwed? I do do have some pictures of my cats though

right now i was thinking 2 selfies and 1 cat picture and that would be it

would that be good?
help
 
I don't recommend the cat picture.
It comes over as trying hard to advertise high trust.
 
FeminismsCancer said:
I don't recommend the cat picture.
It comes over as trying hard to advertise high trust.

just a picture of cats face is bad?
 
Pic with friends or it's over
 
flowerful said:
just a picture of cats face is bad?

Better than one where you are cuddling it etc but still not a great idea. A lot of girls dislike cats and cat men btw.
 
BonePressed said:
Pic with friends or it's over

really?


FeminismsCancer said:
Better than one where you are cuddling it etc but still not a great idea. A lot of girls dislike cats and cat men btw.

if it was chad with a cat?
 
I have one mediocre selfie, a bio that says "Nah" and I got 16 matches in 2 weeks. All you have to do is be a 3/10 or above.
 
flowerful said:
really?



if it was chad with a cat?



CHad could pet a platypus.
 
make your pics normie as possible
 
jackbud said:
I have one mediocre selfie, a bio that says "Nah" and I got 16 matches in 2 weeks. All you have to do is be a 3/10 or above.

1 pic? that gives me hope
 
Also a photo or two where you're indulging in some normie hobbies, especially sports

You can take a photo of a random snowboarder with a similar frame if you have trouble taking those yourself, nobody will notice
 
flowerful said:
1 pic? that gives me hope

Yeah just 1 pic. Like I said if you're at least a 3 you'll get matches, assuming you don't live in the middle of nowhere.
 
jackbud said:
Yeah just 1 pic. Like I said if you're at least a 3 you'll get matches, assuming you don't live in the middle of nowhere.

thoughts on including a pic of a cat?
 
flowerful said:
thoughts on including a pic of a cat?

lol you insist. You're looking for a femoid or for a nice female cat?
 
FeminismsCancer said:
lol you insist. You're looking for a femoid or for a nice female cat?

id be using just one picture if i skip the cat
 
Tinder is about leading with your absolute best foot forward. If you proceed with your current pictures, you will fail miserably UNLESS you are slayer tier looks. Guys here think being ugly is the cardinal sin, but honestly being boring is almost as bad. I went from getting paltry matches (<0.5% swipe rate) who were dogs, to actually getting a pretty high swipe rate (between 30-40%). Still mostly old, fat, ugly, single mother etc, but a few decent girls here and there. 

1) You MUST have travel pictures. On any dating website, women will rate "likes to travel" as one of the most attractive traits in a man. I will never understand why, but women love it. I went on holiday to see some family, and I used the top 3-4 (best angles of me) and included them in my profile.

2) If you have a good body, travel pics allow you to show it off in a "legit" way. Mirror selfies of your 6 pack will work if you have a godly face, but most of the time it turns women off because it sends out creeper vibes. It shows you are just out for sex. But a pic of your body on a beach is more acceptable. If you have a terrible body, then never mind this part (but every guy can work out). I didn't even have a 6 pack or big arms, I just had a bit of definition and it made me look good, better than most guys my age. 

3) Forget lengthy bios, no-one cares. Have a sentence that sums you up, try and include any interesting hobbies or facts about yourself. E.g. im from a very white area, so I played up my foreign Mediterranean heritage. Women like something a bit exotic. But keep it very brief. Its good to include a funny/witty/amusing line as well.

4) Boost gets a bad rep here, but I noticed I was suddenly getting swiped by women I had swiped weeks ago, probably because boost is putting my card at the front of the deck. Women don't tend to use tinder as aggressively as men do, and if you're card never even gets seen let alone judged, you have already lost. Most other men are probably boosting, which is shuffling your card to the back where it will never be seen. Im fairly sure Tinder also has some kind of Elo system, where the more swipes you have received, the higher your score and the more likely you card will be displayed to women. If you are a subhuman with 0 likes, your card will rarely ever show up for women to see.
 

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