I've been thinking about the word Incel and by all technicalities, non of us meet the original literal definition of Incel, "involuntary celibate". Because all of us are capable of literally committing rape or with some money we can hire a prostitute to have sex with us. Yes their are severe consequences for both of our pathways to having sex, and the latter some of us would consider immoral that doesn't stop us from doing it, not wanted to face the consequences and our own morals are what stop us from committing these acts.
Which brings me to another interesting point about inceldom, Take a look at our extremist killers what do they all of in common? Not one of them decided to rape any women, Literally none of them you can't find one incel that decided to rape women before or during their murder spree, why? They are not worried about the consequences if they are literally killing people a crime that our law punishes much harsher then rape, and morally even if normalfags want them to be equal murder is definitely worse then rape. So why did they not commit a rape? It's not like it would impede on there murder rampage, they could find a woman, rape her and then kill her and then start their rampage.
Well you see, inceldom is not just defined by it's literal original definition. We Incels don't want just sex we want love, to be loved and to be able to love someone in return. Sex of course is a part of love, which why it ends up being a big topic here but without the love it's meaningless which is why incels aren't suddenly cured of all the negative feelings they have after they have sex an escort, because it's meaningless, she doesn't actually love you, you paid her to pretend that she does. This contextualizes what these shootings are even about. It's revenge, revenge for the total rejection they feel from society. It's revenge for being denied that love, it's not exclusively about sex if it was at least one of these mass killers would have raped someone before they died or ended up in custody, afterall they have nothing more to lose.
An Incel IMO is someone who is unable to find love through no fault of his own even love that may not be pure, love that is built upon a transactional relationship such as a gold diggers "love" for an ugly rich man. It's a relationship build upon a house of cards, it's probably not gonna last but it is indeed a relationship. The way I define inceldom wouldn't change who is allowed here and who is not, Escortcels are already allowed here based on the decisions of the mod team. No this definition is one that aims to help better understand our own struggle.
Which brings me to another interesting point about inceldom, Take a look at our extremist killers what do they all of in common? Not one of them decided to rape any women, Literally none of them you can't find one incel that decided to rape women before or during their murder spree, why? They are not worried about the consequences if they are literally killing people a crime that our law punishes much harsher then rape, and morally even if normalfags want them to be equal murder is definitely worse then rape. So why did they not commit a rape? It's not like it would impede on there murder rampage, they could find a woman, rape her and then kill her and then start their rampage.
Well you see, inceldom is not just defined by it's literal original definition. We Incels don't want just sex we want love, to be loved and to be able to love someone in return. Sex of course is a part of love, which why it ends up being a big topic here but without the love it's meaningless which is why incels aren't suddenly cured of all the negative feelings they have after they have sex an escort, because it's meaningless, she doesn't actually love you, you paid her to pretend that she does. This contextualizes what these shootings are even about. It's revenge, revenge for the total rejection they feel from society. It's revenge for being denied that love, it's not exclusively about sex if it was at least one of these mass killers would have raped someone before they died or ended up in custody, afterall they have nothing more to lose.
An Incel IMO is someone who is unable to find love through no fault of his own even love that may not be pure, love that is built upon a transactional relationship such as a gold diggers "love" for an ugly rich man. It's a relationship build upon a house of cards, it's probably not gonna last but it is indeed a relationship. The way I define inceldom wouldn't change who is allowed here and who is not, Escortcels are already allowed here based on the decisions of the mod team. No this definition is one that aims to help better understand our own struggle.
