Bluepillers will often tell how women can sense your desperation and that's why you're an incel. That is outright wrong. Every single boy whose puberty hits in starts to seek validation from women. It's human nature to seek validation, it's not some negative phenomenon that is only found in incels. If "male desperation" makes men incels then every high school boy would be an incel. Chad love female attention and validation as well. It's just that he found out he can get it anytime and anywhere from any woman and that's why they have a more cHiLlEd vIbE, to use normspeak. Chad is confident because he is validated, only for the virtue of being good-looking. His personality developed afterwards. They're confident because they get female attention, not the other way around. An incel can therefore never be confident when it comes to dating because he never gets validation.
