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You're gonna have to deal with the cards you've been given.

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So you are ugly, raised by a single mom or other shit parenting, got autism, got bullied in school, have no friends or social circle whatsoever. Whatever caused you to be incel, it was outside of your control. Nobody would ever consciously choose to become an incel, so how could it ever be our fault we are in the situation we are in right now?

All the normies or inceltear-cucks saying this was your fault? Fucking bullshit. You got dealt a shit hand in life and life naturally developed in such way that you are now looking at this topic, most likely unhappy with the way your life currently is. Dreams shattered, lost hope in the world, self-esteem issues, depressed, lonely, or who knows what. We are victims of things that were outside of our control.

Now whatsup with the title of this topic?
The shit hand you were dealt in life, the shit situation you're in right now. Nobody is going to fix it for you. Nobody is going to go like: 'Hey, this guy got fucked by this world, let's help turn his life around so that there is justice in this world.'

No, you're gonna have to deal with the cards you've been dealt with. So you are ugly outside of your control, but you crave love from a woman? It ain't gonna come by itself. Accept that you weren't born as chad. This world isn't fair and we got unlucky.

You're most likely thinking: 'Fuck this guy, I am never going to get a girlfriend, girls rejected me, fuck this shit earth.' And you're right, you're emotions are real and this is a valid response to the injustice in this shit world. 

But then think, is this helping you in becoming a more happy person? It will allow you to cope for another day, but tomorrow, you will have to say the same thing. And the day after: Nothing is changing. How long have you been bitter at this world and stopped putting in effort, gave up trying?

You have the tools to escape inceldom: Looksmaxing and NT-maxing. The most important: Stop hating yourself for the life you have lived so far and the things you don't like about it. This shit is not your fault, but it's only you who has a chance at getting out of this. It's not going to be easy, but if you put the work in every day you might reach your goal. A much higher chance of reaching your goal than when you don't do anything, even when the odds are slim. Every day you work a slight amount towards your goal: Looksmaxing and social exposure to get a gf.

Maybe one day you will look like this:
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. That might be the best you can get to, maybe not even that, maybe better than that, who knows. 

We all know how important looks are. At the end of a day, what's better than to say: 'today I did my best to reach my goal of getting a gf, becoming good-looking, getting social validation. I might not be chad, I will probably never become chad, but I did my best.'

Your goal is to get that hot gf everyone wants, your end-result might be that you get a landwhale. But you will be able to tell yourself you did your best, you worked hard for it, you did the best you could with the hand you were dealt with. 

You will not have to ever feel bad about yourself, you're a fucking champion.
 
That's true. I'm doing the best I can, despite knowing that it might be for nothing. Whatever I do, it's to improve my personal life. To be healthier, wealthier, etc. Shit, a lot of guys who get married end up not doing what they want in life because their wife and kids take most of his income. We don't have that problem. After divorce, a woman can take your house, that's a ton of invested money that you lose just because of some woman who took you on for a ride. We don't have that problem.

On the other hand, I fully respect incels who decide to clock out and not do anything. That's their decision.
 
I'm at the point where I idolize incel lifestyle and mindset such as LDARing. It's fucking over.
 
I don't know, unless you have tumors growing out your nose there is probably a strong mental component to our problems. No doubt being attractive helps, but you don't have to be a world class writer to pass English 101. Why do women divorce and throw away Chads? Happens every day.
 
The only card I have is streetshitting, now please tell me how should I use it to become a champion?
 
I'm an almost friendless 5'8 manlet with a 5/10 face I have depression,anxiety issues and trust issues.


It's over
 
KyloRen said:
That's true. I'm doing the best I can, despite knowing that it might be for nothing. Whatever I do, it's to improve my personal life. To be healthier, wealthier, etc. Shit, a lot of guys who get married end up not doing what they want in life because their wife and kids take most of his income. We don't have that problem. After divorce, a woman can take your house, that's a ton of invested money that you lose just because of some woman who took you on for a ride. We don't have that problem.

On the other hand, I fully respect incels who decide to clock out and not do anything. That's their decision.

That's a good attitude man. Despite that being an incel sucks, in the end you only make yourself feel bad by only looking at the negatives. There's a few positive aspects of being an incel aswell.
 
lol my boy alex Leonidas from alphadestiny became a meme at this place
 
42cel said:
I'm at the point where I idolize incel lifestyle and mindset such as LDARing. It's fucking over.

If that's how you think and you are happy that way, why not.

However, I think somewhere deep on the inside, you have some things you want to experience, some things you want to do in life, some things you want to improve in life. Start small. Maybe you will prefer LDARing by looking at a 40 inch TV all day instead of the 32 inch TV you're looking at right now. Set a goal and find a way to achieve it. Maybe you will achieve it, maybe you will give up half-way. But I am sure you will feel better when you achieve it.
 
been there, done that. Go fuck yourself.
 
chudur-budur said:
The only card I have is streetshitting, now please tell me how should I use it to become a champion?

I don't think streetshitting is going to make you become a champion unfortunately. If those are the cards you hold, then that's a shitty situation.  ;)

However I am sure you have other qualities you don't currently appreciate of yourself that can help you achieve the things you want to achieve. And even when you don't, what is there to lose if you try to develop these qualities when you don't like your current life? Life won't get worse, and there might be a slight chance it gets better.
 
SlayOrDie said:
I don't think streetshitting is going to make you become a champion unfortunately. If those are the cards you hold, then that's a shitty situation.  ;)

What do you mean? I am one of the very few curries here in this forum who are professional streetshitters. What made you think streetshitting can't make someone champion?
 
So what would you say about the low iq+ugly combo?
 
What about mentalcels like me? I can't connect or relate to other people. I doubt that being good looking alone can fix shit like that.
 
If you choose to be celibate, you’re...volcel!
 
I think almost everyone here has tried for a long time and is still trying. You're not adding anything to the discussion.

To ask for "their best' every day is asking for too much. Everyone goes through down periods.
 
"Try for the right kind of life
I only wish that you'd had a chance to decide
Have a look around you there's no-one there
How can you call this fair"

"Not to blame
No-one's telling you you're not to blame
Things around they just don't feel the same
And I don't recognise this person that still remains"

[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8vY64fwrlk[/video]
 
grayjedi90 said:
What about mentalcels like me? I can't connect or relate to other people. I doubt that being good looking alone can fix shit like that.

ironically, I find this very relatable.
 

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