regardless trying to "ascend" as a genuine incel is a time and money pit for no return.
and you realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze, if you think once you get a girlfriend you are home free, you've actually just started. getting a girlfriend is actually the easy part.
you will have to constantly entertain her, make her feel "loved" (whatever her perception of that is), deal with shit test such as her wanting to "go out with male friends, you don't have a problem with that right? you aren't insecure are you?", buy her gifts, pay for things constantly for her, and worst of all is compete with other men 24/7 to even keep her. list goes on and on.
as an incel if you magically got a girlfriend tomorrow you would be put through living hell trying to keep her. like i said, you realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze.