The miss of affective is very pain, i dont know how can i go right if i remain alone for the rest of my life. I ask to people that are more old than me, how do you life?
Video games.
well, music and drugs, for me. i still enjoy watching films, too.
I don't live. I survive
dunno just keep on going till death I guess
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Bouldering, Anime , Video games, piano, cooming
I've persisted more than a decade beyond you OP, the secret is to play games and anime and watch cool TV shows, open your mind to a variety and don't let your standards oppress you.
Finding new cope potions is like with girls, if we can widen our standards beyond the scope of traditional normy discrimination for girls then why not for hobbies too for when girls can't be achieved?
sophisticates me
You're not 23
I'm 24 and it gets harder every year. People advance in their lives and I feel stuck.
The moment copes start to be ineffective, reality will crush me.
The moment copes start to be ineffective, reality will crush me.
Lives me
I was on heroin pretty much all thru my 20s, you could try that but it does have drawbacks.
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Music and studying
just sharing how i cope
I'll be 26 in June, still a virgin, never had GF, whole 9 yards, you know the drill.
A few things keep me going:
- Christian faith: #1 reason. I genuinely don't know how a non Christian goes this far like this. The Christian life teaches you to accept suffering and understand that it draws you closer to the Passion of Christ. Also, I live now to worship, to partake in sacraments, and to do my bit as directed in the Great Commission. The suffering of the truecel is too much to bear without Christ's help IMO. Blows my mind how you guys do it.
- Parents: I have a good set of parents, love both my mother and father, I want to take care of them since they've taken care of me so well. They don't deserve to lose the son they love.
- Money/future father maxxing: I've made for myself a pretty nice life with my engineering degree - owning a home and a nice car, having alot of money and capital to throw around. I'm preparing myself to lead my future family, should I ever get one. I'm on pace to have my wife (should I ever get one) be able to be a housewife and raise our children with tons of money left over. I've prepared myself to lead a woman, should one ever want to be led.
- Hobbies: Playing guitar and gaming still manage to distract me from time to time. They're far from sufficient on their own, but supplementally, they help me survive.
I'll say to you that age 22-23 is when it really got HOPELESS for me, since that's when I became a full time wagie. It will likely only get worse before it gets any better (if it ever does). You're in for a long road ahead of you. The lack of intimacy is the worst. There will be irredeemable damage, nothing you can do.
A few things keep me going:
- Christian faith: #1 reason. I genuinely don't know how a non Christian goes this far like this. The Christian life teaches you to accept suffering and understand that it draws you closer to the Passion of Christ. Also, I live now to worship, to partake in sacraments, and to do my bit as directed in the Great Commission. The suffering of the truecel is too much to bear without Christ's help IMO. Blows my mind how you guys do it.
- Parents: I have a good set of parents, love both my mother and father, I want to take care of them since they've taken care of me so well. They don't deserve to lose the son they love.
- Money/future father maxxing: I've made for myself a pretty nice life with my engineering degree - owning a home and a nice car, having alot of money and capital to throw around. I'm preparing myself to lead my future family, should I ever get one. I'm on pace to have my wife (should I ever get one) be able to be a housewife and raise our children with tons of money left over. I've prepared myself to lead a woman, should one ever want to be led.
- Hobbies: Playing guitar and gaming still manage to distract me from time to time. They're far from sufficient on their own, but supplementally, they help me survive.
I'll say to you that age 22-23 is when it really got HOPELESS for me, since that's when I became a full time wagie. It will likely only get worse before it gets any better (if it ever does). You're in for a long road ahead of you. The lack of intimacy is the worst. There will be irredeemable damage, nothing you can do.
It sucks, you just rotate copes
Wouldn't say attached, but we're on good terms. My family is a bunch of losers, they don't expect much of me or my brother. My brother's also had a GF before so they got to experience that through him. My father was an alcoholic at my age and my mom still to this day has no ambition to do anything.
The worst they ever did to me was tell people I was gay.
Your parents don’t accept ya and but I do I’m glad ya don’t need them telling their friends your gay because you can’t get a girlfriend shows how the world judge men on their ability to get women
As a 24 y/o incel, I am trying to careermax to use money to buy copes. I'm not using the money to betabux.
Classes, hopes that I can escortmaxx in the future, vidya, fapping and weed.
Antidepressants
Also movies, music. Planning to petmaxx eventually.
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Online gaming is a good cope. You just have to know when to indulge in it. It helps when there are more frequent updates to the games too.
I'd like to christianmax but I'm literally unable to have any kind of faith whatsoever. I just can't blindly believe in those biblical figures and it pains me because I know being a believer will ease the pain and improve mood.
Try being 30 like me. It doesn't get better.
Though there is alot of faith (an in the end, that is the true idea), there is also alot of valid evidence for Christianity, especially early NT days. More bibles have been found in ancient rome than pretty much every other piece of literature combined. There were 500+ verifiable testifiable witnesses to seeing Christ after he was killed. Even the most scumbag of soy historians admit the romans killed "a man called Christ". Yes there is tons of faith, but there are many to be faithful with.
Shiva took the wheel
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You got me there for a second with those stars.
Around age 15, I started to understand that people found me unattractive and that the girls I liked at school would never return the attention or affection.
Rejections piled up and I LDARed until 23 - the only thing I kept going were my studies.
At 23 I started wageslaving full time and study part time after about 3 months of hikkikomorimaxxing.
I decided to moneymaxx after I got a taste of whoremaxxing.
Age 25 I started having to look after my brother who is a schizocel.
Age 27 I bought my own house and started mortgageslaving.
At age 30, I reached a milestone when I promised myself I'd start planning surgerymaxx.
Age 34 this year and my surgeries are under way.
I would say my saddest and angriest years were 17 to 22. Things got easier as my 20s progressed. I think it's my work and my copes that helped tbh.
Rejections piled up and I LDARed until 23 - the only thing I kept going were my studies.
At 23 I started wageslaving full time and study part time after about 3 months of hikkikomorimaxxing.
I decided to moneymaxx after I got a taste of whoremaxxing.
Age 25 I started having to look after my brother who is a schizocel.
Age 27 I bought my own house and started mortgageslaving.
At age 30, I reached a milestone when I promised myself I'd start planning surgerymaxx.
Age 34 this year and my surgeries are under way.
I would say my saddest and angriest years were 17 to 22. Things got easier as my 20s progressed. I think it's my work and my copes that helped tbh.
Decided to copy elliot rodger and financed a new BMW so I drive that thing and try and pretend I'm a chad
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