GooberMcKee
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I find common patterns among the background of incels and it's not just looks, there's a whole set of things stacked against us. A lot of it includes poverty, lack of opportunities, and shitty parents. I noticed that a lot of "autistic" people come from shitty backgrounds as well. Looking back for me, it's:
1. Growing up with neglectful parents, lack of medical care, and malnutrition which affected my height, musculature and bone structure, and overall health
2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism
3. Nobody seems to have close friends or even really friends at all in my immediate family, and my extended family is also antisocial. Neither me or my siblings are married even though we are aged 30-40.
4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.
4. Intergenerational trauma. My grandma was a mistress and had my mom, so they were treated like shit by society. From what I heard, my grandma didn't really stick around to be a mother to her kids and spent a lot of her "husbands" money to travel and enjoy life while she dumped her kids onto an illiterate nanny who comes from a trashy background. Mom grew up antisocial and with no social skills, and talks like she's from the trailer park.
5. My dad was barely around though he didn't abandon my mom, so me and my siblings grew up lacking a strong male role model and father figure. My siblings hate our dad. Mom and dad got together because dad thought she was hot, mom got him by getting knocked up (unintentionally).
That's how I became an incel. It's like I never had a chance. What's your story?
1. Growing up with neglectful parents, lack of medical care, and malnutrition which affected my height, musculature and bone structure, and overall health
2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism
3. Nobody seems to have close friends or even really friends at all in my immediate family, and my extended family is also antisocial. Neither me or my siblings are married even though we are aged 30-40.
4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.
4. Intergenerational trauma. My grandma was a mistress and had my mom, so they were treated like shit by society. From what I heard, my grandma didn't really stick around to be a mother to her kids and spent a lot of her "husbands" money to travel and enjoy life while she dumped her kids onto an illiterate nanny who comes from a trashy background. Mom grew up antisocial and with no social skills, and talks like she's from the trailer park.
5. My dad was barely around though he didn't abandon my mom, so me and my siblings grew up lacking a strong male role model and father figure. My siblings hate our dad. Mom and dad got together because dad thought she was hot, mom got him by getting knocked up (unintentionally).
That's how I became an incel. It's like I never had a chance. What's your story?