All the time spent on this forum made me rethink my attitude towards normgroids. I went from having thoughts like: "If only I looked normal, everything would be different" to "Be a 6'5" GigaChad with a 8/10 face or just ldar". I no longer feel much inferior to them because I instantly notice all their flaws, which I didn't pay attention to before. And at the same time I am now more aware of some of my good features. This applies to low-mid tier normgroids of course. It was stupid to think just one or two features can make a difference.
