Men like you say this but cheat on the "ace virgin tradwife" with the woman that rides you, throws it back at you and ravishes you. Go ask married men, duty starfish sex gets tiring at some point and starts feeling like grape. Men want to be desired too.
And guess what, It's a well known axiom now that older woman are better lays because they are more experienced and know what to do and what they want , virgins are mostly clueless and often sexually repressed/ asexual. You're gonna get starfish sex that dwindles in quantity and quality as the years go by with a "good" virgin, or a dead bedroom with a repressed asexual self-interested one.
That study is often used by redpillers to support their argument but somehow I've never seen it replicated, it was done by National Family Association (or so,not sure if I'm correct), a traditional conservative organization with a vested interest in promoting virginity and anti promiscuity; not that that's a bad thing, but with how limited information there is out there on the subject of the methodology that was used in that study, the limitations and overall data. And also that there's no national or statewide study/ survey that has laid any credence to that study, that may as well just be confirmation bias and not worth much.
I mean it doesn't take much logic to figure out that women who have ridden the CC and are size queens or love variety will cheat on the average man. Yes but virgins come with their own set of problems and limitations too except they're sexually positive and want to explore their sexualities ( Newsflash: women like this do not stay virgins)
So there's pros and cons to this, the problem is you wanna get married by hook and crook, but there's a 50% chance it goes up in flames in most countries, and if you get that elusive trad virgin girl you'll most likely get a miserable sexless marriage with a woman who'll close shop after kids because that's what religion has brainwashed her into believing i.e sex is for kids.
It's not like I want a run through woman that my dick feels like a trip through the Holland Tunnel, I just won't be mad if they've got a couple partners in their past since Most GUYS ARE HORNY AND TRYING TO FUCK BY HOOK OR CROOK, and I'm trying to get mine too. Very importantly I'm not marriage minded.