Serious You're just as happy as most people

[RopeMaXXer]

From evolutionary standpoint becoming content is a death sentence. It means you stop progressing and improving.
To live is to struggle, and I don't mean it in some faggy philosophical sense. It's literally a struggle to live and you live to struggle.

In any case, whenever something good happens, you always revert to baseline happiness eventually. You're always experiencing some mediocre slight sadness to minor upticks in mood. That's life for the most part. You're probably coming up with some elaborate dream scenarions that would force me to concede that you'd be happier in that reality. And you're right, you would be. But you'd not appreciate it in a year, and in two you'd get angry at your model girlfriend for bothering you when you're playing videogames.

Now there is something to be said about how this whole happiness level works when you're deprived of basic needs. However I still stand by my opinion for the most part

And here's the final blackpill. If you create your identity around how sad and dark you are, you're not only not interesting/unique you also have no personality to speak of.

 

[jerrycan dan]

high IQ post

 

[Deleted member 5712]

For average people I guess you could say this but we aren't average. The people that post here are under basically everything you would consider "normal" in life from the spectrum to financial, educational, and social success. Incels stagnate and tend to dwell on the inevitable shit that is their whole life so we never get back to any sort of "baseline" because there was never one there to begin with. I think you mind be confusing a baseline of happiness with just accepting your shitty reality. And that is something we all do here.

>If you create your identity around how sad and dark you are, you're not only not interesting/unique you also have no personality to speak of.
What? You just basically described over half of all the artists working. Poets. Musicians. Painters. That is how they fucking make their money by how unique/dark they are and it is something interesting to look into "their world" by the outside normies.

 

[RopeMaXXer]

For average people I guess you could say this but we aren't average. The people that post here are under basically everything you would consider "normal" in life from the spectrum to financial, educational, and social success. Incels stagnate and tend to dwell on the inevitable shit that is their whole life so we never get back to any sort of "baseline" because there was never one there to begin with. I think you mind be confusing a baseline of happiness with just accepting your shitty reality. And that is something we all do here

I suppose baseline happiness works both ways. Once you come to terms with your subhumanity it slowly gets better

What? You just basically described over half of all the artists working. Poets. Musicians. Painters. That is how they fucking make their money by how unique/dark they are and it is something interesting to look into "their world" by the outside normies.

Poets had to do something other than dude im sad lmao. Painters display their skill. Musicians try to get a nice hook in their song that gets stuck in your ear. Tool and Nine Inch Nails aren't famous for their texts.

 

[Mainländer]

But the true benefit of getting what you really want is not permanent happiness (won't happen no matter what), but rather freedom.

You can do like Siddhartha Gautama did and honestly say to yourself "I've gotten all I ever could want in terms of hedonistic pleasure and I'm not fulfilled", and then depart to some big time endeavor.

It's very hard to find your true higher purpose in the world when you're still stuck with "what must it feel like to date and fuck a 14 yo virgin girl? Man, I bet it must be awesome".

 

[RopeMaXXer]

But the true benefit of getting what you really want is not permanent happiness (won't happen no matter what), but rather freedom.

You can do like Siddhartha Gautama did and honestly say to yourself "I've gotten all I ever could want in terms of hedonistic pleasure and I'm not fulfilled", and then depart to some big time endeavor.

It's very hard to find your true higher purpose in the world when you're still stuck with "what must it feel like to date and fuck a 14 yo virgin girl? Man, I bet it must be awesome".

Ever thought about becoming a camp counselor. That's pretty much the only way you can get close to foids like that in acceptable setting. I know you'd probably not be able to fuck them there directly. But there's always social butteflys that have thing for the mentor type and might actively try to stay in contact with you.
Or maybe im just being too optimistic

 

[Mainländer]

Ever thought about becoming a camp counselor. That's pretty much the only way you can get close to foids like that in acceptable setting. I know you'd probably not be able to fuck them there directly. But there's always social butteflys that have thing for the mentor type and might actively try to stay in contact with you.
Or maybe im just being too optimistic

I was already around foids like that in those kinds of positions, I was a teacher.

It's nightmare to be close to them but not allowed to do anything with them. I quit being a teacher mainly because of it tbh.

 

[RopeMaXXer]

I was already around foids like that in those kinds of positions, I was a teacher.

It's nightmare to be close to them but not allowed to do anything with them. I quit being a teacher mainly because of it tbh.

Well Camp Counselor is alot looser and doesn't have the gay laws around it.
Do you have a reasonable plan? You're only going to get older bro.

 

[Manletmancer]

To some extent you're right, but remember base happiness also fluctuates, and with things like depression it drops really low. Exercise, supplements, and a good diet will raise your BASE happiness.

 

[Mainländer]

Do you have a reasonable plan? You're only going to get older bro.

My best plan is still the cosplay one. I can at least kiss a JB if that works.

I was looking for cosplay wigs in a foreign site and the prices were great but then the delivery taxes were enormous. I'm going to look for one in a national site now.