The reason why so many woman divorce despite living in the era of choosing based on looks is because a lot of them settle for subpar looks.
No, it's because nothing is ever good enough for female biology, this is why there was a "natural cap" on their standards (men forcing women to be with them). We've removed the cap but the biology is still the same, so now we have something that never had a limit on it to begin with running rampant without it's natural counterpart that forcefully limited it (patriarchy)
Had they been able to get a man with good enough looks, they wouldn’t divorce, and that’s probably what happened in that other half of marriages that didn’t divorce.
80% of divorces are initiated by women
90% of divorces are initiated by college educated women
The #1 reason cited for divorces is "financial problems"
You can look up everything I said.
Women value looks, but not as much as resources. The problem today is that they can get their own resources (which isn't natural) so they want men to have double their resources, and only 15% of the entire US population (men, women, gay men, gay women, etc) makes 75K+ annually (for 100K+ it's 10%).
These women are divorce because women are designed to always want in excess, men are designed to claim women for themselves and place a cap on women's desires, men are no longer allowed to carry out their part of the equation whereas women's natural instincts go unhindered.
That's the problem.
Women didn't evolve to be "reasonable" or have "reasonable standards", men were the ones that imposed reason and limitations onto women's lives and the decisions they could make. Without those limiting factors, most women will never be satisfied because they'll always think "I can do better".
A man loved by his money is not really being loved, his friends and lovers are all fake, they want his money, not him. A man loved by his looks is actually wanted around, women want to be around him, even if it is for selfish reasons like pleasuring their own sight. That alone makes looks based relationships better imo.
There's no such thing as "love".
And honestly I’ve always thought about a frugal ascetic life as superior. Needing less to be happy allows you to not have to work so hard to get a big house or an expensive car, instead you just buy what you need and spend the rest of your time doing what you want.
Frugal doesn't mean broke. Frugal is about how you spend money, not how much money you make/have.
So maybe rich incel life is really better, tho I have no idea how to even pursue such a life, giving my unfortunate country of birth.
You must live in Brazil or Mexico or something