First post ever on this forum, i want to give a warning to any real brocels that are just leaving their teens, let me put it clear for all of you: A far worse life awaits all of you
Here some tips to make this phase far less agonizing for your soul.
1-Expect far more hostility from normies/women, this is especially true after passing 24-25, some people may still be a bit lenient with your ass if you're a weirdo at 20-21, but there a point in your 20s where all of that becomes raw hostility and disgust, you can expect be called gay, family members being far more passive aggresive with you and if you still got hobbies or copes like anime or videogames?, you will be called a creep or a manchild.
2-Do NOT go to your college ceremony, trust me on this one, if you are on college and never fixed your life there, people ARE talking poorly about you at your back, the ceremony is a brutal suifuel full of partners, drinks, afterparty, nothing for an incel there, save yourself the pain and just don't go.
3-Don't let hope get to you, at some point in your 20s you will get randomly streaks of hope fueled by desesperation about not wanting to keep failing, be realistic at all times, this hope is very dangerous and can make you say or do very stupid things.
4-Find passions: This may sound like a cope, but its real purpose its to have at least a minimal amount of dopamine in your life, it can be anything you want, but just find and latch onto something that truly makes you happy, even its only for a moment.
5-Beware your health: Related to point 4, the incel life is a permanent high stress life for your body, health issues will start becoming more common and chances are they won't kill you, instead they make you feel like shit and slowly disable you, try to reduce your stress in any way you find appealing, the more you let it eat you, the worse your body will betray you later.
6-If you can avoid the wagie life, DO IT: the normie work ecosystem is NOT meant for incels, you enter there, they will eat you and vomit you out just to maul at you again, if you have any way to avoid this (inheritance, generous family members, first world neeting, jobs where you don't have to interact much), take em, take those chances, this is especially true if you are non NT, autistic men are despised globally.
Overall if any brocels actually read all of this, just be prepared for your 20s, its one thing to be an incel failure as a teenager, but once you hit that adult point, a way worse hell awaits you.
Here some tips to make this phase far less agonizing for your soul.
1-Expect far more hostility from normies/women, this is especially true after passing 24-25, some people may still be a bit lenient with your ass if you're a weirdo at 20-21, but there a point in your 20s where all of that becomes raw hostility and disgust, you can expect be called gay, family members being far more passive aggresive with you and if you still got hobbies or copes like anime or videogames?, you will be called a creep or a manchild.
2-Do NOT go to your college ceremony, trust me on this one, if you are on college and never fixed your life there, people ARE talking poorly about you at your back, the ceremony is a brutal suifuel full of partners, drinks, afterparty, nothing for an incel there, save yourself the pain and just don't go.
3-Don't let hope get to you, at some point in your 20s you will get randomly streaks of hope fueled by desesperation about not wanting to keep failing, be realistic at all times, this hope is very dangerous and can make you say or do very stupid things.
4-Find passions: This may sound like a cope, but its real purpose its to have at least a minimal amount of dopamine in your life, it can be anything you want, but just find and latch onto something that truly makes you happy, even its only for a moment.
5-Beware your health: Related to point 4, the incel life is a permanent high stress life for your body, health issues will start becoming more common and chances are they won't kill you, instead they make you feel like shit and slowly disable you, try to reduce your stress in any way you find appealing, the more you let it eat you, the worse your body will betray you later.
6-If you can avoid the wagie life, DO IT: the normie work ecosystem is NOT meant for incels, you enter there, they will eat you and vomit you out just to maul at you again, if you have any way to avoid this (inheritance, generous family members, first world neeting, jobs where you don't have to interact much), take em, take those chances, this is especially true if you are non NT, autistic men are despised globally.
Overall if any brocels actually read all of this, just be prepared for your 20s, its one thing to be an incel failure as a teenager, but once you hit that adult point, a way worse hell awaits you.
