Firstly I acknowledge that all incels are also volcels. We are incel only in respect to the type of sex we desire to have according to our aesthetic, legal and/pr moral standards. This is a form of cope, but truthful cope, and it makes you feel more in control and less of a victim than identifying solely with 'involuntary' does.
I'm 29 with 30 coming this year. I have to pay to spend time with a woman. It's the only thing that keeps me sane.
I've never done that, I think I would rage existing in a state of assuming a woman was only with me because I paid her. In that state you hope on a slim chance she might like you in spite of that.
Nothing is certain, but I require unpaid company: where I have a higher likelihood believing in the higher chance that she's not with me for material compensation, although that is obviously ALWAYS a possibility that a foid is gambling on future resource exploitation from you.
That has led to me not easily getting company, but I would rather not waste my money, I don't have much of it.
I go crazy and rage if I don't see a woman for long enough,
or I cry that I'm such a loser and women will only be around me if I pay them.
Continuing to pay foids for company will always lead to the latter, you should stop. You're part of the problem, you are a betabuxx orbiter enabler BIDDY.
If a foid doesn't want to appreciate us for who we are, we shouldn't want their fake validation. I'd rather be alone than have a prostitute try to mislead me.
If I were to dip my toe in this water, it might be something like "I'll try an escort one or two times to give her the chance to know me, and then stop paying her and see if she still wants to hang out with me".
THAT could be somewhat acceptable. It's like paying for the first date or two with a foid. But DON'T fucking do it indefinitely, because you need to actually test whether she legitimately likes you, and do it sooner than later.
I've been toying with this idea but never actually done it. I hate the idea and know it won't likely produce anything good. Chad definitely doesn't have to do shit like that, so why should I?
Odds are she will not, or even if she did slightly like you, she will value exploiting you for money as higher-priority than building a friendship with you. If so: she will only bring you pain in the long run.
There seems to be no escaping unhappiness anymore. I always told myself I would rope if I reach 30 and still don't have a girl.
Can you even tie a knot bro?
You won't escape unhappiness if you focus so much on foids to attain it.
There will always be a hole in our hearts that we want a foid to fill, but we should build scar tissue around that abcess with hobbies and skills to be proud of, past-times which don't revolve around them.
Ironically enough, this will also maximize your chances of a foid actually liking you since you're not so need, you will boost from a 0.014% chance of success in love to a 0.088% chance of success in love. This is over 6x as likely to succeed.
Now time to bring the other oldcels in here... @frustratedhapa @FrustratedWhiteMale @Mainländer @Emba @Bangkok or bust @Red Pill Rage @VirginAutistManlet @Legendarywristcel @Angry_runt @Speed @Ryo_Hazuki @mylifeistrash
Share with the rest of us on how you handle being an oldcel.
Senpai didn't acknowledge me
Even when I chose my username last year specifically to highlight what an oldcel I am
