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LifeFuel 7 days without gaming

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Please postmaxxers read this, I dedicated a huge amount of time to write this.

1 week ago I posted this thread below

and everyone started to say that: "this is stupid", "this won't work" , "cope", "dopamine detox is bullshit", "the only self improvements that make sense are the ones that improve looks like surgerymaxx, seamaxx, gymmaxx, etc".

What really bothers me is that everything for you is cope...
If a person wants to improve his life is cope and if a person wants to play video game all day is cope.
If anything is cope then why don't you cope with something that is really worth it instead of just LDAR?

One week ago I decided that I'll change my life and stop playing video games. tbh it has been 8 years that I've been playing videos games and I don't remember the last time I stopped playing for 1 week and I don't remember the last time I studied for 1 week tbh.
This time I really want to change my life. I got tired of playing video games and don't do anything all day.
I didn't have any hobby beyond gaming. I didn't enjoy playing videos games anymore... I just played because I didn't have anything more interesting to do in my life, but in my inside I had a wish to do something different. I always wanted to be the others, but I've never been anyone beyond me. Now I stopped trying to be anyone's else and I'm trying to be what I should be since the beginning... be myself. What I'm doing now I feel that I should be doing this for years, but the gaming addiction and laziness was destroying my life and stopping me to know new hobbies and new ways to enjoy my life. I was feeling always tired and depressed and now I'm feeling a little bit happier.
All these occupations made me a happier person at the end of the day. It's pretty satisfying at the end of the day you reward yourself for everything you've done.

In 1 week I started to:

Study English and Math
Write a journal
Read the bible
Meditate
and I learned how to solve the Rubik's cube.

The Rubik's cube was a perfect activity to replace gaming and It's my new hobby right now.

I have a graph of how many minutes I've been dedicating to my studies.

7 days

17/03 I tried to study a little, but unfortunately I didn't continue to study...

It has been 7 days that I'm dedicating some minutes of my day to study and it's a little now, but after a month when it becomes an habit I'll be studying like a demon.

I never put so much effort in something like this before and I was never disciplined in my life and I'm trying to develop this skill now. All my previous projects were abandoned due to laziness, lack of motivation and gaming. After I created my journal I started to develop self-discipline because I was beginning to understand myself. All my thoughts, feelings, frustrations, victories and failures are being recorded there and when I read my journal I know how to improve myself because I know what mistakes I made yesterday. I've always been shy and when I started to write I started to notice things about myself that I never had noticed before.

After a month I'll be back to show you the graph again and new things I will have learned.

I'm recording my journey on Game Quitters https://forum.gamequitters.com/index.php?/topic/8670-edfechs-journal/&tab=comments#
This journal is more simplified than my personal one that I created on Evernote.

Let's keep fighting
 
I've been without gaming for months and nothing happened with me.
 
Congrats man keep it up :feelsokman:
 
Thats pretty cool bro. If it works for you, it works for you.
 
Nice bro

I have years
 
You will get back to gaming soon. There is no escape bro.
 
not for me bro, i'll kep playing vidya, jerking off to hardcore porn, smoking cigarettes, smoking hash, watch gore videos

i'll burn all my dopamine receptors so i feel nothing no more
MPZwIv.gif
you said that before didnt you bro?
 
good luck, takes lots of effort especially for incels who thrive on coping
 
Please postmaxxers read this, I dedicated a huge amount of time to write this.

1 week ago I posted this thread below

and everyone started to say that: "this is stupid", "this won't work" , "cope", "dopamine detox is bullshit", "the only self improvements that make sense are the ones that improve looks like surgerymaxx, seamaxx, gymmaxx, etc".

What really bothers me is that everything for you is cope...
If a person wants to improve his life is cope and if a person wants to play video game all day is cope.
If anything is cope then why don't you cope with something that is really worth it instead of just LDAR?

One week ago I decided that I'll change my life and stop playing video games. tbh it has been 8 years that I've been playing videos games and I don't remember the last time I stopped playing for 1 week and I don't remember the last time I studied for 1 week tbh.
This time I really want to change my life. I got tired of playing video games and don't do anything all day.
I didn't have any hobby beyond gaming. I didn't enjoy playing videos games anymore... I just played because I didn't have anything more interesting to do in my life, but in my inside I had a wish to do something different. I always wanted to be the others, but I've never been anyone beyond me. Now I stopped trying to be anyone's else and I'm trying to be what I should be since the beginning... be myself. What I'm doing now I feel that I should be doing this for years, but the gaming addiction and laziness was destroying my life and stopping me to know new hobbies and new ways to enjoy my life. I was feeling always tired and depressed and now I'm feeling a little bit happier.
All these occupations made me a happier person at the end of the day. It's pretty satisfying at the end of the day you reward yourself for everything you've done.

In 1 week I started to:

Study English and Math
Write a journal
Read the bible
Meditate
and I learned how to solve the Rubik's cube.

The Rubik's cube was a perfect activity to replace gaming and It's my new hobby right now.

I have a graph of how many minutes I've been dedicating to my studies.

View attachment 235323
17/03 I tried to study a little, but unfortunately I didn't continue to study...

It has been 7 days that I'm dedicating some minutes of my day to study and it's a little now, but after a month when it becomes an habit I'll be studying like a demon.

I never put so much effort in something like this before and I was never disciplined in my life and I'm trying to develop this skill now. All my previous projects were abandoned due to laziness, lack of motivation and gaming. After I created my journal I started to develop self-discipline because I was beginning to understand myself. All my thoughts, feelings, frustrations, victories and failures are being recorded there and when I read my journal I know how to improve myself because I know what mistakes I made yesterday. I've always been shy and when I started to write I started to notice things about myself that I never had noticed before.

After a month I'll be back to show you the graph again and new things I will have learned.

I'm recording my journey on Game Quitters https://forum.gamequitters.com/index.php?/topic/8670-edfechs-journal/&tab=comments#
This journal is more simplified than my personal one that I created on Evernote.

Let's keep fighting
keep it up brocel
 
If all that studying and self-reflection doesn't pay off by actually advancing your life in some meaningful way, it's as big of a waste as video games.
 
Best of luck to you @Edfech
 
not for me bro, i'll kep playing vidya, jerking off to hardcore porn, smoking cigarettes, smoking hash, watch gore videos

i'll burn all my dopamine receptors so i feel nothing no more
MPZwIv.gif
Based.
 
If all that studying and self-reflection doesn't pay off by actually advancing your life in some meaningful way, it's as big of a waste as video games.
If you try to study for an exam and do not pass the first time then it was a big waste of time and you should have played video games instead of studying.
non sense
 
I've been without gaming for months and nothing happened with me.
did you try to replace some bad habits for good ones?
have you tried to fill the time you used to play to do something different?
 
How do you start? How do you get it of a lazy rut like u did where u just play Vidya
 
How do you get it of a lazy rut like u did where u just play Vidya
do you mean how did I get out of my lazy routine and stopped playing video games suddenly?
 
not for me bro, i'll kep playing vidya, jerking off to hardcore porn, smoking cigarettes, smoking hash, watch gore videos

i'll burn all my dopamine receptors so i feel nothing no more
MPZwIv.gif
 
not for me bro, i'll kep playing vidya, jerking off to hardcore porn, smoking cigarettes, smoking hash, watch gore videos

i'll burn all my dopamine receptors so i feel nothing no more
MPZwIv.gif
My man! That's how it done. I cant abide by the moral fags that say we shouldn't tap to porn etc. Fuck off cunts! Nothing wrong with coping. In any which way we choose.
 
@FastBananaCEO
A few seconds ago I didn't know what rut means...
Well, I just replaced gaming for something that interested me like the Rubik's cube...
in the first day I passed at least 4 hours trying to learn the algorithms to solve the cube.
Unfortunately I didn't solve in the first day, but I already knew 80% of the algorithms to solve it then in the next day I had dedicated most of my time to learn the 20% that has left. When I learned to solve it I decided that every time that I feel like playing video games, I would try to solve the Rubik's cube, but of course I would do that just after I finish all my daily tasks.
If you do not have a cube, you can try to play chess...
there is a site called https://www.chess.com/home there you can solve chess puzzle and play against anyone around the world.
 
do you mean how did I get out of my lazy routine and stopped playing video games suddenly?
Ye. How do you start. I feel like I would try tostart stopping and then just give up
 
My man! That's how it done. I cant abide by the moral fags that say we shouldn't tap to porn etc. Fuck off cunts! Nothing wrong with coping. In any which way we choose.
Then cope until you die...
nobody is telling you to stop coping.
 
Then cope until you die...
nobody is telling you to stop coping.
I know mate. That wasn't a dig at you or anything. Congrats on your achievement. It was in reference to threads ive seen before on folks preaching to us all about our copes.
 
I know mate. That wasn't a dig at you or anything. Congrats on your achievement. It was in reference to threads ive seen before on folks preaching to us all about our copes.
I know...
I just can't understand hedonisticcels that wish pleasure all the time, but at the same time is having suicidal thoughts and anxiety all day
If you do not try to change it to be better, you're probably going to kill yourself in 10 years because life is more than pleasure and girls
 
Please postmaxxers read this, I dedicated a huge amount of time to write this.

1 week ago I posted this thread below

and everyone started to say that: "this is stupid", "this won't work" , "cope", "dopamine detox is bullshit", "the only self improvements that make sense are the ones that improve looks like surgerymaxx, seamaxx, gymmaxx, etc".

What really bothers me is that everything for you is cope...
If a person wants to improve his life is cope and if a person wants to play video game all day is cope.
If anything is cope then why don't you cope with something that is really worth it instead of just LDAR?

One week ago I decided that I'll change my life and stop playing video games. tbh it has been 8 years that I've been playing videos games and I don't remember the last time I stopped playing for 1 week and I don't remember the last time I studied for 1 week tbh.
This time I really want to change my life. I got tired of playing video games and don't do anything all day.
I didn't have any hobby beyond gaming. I didn't enjoy playing videos games anymore... I just played because I didn't have anything more interesting to do in my life, but in my inside I had a wish to do something different. I always wanted to be the others, but I've never been anyone beyond me. Now I stopped trying to be anyone's else and I'm trying to be what I should be since the beginning... be myself. What I'm doing now I feel that I should be doing this for years, but the gaming addiction and laziness was destroying my life and stopping me to know new hobbies and new ways to enjoy my life. I was feeling always tired and depressed and now I'm feeling a little bit happier.
All these occupations made me a happier person at the end of the day. It's pretty satisfying at the end of the day you reward yourself for everything you've done.

In 1 week I started to:

Study English and Math
Write a journal
Read the bible
Meditate
and I learned how to solve the Rubik's cube.

The Rubik's cube was a perfect activity to replace gaming and It's my new hobby right now.

I have a graph of how many minutes I've been dedicating to my studies.

View attachment 235323
17/03 I tried to study a little, but unfortunately I didn't continue to study...

It has been 7 days that I'm dedicating some minutes of my day to study and it's a little now, but after a month when it becomes an habit I'll be studying like a demon.

I never put so much effort in something like this before and I was never disciplined in my life and I'm trying to develop this skill now. All my previous projects were abandoned due to laziness, lack of motivation and gaming. After I created my journal I started to develop self-discipline because I was beginning to understand myself. All my thoughts, feelings, frustrations, victories and failures are being recorded there and when I read my journal I know how to improve myself because I know what mistakes I made yesterday. I've always been shy and when I started to write I started to notice things about myself that I never had noticed before.

After a month I'll be back to show you the graph again and new things I will have learned.

I'm recording my journey on Game Quitters https://forum.gamequitters.com/index.php?/topic/8670-edfechs-journal/&tab=comments#
This journal is more simplified than my personal one that I created on Evernote.

Let's keep fighting
That's good, man. Do not let anybody downplay or undermine what you are doing. I know what is like to have a gaming addiction, and it is as bad as any other. Change occurs little by little. It does not matter if you are successful or not in regards to romantic life or anything, really. What matters is that you have tried to change and positively alter your life.
 
did you try to replace some bad habits for good ones?
have you tried to fill the time you used to play to do something different?
Yep, still nothing tbh.
 
Planned to rest from internet those days and go gaming, but free tinder pasport gave duty to use it
 
All I did during that time was homework and gymming.
you did that for obligation or you really wanted to do that?
did you have a definite goal?
 
you did that for obligation or you really wanted to do that?
did you have a definite goal?
I don't have any goals except making it in college.
 
Good luck w everything
 

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