Sex is not for me, having a gf is not for me... And why should they? Why should I care, are my genes really over me? Makes no sense to torture oneself about something so trivial, specially if one is young (my case at least). When I think about it, there are things in life I enjoy, and should be grateful to have; I like videogames, I like my cultural and intellectual nutrition and are always in search for more, I love my country, I like my hobbies overall. I have a good relationship with my close family, I have friends, I have goals and objectives, and I want to be a good person.
And what about a gf? Sure, I often feel alone and see myself fantasizing about having a female love me unconditionally... But having a gf would be so much of a pain; you have to talk often, you have to PLAN to actually have sex, and check if she's on the mood too, or if she's one of the many premarital sex girls. Have at least a hobby in common, and having to build a relationship for the idealized romance is pointless. It's just that, idealization. That will die, sooner than later sadly, and what will you do? You would have loved at the fullest and when it ends, you'll end up at the same incel pit, the same you are right now.
So it would be best to step out of this pit, guys. How? Attempting to enjoy life, and being grateful for how your life is, but not being a conformist. There's still a higher chance that a foid will love you, but don't rely on her, because that will end and it will destroy you if you deposit all your faith in it, in getting laid.
Your life is much more worth living than you think, I mean it. So go out there and be a good person, rely on yourself, on your loved ones, on god if you prefer, but you can't give up just yet, YOU SHOULDN'T, IT ISN'T WORTH IT.
WE ARE ALL GOING TO MAKE IT, IF WE CHOOSE TO BELIEVE.
And what about a gf? Sure, I often feel alone and see myself fantasizing about having a female love me unconditionally... But having a gf would be so much of a pain; you have to talk often, you have to PLAN to actually have sex, and check if she's on the mood too, or if she's one of the many premarital sex girls. Have at least a hobby in common, and having to build a relationship for the idealized romance is pointless. It's just that, idealization. That will die, sooner than later sadly, and what will you do? You would have loved at the fullest and when it ends, you'll end up at the same incel pit, the same you are right now.
So it would be best to step out of this pit, guys. How? Attempting to enjoy life, and being grateful for how your life is, but not being a conformist. There's still a higher chance that a foid will love you, but don't rely on her, because that will end and it will destroy you if you deposit all your faith in it, in getting laid.
Your life is much more worth living than you think, I mean it. So go out there and be a good person, rely on yourself, on your loved ones, on god if you prefer, but you can't give up just yet, YOU SHOULDN'T, IT ISN'T WORTH IT.
WE ARE ALL GOING TO MAKE IT, IF WE CHOOSE TO BELIEVE.
